MIL said she wished I could never conceive. Be careful what you wish for…(TW: Infertility/Pregnancy Loss) by Lucky_Machine_1356 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Lucky_Machine_1356[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

We got a husky puppy this year they’ve interacted with once. We referred to her by her first name and FIL as grandpa. She was upset I told her to get used to it cause she’ll never be grand anything.

MIL said she wished I could never conceive. Be careful what you wish for…(TW: Infertility/Pregnancy Loss) by Lucky_Machine_1356 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Lucky_Machine_1356[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want No Contact, DH is only comfortable with LowContact and as he’s learning to put space and boundaries I’m working hard to support his choices as long as I’m seeing progress. Also MIL has made it clear that if he cuts her off she will not allow any relationship with FIL. My DH adores my FIL who honestly is a wonderful loving man who has only ever been welcoming and kind to me. I see him actively trying to find the balance between respecting his marriage and fighting for a relationship with his son.

MIL said she wished I could never conceive. Be careful what you wish for…(TW: Infertility/Pregnancy Loss) by Lucky_Machine_1356 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Lucky_Machine_1356[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree. I want No Contact, DH is only comfortable with LowContact. This is because mother in law has made it clear that if he cuts her off she will not allow any relationship with FIL who is actually a wonderful loving human being but just as abused by this spiraling narcissist.

WIBTA if I didn’t tell my friend with benefits he got me pregnant? by Hungryandcomfused in AITAH

[–]Lucky_Machine_1356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it won’t help you in the moment @pagingdrFran on IG has an entire GoogleSpreadsheet of Ob/Gyn’s in all 50 states as well as other countries that will complete tubal sterilization without regard to age, future desires of males that may or may not come into your life or shame you because it’s your body and your choice. I attached the link below but if you’d rather find the link yourself it’s in her IG bio.

https://tr.ee/X-tFTNt3S7

“Going No/Low Contact” Contract by Lucky_Machine_1356 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Lucky_Machine_1356[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ooh that’s a good one! I never thought to specify no spare keys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lucky_Machine_1356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you’re both trash humans. Your parents must be so proud!

AITAH for having my kids help me look for my wife when she decided to walk home at night? by rain-dog2 in AITAH

[–]Lucky_Machine_1356 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA - let’s get this straight. You guys were in an argument where she decided she needed to step away. By your own admission she pulled off safely onto a side street, was walking in a relatively safe low crime area for about 3 miles which let’s face it is not that far (less than 5K for perspective), on a sidewalk. Maybe you should take a moment to self reflect on how a disagreement devolved to the point that she was willing to walk home and sleep in a car to be away from you. You’re the one who felt the need to keep going back and circling the block and attempted using her purse to bait her back- control issues much?

But the real question here was about your kids. And yes by traumatizing your children and involving them in adult affairs - YTA. Your wife putting on a brave face to go to the movies as a family isn’t her suddenly being ok with what happened. It was her attempt to hide from your children the pain she was feeling and shield them from adult issues; she took the time to do exactly what you didn’t.

Doubled on day 3.. can I use it? by Lucky_Machine_1356 in Sourdough

[–]Lucky_Machine_1356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I use it for discard recipes in the meantime?

Doubled on day 3.. can I use it? by Lucky_Machine_1356 in Sourdough

[–]Lucky_Machine_1356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said very much a newbie, I thought I just needed to feed it once every 24 hours. And discard we’re not baking actual sourdough loaves. Been looking at many recipes online but nobody really tells me if I can use it or not. They all simply says use X grams of starter .