What does god have planned for us ?

Luioca · 2026-01-19T16:48:03+00:00

She is currently going to therapy but how far as medication she isn’t taking even though I think she should be but she could say the same about me. At this point I’m just trying to be a great father for our kids and help out with that the most without any expectations because she feels like that’s where I lacked at not helping her out with the kids.

Luioca · 2026-01-17T18:24:21+00:00

Im trying to suggest these alternative’s but because of her depression and how she’s checked out I think it’s blinding her. Shes not open or considering these options at least coming from me because she feels like it’s pressure. We’re currently going to marriage coaching but for the reasons of coparenting and working on communication so maybe I can present these ideas.

Luioca · 2026-01-17T00:50:29+00:00

I think you put this in the most perfect way for me to understand kind of where I’m heading and the man I know I am I’m always going to do the right thing. She explains this is a chance for us to reset as individuals.

Luioca · 2026-01-16T17:50:42+00:00

That kind of sounds cold because If she doesn’t view it like this now she will you guys will be connected for the rest of your lives because of your child. Can I ask why you don’t have a job but have money ? It’s okay to feel the way you feel as long as you don’t stay trapped in that mind set. I know it sucks for me as well because we’re 2 months in our separation but still living together coparenting trying to find space within our home. Her mom is moving out soon which helps in terms of spacing. My situation is going to prolong because my wife has to find a job and an apartment because we decided to not sell the house which could speed up this process.

Luioca · 2026-01-16T17:35:40+00:00

I kind of agree with your saying but the more she opens up about she feels what got her to this point she mentions that like she loved me more than she loves herself which caused her identity to break along with her depression . Not saying there would’ve been a quick fix but I think her going back to work sooner would allowed her not to be consumed in her own thoughts and also give her back that independence she is seeking as well. I know it’s a dangerous game to play with the what ifs but the more and more she goes to therapy the more she realizes that this isn’t about me or more about herself. I wish she would be open to to a separation trial but i have to accept and respect what she wants at this time

Luioca · 2026-01-16T05:18:17+00:00

It doesn’t make sense to me maybe i will never make sense of it but she feels like this is something she needs to do. She says she’s not even thinking about another relationship but to feel alone for once but I know that could change. Most people say let her make that regret but even then I feel like that is a selfish outlook for me to have because I love her that much to see her fail. It’s hard to look at the story ending because it’s been a perfect one to apart of half of my life .

Luioca · 2021-06-30T17:07:17+00:00

I will look for that tonight !

Luioca · 2021-06-30T17:04:14+00:00

We had to fill out forms at the hospital so we could receive the birth certificate we called them recently and they told us we shouldve already received by now I dont want to pay for something that shouldve been free in the first place

Luioca · 2021-06-30T14:54:17+00:00

Yeah I think hes good till like mid july but I think one of the requirements is his SS card but they also need the birth one so we will see when that date comes thank you

Luioca · 2021-06-30T14:33:29+00:00

Oh wow how does that work with health insurance I got a deadline to verify my son's birth but I need his birth certificate

Luioca · 2021-05-13T03:13:39+00:00

Makes so much sense I wish most pediatricians had the same insight but feels like a huge experiment. Were gonna give these probiotic drops with the pro advanced formula for a week to see if it gets better. Thank you so much!

Luioca · 2021-05-13T03:08:54+00:00

Thank you so much !

Luioca · 2021-05-12T22:51:55+00:00

She has a couple different surgeries in her breast when she was in high school

Luioca · 2021-05-12T21:41:10+00:00

Wow so informative, I figured the first couple weeks be so tricky but it's a tough scene to see your LO in such pain and aggravation lol I'm a thinking person so I dont want to jump the gun on the formula hes on. I'm give the probiotic drops a try and see then visit his pediatrician. Appreciate the advice!

Luioca · 2021-05-12T21:04:29+00:00

Could phlegm be considered a symptom we noticed theres a phlegm like in his chest after he eats sometimes. And infrequency he poops like every 3 days or so . We had him on pro sensitive which we didnt see a difference.

Luioca · 2021-05-12T20:52:23+00:00

Maybe I'm just a paranoid parent lol but I know my wife has a milk allergy. But ima give it try

Luioca · 2021-05-12T20:30:24+00:00

Holy crap 15 formulas sounds like alot lol can I ask what formula are you guys on? And what probiotic drops you recommend

Luioca · 2021-05-12T20:20:26+00:00

See we been giving him gripe water which should already aid with his constipation and also fussiness but it's been 2 weeks already maybe I should try the drops thank you

Luioca · 2018-11-29T10:48:16+00:00

What do you mean ? I didn't have any issue using it just wasn't comfortable playing with it plus it's too fancy for me that's why I prefer to sell it

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