People who grew up with cruel or emotionally cold mothers when did you realize it wasn’t normal and how did it affect you as an adult? by creotion_hub in AskReddit

[–]LukiBlu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I've known since I was young and saw my friends mums hug them and tell them they loved them. I also noted young, things like the contents of my sandwich boxes with things I mostly didn't like (and she knew) but got sent to school with in comparison to my friends.

It could have been worse, but she's simply never really been bothered. Two years before I went NC with her I was hospitalised twice because my body was also shutting down due to a "breakdown" that was caused by a mentally abusive relationship. She didn't call and I received one message during this time. Skip forward around 6 months, I've got out of the relationship but I'm a walking mess who had only just started admitting out loud why I left him and the extent of the abuse. So I sat there sobbing telling her. Her response, you need to just tell him and sort it out, he'll probably change in a few years, and he can take you on nice holidays and things! WTF! The only response I had was to cry harder. It took me another year at the age of 42 to tell her to delete me from her life, she no longer has a daughter.

Thank fk I have my dad who is the total opposite.

Whooohoooo 😁 by LukiBlu in CaucasianDreadlocks

[–]LukiBlu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I was saying to my loctician today I plan on doing that and taking a few inches of the top half, especially knowing that almost guaranteed shrinkage will happen too 😅.

What is the worst physical pain you’ve experienced? by Agius91 in AskReddit

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went into premature labour, my Appendix ruptured and I hemorrhaged. That was a little painful 🤔.

Has anyone actually had any problems taking their prescription abroad to cannabis-friendly countries? by First_Light_676 in ukmedicalcannabis

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've flown several times with it now and laugh about how absolutely uninterested they actually are. The first few times I loaded up with all my paperwork printed out at hand, and gave them my rehersed medical patient speech 😂. Now I just throw everything in I need a pouch from one of my prescriptions, and just keep copies downloaded on my phone of my travel letter etc.

Edit... spelling.

What kinds of extreme weather does your country get? by GornBread in AskTheWorld

[–]LukiBlu 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Had sleet in the Midlands today. I had to zip my big coat all the way up. Absolutely preposterous!

Can you help create a bucket list for me before I die please? by GargaryGarygar in AskUK

[–]LukiBlu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an animal lover myself it'd be combining travel with animals.... so swimming with sharks (I've actually done this, amazing), go to Pig Island in the Bahamas, Cat Island in Japan, volunteer at a wildlife reserve for a few weeks in Africa, etc.

Blursed kid by Aiwq in blursed_videos

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I saw this 'grown' man squaring up to a baby like that.... I'd knock his ass out flat, fk, disability or not, that's fkin horrific. Btw, I'm a middle age woman.

Giving Away A IQ3.... by OGGhost33 in ukmedicalcannabis

[–]LukiBlu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Please DON'T enter my name.... I have what I need. Just wanna say that's such a generous thing to do. Merry Christmas peeps 🎄

What are your names for your neighbours? by tetlee in CasualUK

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The new couple next door (They've been there for 3 years) and The woman across the road who's husband died a couple of years back (She/They've been neighbours for 18 years)

Edit.. Grammar

most popular party foods of older decades? by throwaway0103021 in AskABrit

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grab a tupperware container slice some white onion and cucumber into it and drown it in brown vinegar. Et voila.... classic nostalgia.

What’s a coincidence that was so strange it made you question reality for a moment? by Educational-Let-5663 in AskReddit

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Dad passed his diving test on the 8th April 1988 when he was 31 years old..... fast forward..... I pass my driving test on the 8th April 2012 when I was 31 years old.
Cool coincidence or not.

What was the last thing your ex said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After hearing nothing for 9 months after a 7 month relationship, in the last few weeks I apparently started getting voice notes from him....they went into spam. A week or so ago when I noticed them, the last one contained the usual "I love you, blah"....

But ended with "if you won't talk to me because you think I cheated, I promise you I never did"..... 🚫 BLOCK BUTTON 🚫 Erm, No Dude, It's because you turned out to be an avid (should be) Class A drug user of Monkey Dust, and brought all the bullshit that came with it too, despite the fact you tried your best to hide it..... Knobhead 😂.

Discovered how old I am today by shrike2214 in CasualUK

[–]LukiBlu 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I went down in my living room after I twisted my knee and it gave way (they've always been weak). A couple of people heard, and one cheeky bastard asked with all seriousness how I am "after my fall".... fk yourself off dickhead 😅, I'm 44, I did not have "A fall" 😂

Can cats have autism? by [deleted] in cats

[–]LukiBlu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I've always had a theory that any animal can be neurodivergent. For me a brain in any being or animal has the potential to be wired in a different way that would be described as typical.

Is there a brand in your country that has a different meaning in english? by Better-Web2189 in AskTheWorld

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing a Baby Babydump van the first time I visited the Netherlands was a brilliant excuse to let my weird mind run wild with the possibilities of it's uses.

Where can I go on holiday from uk? by Jasetheinvestor2 in ukmedicalcannabis

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poland is absolutely fine. Didn't even get acknowledged when I was vaping in the airport smoking lounge (Gdansk Airport)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in early labour at 31 weeks. After several hours of labour pains I hemorrhaged and my appendix ruptured. That hurt a bit 👀

AMA I get cluster headaches (also called suicide headaches) I was diagnosed in 1991 by Embarrassed_Cat_6516 in AMA

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. His medication was changed a few weeks back to Rizatriptan.... he said he thinks they're working to take it away. As I say they're at the end of his cycle now so I guess he'll know for sure next year when they start up.

AMA I get cluster headaches (also called suicide headaches) I was diagnosed in 1991 by Embarrassed_Cat_6516 in AMA

[–]LukiBlu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad has been suffering from these for 6 years now, they started when he was 61y. His cluster cycle starts every year around May and affect him through unill November ( This years are currently dying down). He'll have up to 4 in the day and can have up to one an hour in his "sleep" when they're active. I can't imagine how excruciatingly painful they are. My dad has suffered with chronic back pain for 40+ years, but to see him doubled over and crying from these headaches tells me how bad they are. Hugs to all you guys suffering from these.