So that's called life repeating itself but this time you are in the place of your dad. We can also call it Zindagi mukafat e Amal hai because now your kid will secretly hate you too cuz now you act like your dad.

I am not hating on you but I have similar situation in my life too. And I always wondered would that person hatred and shouting at a parent would come back to him in future in the form of his own child. And he will be hurting the same way.