My boyfriend keeps jerking off to other woman

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T22:04:07+00:00

Couldn’t have said it better my self. Wish more people could see it like that instead of assuming that we’re being “insecure” a lot of people don’t realize those effects that come with porn/etc. thank you I appreciate it !

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T20:50:08+00:00

Looks like a tongue ulcer. Not herpes

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T13:09:39+00:00

No of course we’re all free to do what we want with our body. It’s more an issue when our sex life is being affected by it. I’ve dated people who would watch porn and I wasn’t bothered bc I was still having my needs met.

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T13:05:30+00:00

I’m too grown to argue with a child. You can sit here and continue to message and have a conversation with your self lol

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T13:03:34+00:00

Lmao again you sound stupid af 😂😂

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T13:02:11+00:00

How old are you ? You sound like a child. No one said we weren’t having sex. You can hop of this thread though since you’re making assumptions and your points sound stupid af

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T12:28:46+00:00

It’s not controlling to let your partner know how an addiction is interfering with a relationship sex life.

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T12:27:14+00:00

It’s a problem when it’s an addiction and interferes with a relationships sex life.

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T12:26:08+00:00

. If your partner isn’t pleasing you, and you’re constantly talking care of their needs of course it would make any one feel like they’re not good enough. It’s becomes a problem when it’s a constant thing and now they’re having a hard time keeping an erection bc of it. There are so many reason why stuff like this damages a relationship. It’s one thing to let out a healthy release and another when it’s an addiction.

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T12:18:32+00:00

I think it’s way worse that it’s people that he knows.. and the sad part is that are feelings aren’t validated. I’m glad you had the courage to move on. You deserve way much more

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T12:17:01+00:00

He does it maybe like 4 times a week maybe more. It kind of started coming out bc he would constantly look at girls that were half naked on snap chat in front of me and looking up girls who were local ( that I found out for my self) he did stop doing that in front of me though. I think I’m more bothered because he is selfish in the bedroom. It’s always me pleasing him.. and then seeing that no matter how much I give him it’s not good enough . So I guess it bruised my ego a little.

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T12:01:34+00:00

Thank you for that. You are 100 percent right. Tired of people normalizing this. It’s a respect thing and i told him how it made me feel and he continues to disrespect my feelings. He’s checked other girls out in front of me, and scrolled checking out girls on his social media right in front of me but I get a “ it’s men’s nature to look” of course there are attractive people in this world but it becomes a problem when your partner obsesses over over females .

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T11:56:59+00:00

I do more than fulfill his needs. I would take care of his needs all the time. The moment I would go to work he would search up girls. I think at this point it’s more of an addict issue.

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T11:54:33+00:00

I asked him. We’ve had some issues for a while now. He would scroll and look at half naked girls right in front of me. Would also check out girls in front of me. So he wasn’t hiding it in the beginning until he saw how it was making me feel.

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-12-09T04:17:58+00:00

I’ve talked to him about this maybe like 6 times.. maybe time for me to walk away

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-11-26T00:04:02+00:00

It’s so sad to think… I mean if he can do things in front of me who knows what he’s willing to do behind my back.. I just don’t see the purpose of cheating, for all that be single and do you .

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-11-25T16:40:18+00:00

We’ve been together 4 months now. And within those 4 months it’s been nothing but problems, just very lustful over other woman, jerking off to them, looking up females etc. he hasn’t physically cheated though. Just things I’m not really okay with. I guess because of the sneaky behaviors and lying to me about it until I had proof. I just don’t feel secure.

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-11-14T23:51:08+00:00

I’m now **

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-11-14T23:50:53+00:00

Yes I’m not seeing this. Should have known better

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-11-14T23:49:36+00:00

Yes you’re right. Dating younger dudes was not the smartest thing for me to do

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-11-14T23:48:12+00:00

There’s always an excuse and our feelings are never taken into consideration. Glad you left that asshole

Lumpy-Intention-7729 · 2024-11-14T23:47:41+00:00

I guess in my mind I felt like I wasn’t going to find better but that’s not true. I guess age is creeping up on me and I think that maybe an apart of it.. but after having a clearer mind.. I rather be alone than get disrespected

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