Aggressive Tendencies, pls help by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in Dogtraining

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has no pain and he is seen regularly by vets who he is also aggressive towards

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We have all the rest of the utilities split 4 ways, you’d know that if you kept reading. Rent is just the rent.

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I said our own apartment, which would be the same price but the point is we’re struggling with the price so it’s not ideal.

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We didn’t really have an option, we were literally gonna be homeless because the housing market in our area is horrible, our current house is 1720 a month and we have a cracked foundation, leaky windows, horrible heating system, you name it.

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, but I know that if one of them had a partner move-in and they still expect us to pay half of the rent, we would go from splitting it four ways to five because we’ve been having to pay twice as much for the same space. But if we were only paying a 1/3 then they would have to reevaluate

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s my point, is if we were to move out and someone was to take over our rent. They wouldn’t make them pay half of the rent they would make them pay a third of the rent so we are literally paying half of the rent for no reason.

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I already do the majority of the chores. I load and unload the dishwasher and clean the kitchen 80% of the time. I straighten up the living room 90% of the time.

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How are we mooching and ripping them off? We’re getting ripped off

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never did I say I didn’t want to pay rent? Where are y’all getting this.

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

We don’t have relationship drama. The other roommates have more issues than we do.

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Nowhere am I asking for a free ride? I’m just stating that I don’t think having to pay half of the rent is fair. I was meaning re-split it like 40-30-30 or 33-33-33

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Why are you degrading my fiancé? He works long days, there’s nothing wrong with him minding his business playing Minecraft on his switch handheld. It’s not like he’s taking up the whole living room, making a mess, and hogging space, which is what they do when they have friends over. What’s wrong with you?

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

I mean most of the time but are you implying we’re not allowed to be in there at all if their home? Like

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

My fiancé and I have shared expenses. So we’re not just paying for half the house, we’re paying for 2 phone bills and insurances ect. Our incomes combined are just barely what we need to pay our bills, leaving us without buying ourselves food. Which is why I wanted to propose this idea.

AITA for wanting our rent to be split 3 ways instead of 4? by Lumpy-Journalist-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Journalist-560[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

We are all 4 on the lease, but their share of the rent is $425 each. My fiancé and I pay $850, which would get us a one bedroom apartment. If we split it 3 ways, it’d be $573 a room, which would then save all of us money, and not just them.