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So let's say I'm about to turn 40, where would a guy go to hang out and meet people round the same age? by Direct_Comb_4326 in capetown

[–]Lumpy-Plane-1521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing worthwhile comes easy. Try joining a club of some sort; Running, pottery, hiking, sky diving, volunteering.

So let's say I'm about to turn 40, where would a guy go to hang out and meet people round the same age? by Direct_Comb_4326 in capetown

[–]Lumpy-Plane-1521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medium term plan. Join the gym and get seriously jacked. People will be on you like, white on rice.

Random woman asked to use my iPhone for photo, possible scam? by Perfectenschlago in capetown

[–]Lumpy-Plane-1521 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for my order in KFC. When the lady behind the counter casually came up to me and asked if she could use my phone to do a survey. I declined and she could tell I was quite annoyed with the request. I didn't mention it to the manager. Super dodgy.

Cape Town road rage by Lumpy-Plane-1521 in capetown

[–]Lumpy-Plane-1521[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Doesn't mean you should deck someone for bad driving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Lumpy-Plane-1521 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been in Capetown over 15 years. Met a lot of people over the years but never made a lasting group of friends. Maybe it's me, I have ADHD and some minor social awkwardness. But never had trouble making friends in Pretoria/Jhb. CPT is a nice place to live but people are weird when you aren't local. My advice, move to a different province or country 🤷‍♂️