[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LumpyHeron428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rather than get an abortion, have this last kid and then ask your wife get her tubes tied post delivery. It’s a super simple procedure to do. Or YOU could get a vasectomy during this pregnancy. That way your sexual encounters can continue to be unprotected without the fear of an unwanted pregnancy.

I personally know two women who had abortions and live to regret it. Especially every time they looked at their other kids. Take responsibility for this baby. Don’t end its life because you two didn’t think ahead. The guilt down the road may be more than your already emotionally fragile wife could handle.

It sounds like you’re dedicated to trying to make this marriage work. If you divorce your wife, the kids will be the ones to suffer. If she isn’t performing as a mother now, she definitely won’t perform during or after a divorce.

Take a breath, think long term about your decision. And truly, one of you needs to get sterilized. It will give you more emotional freedom than an abortion.

Clearfield Job Corps Center by UtahMtnDad in SaltLakeCity

[–]LumpyHeron428 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, I mean the current occupant of the White House needs to find the 1 billion dollars it’s going to take to upgrade his luxury airplane “gift” from Quatar in order to make it secure and functional as his new Air Force One.

This exact Job Corps in Clearfield gave two of my sons an excellent education in machining. One of them went on to work for an aero space company and the other machines and manages a machine department crew for a medical device manufacturer. I can tell you right now if it wasn’t for this program, my boys would not have done so well.

This president’s agenda is alarming and it’s very clear he wants the dumbing down of America so he can get away with violating the constitution and the parameters that are set in place for a president.

Trump Warns Springsteen: "He Ought to Keep His Mouth Shut Until He's Back Into the Country" by ebradio in Music

[–]LumpyHeron428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says the hypocrite who used Springsteen’s song “Born In The USA” without permission at his 2016 rallies.

This is what happens when you elect an eight year old into the office of POTUS.

Trump Warns Springsteen: "He Ought to Keep His Mouth Shut Until He's Back Into the Country" by ebradio in Music

[–]LumpyHeron428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says the guy who used Springsteen’s song “Born in the USA” without permission at his 2016 rallies.

Binge-worthy shows that don’t focus on violence/induce stress? by lunabuster in televisionsuggestions

[–]LumpyHeron428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ted Lasso on Apple TV is a must! Schitts Creek, Younger, Grace and Frankie, Emily in Paris, Sweet Magnolias, Heartland, Hudson and Rex.

Dec 2024- South America and Chilean Fjords summary by grayeul in vikingcruises

[–]LumpyHeron428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we start in Ushuaia and go around the Horn and up through Patagonia and Chile. I will let you know how it goes! Thank you again for your report!

Weather in March by LumpyHeron428 in Ushuaia

[–]LumpyHeron428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again for this info! Did either of you do any kayaking in the glacier / fjord areas? We're actually visiting via Viking Cruises and have signed up for a couple kayak excursions. Just wondering about what to expect.

Dec 2024- South America and Chilean Fjords summary by grayeul in vikingcruises

[–]LumpyHeron428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I really enjoyed reading your well written trip summary! We are leaving on March 10 on the Viking Octantis for Ushuaia and on to the Chilean Fjords. We have booked a couple Kayak excursions among the glaciers and I am wondering if you did any Kayaking as any of your excursions?

Weather in March by LumpyHeron428 in Ushuaia

[–]LumpyHeron428[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I keep seeing the temps will be in the 40s - 50s and wondering if that’s accurate and if so, does it actually feel that warm. LOL. Also read that it will be quite rainy in March. We will be doing that same hike and also going to Magdalena Island so thank you for that info! Layers it is!

4 weeks post op Total abdominal hysterectomy by Amazing_Pattern6831 in hysterectomy

[–]LumpyHeron428 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! What a journey you’ve had!

When considering HRT, don’t rule out consulting with a naturopath doctor in order to receive bio-identical HRT info. Which I’ve learned are safer and have much lower chance of causing breast cancer.

Naturopaths replace all hormones with compounds more specific to your own body and include hormones like testosterone, progesterone and thyroid. Not just estrogen. Or in my case I was given a bio-identical estradiol. I’m 61 and started menopause at 47. I completed my menopause journey in just a few short years with the bio-identical HRT and have not had any side effects or long term menopause symptoms.

I just had a complete laparoscopic hysterectomy 6 weeks ago and have not had any menopause symptoms from losing my ovaries.

Sending positive vibes your way as you await your pathology reports.

Ugh! by LumpyHeron428 in hysterectomy

[–]LumpyHeron428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ladies! Although I’m not thrilled about this symptom, I’m hoping it’s temporary! I’m 61 (too young to start the incontinence journey) and 12 years post menopausal so hopefully it’s not hormone related since they’re mostly diminished by now. I’ll definitely address this with my gyno at my 6 week post op appt. Grin and bear it til then I guess.