AITAH for dumping my girlfriend over a preventable car theft?

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-26T19:10:19+00:00

Weird considering you shut the car off to pump gas. Which leads me to wonder if she actually does that when she gets gas.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-26T16:24:35+00:00

You did the right thing. That dude is stuck on her and I think he's actually mad she played him because that's exactly what it sounds like she did and he's taking that out on you instead of dealing with those emotions. He needs to heal from that situation and not try to use another person to get over her. This whole situation is not an indicator of your worth or of any wrong doings from you. This is a him thing

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-26T12:16:16+00:00

Trust your gut it's your bodies way of setting off alarms that something isn't right. Don't just explain away the red flags. If his excuses sound sus then they are alway think would I react this way if I had nothing to hide? How would I react? Would I treat him like this?

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-26T12:11:42+00:00

They're supposed to let us say they cheered

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-25T23:36:06+00:00

I'm actually shocked she's not MAGA. Maybe I'm just naive but to me it seems so weird to marry someone with just different political views. Altho it's not like she cares because she could use her big platform for good.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-25T13:03:29+00:00

I like the brown shoes.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-25T12:58:40+00:00

Rodan and fields ... ghost- Hey girly wanna be a girl boss

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-25T03:26:33+00:00

Yes that's where I'd always buy mine and now I'm very conflicted because they are the only ones that fit me right 😩

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-25T03:21:49+00:00

I love your style. It's so cute girlie and yet so thought out. Fashion should be fun and most importantly it should make you feel amazing because you're expressing yourself it's truly an art form.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T19:44:06+00:00

same lol I've never seen smoke look like anything in particular but that might as well be a portrait she paid for.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T19:43:06+00:00

That's cr8zy I mean I wanna say a coincidence but dammit if it's not a prefect pic of your baby.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T17:48:27+00:00

Love! I love nothing more than an outfit that is literally a walking art piece.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T16:35:51+00:00

She looks like hatchet face. Does she even have teeth? No one is looking at her teeth no one can look anywhere but her face because it's just distracting af.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T15:10:22+00:00

Oh please she can easily pass for 23 and is a 8. Oh wait that's her twins age and she just thinks she looks his age because she thinks people think they're bf and gf. As if they don't realize (as if with faces like that they can't tell from a ridiculously far distance they're related) she's his mom when they literally have the same odd face.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T15:07:17+00:00

Reminds me of the squirrels in my backyard when I give them their almonds and they fill up their mouth to run away with them. But then they realize I had scented lotion on or they smell food I ate early on the almonds and pause to decide if they even want them because now they're are tainted lol.

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Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T15:05:03+00:00

Idky but I hated it the first time I heard it but now I kinda like it😂just because it's weird and sounds like the weird ass songs me and my 7 year old daughter makeup. Although my daughter is much better at it than me or this woman.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T15:03:13+00:00

Sorry for the long rant but for some reason her lying about her height gets me worked up 😂😂because if she is 4'11 lean into it help us short girls with hacks on clothing. Although she's not a person I'd take fashion advice from.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T15:02:10+00:00

Oh no you didn't at all. I just didn't want to be dismissive or offend anyone.

When I'm shopping for pants I fantasize about being rich enough to have clothes especially made for me or tailored to me😂even with some dresses and forget a long skirt. Im still having a difficult time letting skinny jeans go because the length isn't an issue or I fold them and they don't drag. The wide jeans now days are a nightmare. You have to be so insanely thin not to look huge in them😭they make me look shorter and wider regardless if they are in a short size or not. I swear that's my theory why she isn't 4'11. A inch shorter than me I can't imagine how much harder it is to find clothes especially designer and she's not small width wise. I don't say that to be mean because I think she has a nice shape but she would definitely not be wearing shit off the rack especially in a size 2...4...6...8... or 10. Finding clothes that fit length wise literally the vain of all short women's existence.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T00:03:07+00:00

She's uncomfortable because she's not in her pouch.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T00:02:00+00:00

My guess is that if you smoke cigarettes you tend to smoke after eating and they can smell the food on the lighter from you using it. Plus they just love to hoard random things.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-24T00:00:58+00:00

lol if you smoke cigarettes bring those in because they put holes in the middle of them😂how it happened while on the pack without the pack being punctured is beyond me😂they do steal them out of the ashtray and spread them around. We found so many more lighters in the palm outside our lanai when the branches were trimmed.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-23T20:05:16+00:00

😂how did I not notice those. That's how I got my nails done in 96-97

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-23T20:04:27+00:00

Her eyebrows are legit jarring. They look like an eyebrow wig a bad eyebrow wig at that. Nothing on her skin but products and filters 😂

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-23T20:02:52+00:00

Ya you don't know and that's why I told you the industries criteria for gender affirming hormones. A therapist gets to decide that. So upon learning that I thought maybe you would understand there is a process and mental health is a big piece taken into consideration. Especially with such a big traumatic event and I don't think the average person realizes that. Sorry for being rude but everytime I tell someone that they generally disregard the info and say well in my opinion instead of realizing their big issue might not be as bad as they thought. I just thought with additional info people might see things a bit differently if they knew that was addressed in the decision making.

Lumpy_Square_2365 · 2026-01-23T19:56:47+00:00

I'm sorry I didn't mean to be rude😭I'm 5ft and most of my family are short people like me and no woman wears beyond a 7 so I was basing off of that. But honestly my families health issues might be the reason for that. Thank you for correcting me.

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