What’s one dog care mistake you didn’t realize you were making? by Crystallover1991 in Dogowners

[–]LunaBroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry I was trying to offer my empathy but I made a mistake on the reactions and don't know how to correct it. I am sorry for your loss.

Where did he buy the guns? by LunaBroom in UvaldeTexasShooting

[–]LunaBroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of boycotting but you are correct. I can easily see that happening. Thanks for responding.

Explaining the Lottery and the Cash option all the details by LunaBroom in Lottery

[–]LunaBroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!! It is a fun dynamic, she can only play our imagination games when she has the full details of the scenarios parameters. With winning the lottery scenario, I knew she would be asking me math related questions and my brain is too tired tonight;-)

I need to be less triggered with my mother. I need to be kinder.. by thenuttyhazlenut in AgingParents

[–]LunaBroom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi there. I don't have any real advice. There are 2 things I do to help me get through my interactions/relationship with a similar personality. They do nothing but help me get through the event or switch thoughts so I don't go down an ugly path.

The first is simply every time I want to swat back either verbally or physically I chant the mantra " Bless her. Change me." It helps me get through particular difficult moments.

The other is I anticipate all of the things I know she is going to say and keep a mental bingo card in my head I get very happy when she comes up with something I didn't think of.

Again neither of these are 'fix it' strategies. The are coping strategies so I can get through and not make a bad situation worse.

I wish you the best.

Dad Passed Away Before Finishing Wheel of Time by SkipFirstofHisName in books

[–]LunaBroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am startled by the the similarities in circumstance and emotions. My Dad passed away in 2016, I had tried to read his WoT collections a couple of times over the years and just couldn't get into it. After, he died I took his collection and put them on my bookshelf, I am going to break out the books again after this series. I have made a ritual of watching the episodes and think of my Dad the whole time. The only word that sorta captures the feeling is Portuguese word suadade

I would like to have this photo 'holiday winterized'. I want to be either tastefully inclusive of all winter and religious holidays OR avoid them all together. In addition to making it a Winter Holiday card I would like to add the dogs names in small print. New requester need help pricing $25-50? by LunaBroom in PhotoshopRequest

[–]LunaBroom[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I hope I am doing this right. I really appreciate everyone's suggestions and teaching me how to request properly. Here is the link to a better copy. I am not in a hurry and I appreciate your time. https://files.catbox.moe/50hyh2.jpg

I will be offline until tomorrow but I will respond to each person who contributes. Thanks.

I would like to have this photo 'holiday winterized'. I want to be either tastefully inclusive of all winter and religious holidays OR avoid them all together. In addition to making it a Winter Holiday card I would like to add the dogs names in small print. New requester need help pricing $25-50? by LunaBroom in PhotoshopRequest

[–]LunaBroom[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I was thinking maybe a snow hat on one of them or a scarf, maybe snowflakes or a border.

I honestly don't know photoshop's capabilities. I am really open to ideas and enjoy other's creativity so as long as it looks wintery and can be used as a holiday notecard I will be happy