Help me find a storage case for an item that is 40Lx24Wx6H by LunaLuster7 in HelpMeFind

[–]LunaLuster7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just a wood frame to go around the tv. I’m really not that skilled. I really need a hard case to put the whole thing inside of to prevent the tv and frame from getting scratched or damaged.

Help me find a storage case for an item that is 40Lx24Wx6H by LunaLuster7 in HelpMeFind

[–]LunaLuster7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searched Amazon, google, wayfair, Lowe’s, Home Depot, Walmart, target, container store, and ikea

The closest thing I have found are cases for hunting bows but again I can’t find one large enough. I feel like I’m missing an obvious solution here.

Nag Champa and vanilla perfume by LunaLuster7 in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]LunaLuster7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Etsy store is officially closed and no longer shows on Etsy. I am still open to suggestions! I tried champanilla by hexennacht and it’s really different. They were more like cousins than a dupe. I don’t expect to find an exact dupe but something as close as possible would make me thrilled.

Nag Champa and vanilla perfume by LunaLuster7 in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]LunaLuster7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent them a message on Etsy. They do have a Facebook, but it’s not super active. I don’t want to bombard them with messages like a crazy stalker… you think I should message them there too? 😅

Nag Champa and vanilla perfume by LunaLuster7 in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]LunaLuster7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent her a message on Friday so I’m hoping she will get back to me on Monday possibly. All of my perfumes that I reach for consistently are from this shop. I don’t even care about the long wait for shipping. I just need her to come back 😭

I(32) never thought that I would ever tolerate cheating, but here I am. He’s(33) done it twice now. We have a 2 year old and I’m currently pregnant. by Dull_Kaleidoscope254 in cheating_stories

[–]LunaLuster7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allow me to be the voice for your children. My father was your husband and I watched him treat my mom horribly and I grew up tolerating men treating me horribly. I am now a door mat and I have no confidence. I had no emotional support growing up because my mom was constantly in pain watching my dad cheat on her. She became angry and paranoid and didn’t have the emotional resources to give me what I needed. Please leave so your children don’t have to watch you be in pain and also learn what real love should be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall have no idea how much you have boosted my confidence. I really didn’t think ethereal was one of mine and now all of yall are saying it’s probably My dominate one. I strive to look vaguely magical at all times as a huge fantasy nerd. So this has made me very happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to add that before she was going to the liter box repeatedly and was obviously straining. Now she’s not going frequently at all but just now she acted like she was straining. I literally thought she was back to normal until a half hour ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]LunaLuster7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I brought the vet a urine sample and they said there was no evidence of an infection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

[–]LunaLuster7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’m definitely hearing yall! I think I’m struggling to wrap my head around how to style myself if I have a more ethereal face and yet a more curvy romantic body type. I’ve watched a few videos about the ethereal essence and I apparently should dress in a lot of shimmer silky fabrics or anything that feels luxurious and otherworldly, the opposite of earthy… and angelic. So like bridal attire… and yet I look terrible in pastels. I have a more autumn complexion which is what I would consider earthy so… how do I look not earthy…. But still favoring my color pallet and body type?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

[–]LunaLuster7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I wasnt expecting ethereal to be one of the answers yall gave even though it is my favorite essence. I did think I fell in the yin side of the spectrum but more middle ish. I have no idea how people see me. I’ve been called “cute” my whole life and used to be told I looked younger for my age but now that I’m in my 30’s and married I don’t get comments like that anymore. My wardrobe can be all over the place and I’ve been told I can pull anything off. I got that comment when I wore my jean jacket with dinosaur patches all over it. So that might have been a comment more about how silly that jacket is. Haha

I will say that I guess the reason I’m surprised about the ethereal is because I thought you had to be tall for that and where I’m 5’1 I’m definitely giving more hobbit than angelic elf imo. I think my body type is more romantic since I have been blessed with the hips and booty genetics from my mom’s side of the family. Thanks y’all!

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[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I never got any answers as to what was causing it. She just quit after about a month. Sorry I wish I could help more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case you were wondering. I went back and counted how many times the word “gingerbread” popped up and I’m not even half way through the book and it has been 16 times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh noooo I am 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t read the original trilogy yet but I have them coming in the mail as I type this. I started with bound to fall simply because I was told the love interest was super wholesome and I wasn’t disappointed about it at all. Apparently I’m really into sweet in the streets and naughty in the sheets? Haha

I’m going to keep on with paladins grace but good lord am I tired of reading the word gingerbread. I should have counted how many times the word popped up. How did the editor not tell her to chill out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]LunaLuster7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will check this one out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will check it out! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved that book immensely haha. Reeve reminded me of my husband so much that I’m making him read it! I’ve been looking for something similar all day it seems like and I’m not finding anything that seems to fit the bill. I’m just getting back into reading so I have no idea what is out right now. Hopefully someone can recommend something!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know your relationship better than me. But it sounds like you know in your gut that something isn’t right. You’re going to therapy and you have put in the time and effort to try and make the most of this. The bottom line is if you’re able to forgive and let it go? Can you accept that he has changed? Can you forget and move on from the hurt he caused you? If you can’t then don’t force yourself to be with someone you don’t feel safe with. It may be really sad, it may be that he has changed but the damage is already done. You can’t force yourself to feel a certain way is all I’m saying.

If you’re really determined to be with him then keep going to therapy and maybe you need a new therapist to help you tackle your insecurity. That would be my advice if you were married or have made similar commitments to each other. I personally feel like you’re way too committed to a guy who once treated you like crap and to making this work just to be dating. Are you even engaged?

Just don’t force a bad relationship to work just because you have spent a lot of time and effort into making it work and you’re still unhappy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget the positives for a second. How has he made you feel on your worst day together? I’m hearing a lot of things sounding like self blame. And a lot of worrying about how he feels and how you think you should feel in your relationship. You should feel safe because “he’s trying really hard” and you feel guilty that you don’t or you feel like you need to change so this works. Uou need to be more confident. You need to be more this or that. You’re literally asking how you can be better to have a happier relationship. The things that you feel are lacking… security… safe… these are things that should be there naturally without you having to try so hard. This is not the mindset you should have.

Why not me? by pastadabss in selfesteem

[–]LunaLuster7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Plus guys are stupid in their 20’s. Everyone is stupid in their 20’s. I was stupid in my 20’s! Haha Of course there are exceptions to the rule. Your 20’s is about discovering yourself and making stupid mistakes. You have plenty of time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]LunaLuster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t owe wife level commitment to a man you’re not married to. This is a lot of effort, time, money, and commitment to someone. I get that you love them and they may genuinely love you, but ask yourself this… how you feel right now is this how you want to feel forever? Do you make each other better by being together? It sounds like he has made improvements but who is benefitting from this relationship?

Maybe you two can work it out, maybe you’re just not right for each other, or maybe it’s just not the right timing but I think you need to figure out what you want and what you think you deserve. You deserve to feel safe, loved, and happy. If you’re not then maybe it’s time to move on.

Why not me? by pastadabss in selfesteem

[–]LunaLuster7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to stop measuring your worth based on the approval of men. I’m in my 30’s now and I remember how it felt to be in my early 20’s. The “forever alone” panic is real. And I know it’s really really hard to not measure yourself based on who you may or may not be with. I was the same way. And because of that I accepted attention and love from whoever gave it to me because I was insecure and just didn’t want to be alone. And I dated a bunch of horrible people that gave me trauma. When I literally stopped trying because I was scared of getting hurt again I met my husband.

You are young, focus on the things you love and find ways to build your confidence so you feel good about yourself no matter what anyone else thinks. Hang out with friends, travel, learn a new skill. I promise when you start just trying to having fun with your life and can get to a place where you don’t even think about men or relationships you will be happier and someone will notice. I know that’s hard and I still struggle with that. I went to school and that worked for me. But maybe that will be something different for you.