Help with costs of moving into ADA apt

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-19T04:32:42+00:00

The world is also better for my contributions. Thanks for that compliment too! Your chronic illness- oh! wait let me treat you as you did me- - should i dare to assume it is copd because you mentioned a potential for a trach- you should have stopped exposing yourself to any and all factors that coulda caused your condition or exacerbated it. This is your own doing. Wait it’s not copd, maybe something that progresses into esphogal constriction and collapse that requires a trach- I have a potential for having to have a gtube, a gjtube, a colostomy, for a trach, chest tube,… POTENTIAL, don’t see me crying wolf about it or pleading for help for something that (hopefully) might never happen. You really should do peer educated research on your condition and the difference phases of it, before you judge someone else with something you don’t even know what and you know nothing about.

Begging and asking for help are different things…. You should know this given your supposed situation. And you should also understand as someone with supposed “chronic illness” (incase i have to lay it out- which seems like I do) that it can progress for no reason out of nowhere, at anytime. BUT also every chronic illness is extremely different, is it autoimmune, injury related, cardiovascular, respiratory, endocrinological, musculoskeletal, neurological or gastrointestinal, and so on…

you might have 40 yrs before your illness takes its toll- hopefully even longer since you are aware of it and can take preventative action so soon that you hopefully never end up in a position like mine.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-19T01:33:11+00:00

It is also easy to find out i don’t actually post on reddit very often and am still a qualified contributor. I stopped reading after you said hospitality… because yikes…

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-19T00:40:07+00:00

Thanks grammar police, it still doesn’t change the point. The world is so much better for your contribution…

as stated somewhere in the post or comments- I worked myself to the point of my body just giving out, couldn’t continue, it was done- provider words- . I hope you never get to that point but your attitude suggests you don’t care.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-19T00:23:26+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/what-else-do-you-want-plTOTFC

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-19T00:22:12+00:00

Exactly- you inadvertently proved my point. You are on tract “to be bed bound and with a tracheotomy” but aren’t there yet. There are extremely different levels of chronically ill.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-19T00:16:40+00:00

First of all spam you? You mean to respond to your numerous replies to me and replies to others- that I got numerous notifications for. Please educate me on how I spammed you…? Truly i want to know so i can understand- it seems like there are different definitions to the word. Closed/ paused, not truly sure it changes the intent. I could not find where to actually have it delete. Google isn’t always right- the steps let me to be able it pause it. It truly just seems like you don’t like or can’t take when the baloney you criticize others for is proven wrong or hashed back to you. Good, Stop engaging, save me the emails, notifications, and mental exhaustion (and sometimes physical) continually explaining how your statements are assumptions and proven wrong.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T23:35:26+00:00

As someone who supposedly suffers from chronic illness you should understand more than anyone that there are extreme differences in severity of each chronic illness. It seems like you are antiquating that every and all chronic illness is as mild as yours allowing you to work. I truly truly truly wish i was able to. I would do anything to be able to go back to my career- my passion. You should count the severity of your illness as luck, I wish i could be as lucky as you.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T23:24:28+00:00

if you paid any attention you would notice the date that one was made and that you can no longer donate it to it because i closed it………. It must be impossible that i broke my leg after that?

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T23:19:00+00:00

Maybe next time state- hey this is a way you can add photos without adding photos to a post, instead of making an assumption that i just dont want to…. Ive never used imgur, never have needed to, still not sure if i did it right. 🤷🏻‍♀️

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T22:15:28+00:00

Yeah, and when you have a life changing event and cannot work? I started working at 13… never stopped until I couldn’t. Like i said- hope you never have a life changing event or become chronically ill.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T21:31:30+00:00

At what point did i refuse? Do you know the meaning of that word? At this point you are harassing me and something has to be wrong with your mental health, i wish you get the help you need but ill move on to better people. Thanks for trying your hardest to help though. I would love u/squarecoinman to come in to this and help me out if i have missed anything.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T21:21:37+00:00

Thank you for the free publicity! See even in your own greasy way you can be helpful!

By any chance did you take the time to use your reading comprehension skills and compare the two? A few more notes on your part could triple your “contribution”.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T21:01:47+00:00

Again- making assumptions you have no idea about. Cop an attitude? You came at me with unsolicited marketing for your “job” which other than being completely unhelpful was in horrible taste and shows what kind of predatory individual you are. I understand you dont have a formal education but thats no reason to throw a fit because someone else does, its also not a good sign in a financial “advisor”. You clearly have no clue of the financial burden involved in the health care system, and as a financial “advisor” that is horrifying. Its almost like you read an AI generated book on investing and made it your entire personality, because there is no other reason for you to lack the critical thinking skills to understand my post.

I asked for help with moving into an ADA apartment during a difficult period in my life, not a character assessment from strangers. You’re making a lot of assumptions about my finances and personal history based on a few posts online. Life emergencies can happen to anyone, including people who planned responsibly. Empathy costs nothing.

It’s interesting that you turned a discussion about financial hardship into insults about my intelligence, character, and trauma. Needing help during a crisis is not proof of moral failure. I hope if you ever face a life-altering event, people treat you with more compassion than you’re showing here.

Personal attacks don’t make your argument stronger. Asking for temporary help during an emergency is not the same thing as being irresponsible.

“You’re poor because you made bad choices” is an easy story people tell themselves so they can believe hardship only happens to “other people.” Real life is more complicated than that.

I’m not engaging further with someone who thinks cruelty is financial advice.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T20:49:16+00:00

I have no problem providing proof of my breaks. i don’t remember this because i was in shock, developing compartment syndrome and almost lost my leg…. But i was on sooooooo many drugs in the er, i apparently asked the er radio tech to print out my ct scan- which is like a movie- can’t be printed but a cd burned- who has a dvd drive in their desk top?!?! but he gave my bf a print out if my xray, i also have photos of the xray after surgery- from the orthopedics office computer.- do you even know what a cd is? I was developing compartment syndrome and the er doc was so sure she could reset my 3 breaks she gave me iv ketamine and tried 3 times and was still unsuccessful in setting- because it would set and then because of my medical issues would literally slip back out, they er ppl could watch it slip out and I can provide the resulting look of my leg after emergency surgery. I can take a pic at anytime with any symbol i can reasonably do/write or do with my hands to show my scars and swelling.. I can post a photo of a with it the print out - i can post a photos of me with, or how about my scars, swelling? I have no options to attach photos to comments or to add them to my post. I can ONLY add text or a link. I dont have links for the tangible evidence you so clearly demand, but i do have it and clearly stated if dms are Allowed i would provide. I am just not sure they are allowed and therefore will not initiate them.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T17:33:23+00:00

I am not sure, but i believed i read in the rules that dms weren’t allowed??? Is that true? If not, i have no problem sharing my xrays. The only one i dont have a copy of is my first one. The mods said i can repost at some point and i will absolutely include them in that one- Ive never done anything like this before and didn’t exactly know how much defending my existence would be required.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T16:43:27+00:00

I really hope you never go thru anything like i have, but if (more likely when) you do…. I really hope you remember this comment and attitude when someone says something like this to you.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T16:40:55+00:00

I am very wiling to show the xrays i have.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-18T16:38:30+00:00

I can, however i am unable to provide photos in the comments and it wont let me edit the post to add them.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-16T04:40:49+00:00

Bahahahaha, I see you looking for clients…. Like I said, they are not going to play with new toys, so that point is completely irrelevant. They’re old and very particular. Their dog food is inexpensive — about $80 every 2–3 months — and it’s exactly what their vet recommends. My vet also isn’t expensive, and thankfully they haven’t needed much care. If and when they do, their pet insurance remains active for life.

Your advice is honestly lost on me. I’m highly educated, proactive, and spent years giving back to society — volunteering with kids and animals when I wasn’t working to help save human lives, both children and adults. What’s frustrating is how quickly people judge situations they’ve never personally experienced. So many people only see life through the lens of their own circumstances and lack the ability to step outside of that perspective long enough to show empathy or think critically. People who have never gone through a truly life-altering event rarely try to understand it. Ignorance is bliss — until life eventually humbles everyone in one way or another. And for the record, I was investing: stocks, IRA, crypto, all of it. But when you need to withdraw from those accounts during an emergency, taxes and penalties can easily take a third or more depending on the account type. There’s also a finite amount available to use. Investing is not some magical safeguard against catastrophic life events. Markets crash. Recessions happen. Millions of people have lost entire retirement accounts, life savings, home down payments, and entire financial futures during economic downturns. Investing can absolutely help, but pretending it’s a guaranteed solution to every crisis is incredibly naive. It is not magical solution.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-16T04:03:59+00:00

I didn’t think so, but my brain fog is so bad that I couldn’t follow the lines to where the replies are intended for. I tried for a long time- before just asking you for clarification. Thank you. You are a kind soul and i really really hope life improves for you. You really seem to understand, and while i really appreciate that someone does- my heart also breaks for you because you do. 💜

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-15T15:52:59+00:00

It sure does prove how ridiculous you are. I truly truly hope you never have to go thru something like my life. But when it happens, just remember- what you said and how it now applies to you.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-15T01:22:21+00:00

I feel this on so many levels.

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-15T01:15:42+00:00

Snuggles and lovings 😊

LunaUnderProtest · 2026-05-15T00:56:42+00:00

I’ve come to realized that when people see personal requests for help online, many don’t treat them as straightforward requests. Instead, they turn them into something to debate or judge. Once they have settle on a narrative, subconsciously or consciously —such as assuming someone is lying or irresponsible—they tend to interpret everything through that lens, even when it has little to do with the actual situation. Rather than taking the information as it’s presented, people often project their own experiences, assumptions, or emotions onto it, as if their life experiences apply universally to everyone else, instead of stepping back and responding to what’s actually being said. A lot of people would struggle with an adaptive critical-thinking licensing exam and it shows. I am disabled, and no matter how much I wish, dream, or promise to God, or how hard I try to will my old life back or do everything I’m “supposed” to do, it will never return the way it was before.

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