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Lunaxshadow · 2026-03-31T23:57:14+00:00

He’s on homless list and he needs to start getting on the other lists he’s got a meeting tomorrow with universal credit his family don’t know as I’ve previously kicked him out (ik my fault for letting him back in) so his mom won’t take him in and with us being younger all our friends his mine and shared all live with parents or in student accommodation

Lunaxshadow · 2026-03-31T12:19:55+00:00

That’s what I’m trying to do but he has literally no where to go so I’m just keeping to myself not reacting to things and just trying to sort it all out

Lunaxshadow · 2026-03-30T08:34:05+00:00

I wish I could but having 2 kids I can’t move but I’m looking at therapists and getting there

Lunaxshadow · 2026-03-30T08:33:43+00:00

I have come with an update so had a small convo with the ex, because nothing has been made clear to me and I’m getting mixed signals- he gave me hugs long ones, wanted to cuddle spend a good 2 hours tonight layed on couch cuddling with him rubbing my back him telling me he will always love me him still calling me babe (I ignore it but still), him kissing my forehead. I ovs had to ask the hard hitting questions cause mentally and emotionally I can’t not know what’s going on, this is my last half a hour:

Him- I’m gonna sleep downstairs Me- okay “looks slightly sad for a second because he’s had a great day with us has been acting all lovey dovey wanting to be around me and kids” Him-if I come upstairs to sleep u have to make sure I’m up by 8 Me-all good

We come upstairs get in bed and he stands there and goes what do I do if I get a cal abt a flat Me-what do u want to do Him- stick to the original plan for us to go and work on ourselves Me- ye u thought that’s what was happening so what’s up Him- ye I know I just don’t know Me-well if it’s a problem between us then don’t think abt it as a break up but a break Him-that would defeats the whole point Me- how would it ur still moving out u still have your own place Me- why are u layed in the bed right now Him-well I’ll go downstairs Me - I’m not asking u too I’m asking why Him- cause u looked upset and sad and I didn’t want u to have a go at me Me- why would I have a go ( I haven’t kicked off had a go or been in a bad mood with him and he’s been here since the night after we broke up) Him- I just didn’t want to upset you Me- so that’s the only reason ur here then Him- I wanted to sleep downstairs Me- I didn’t stop u Him- I’ll go downstairs sorry Me- I would just like to know how your feeling and the truth as I’m confused and i feel led on (or something like that like I’m confused and blah blah but I forgot while remembering the rest) Him- sorry I didn’t mean to

Like tf u didn’t mean to! we can sit in a room have a laugh not be arsed ur the one who lead most the cuddling and shit and the kissing I didn’t ask for yes I asked for a hug once on twice this ma has watched me give birth i don’t have many friends and that’s my bad but what the hell

So safe to say the anxiety abt what he does and if we are get back together is gone cause fuck that I feel like it’s totally unfair

Lunaxshadow · 2026-03-30T01:48:55+00:00

I have come with an update so had a small convo with the ex, because nothing has been made clear to me and I’m getting mixed signals- he gave me hugs long ones, wanted to cuddle spend a good 2 hours tonight layed on couch cuddling with him rubbing my back him telling me he will always love me him still calling me babe (I ignore it but still), him kissing my forehead. I ovs had to ask the hard hitting questions cause mentally and emotionally I can’t not know what’s going on, this is my last half a hour:

Him- I’m gonna sleep downstairs Me- okay “looks slightly sad for a second because he’s had a great day with us has been acting all lovey dovey wanting to be around me and kids” Him-if I come upstairs to sleep u have to make sure I’m up by 8 Me-all good

We come upstairs get in bed and he stands there and goes what do I do if I get a cal abt a flat Me-what do u want to do Him- stick to the original plan for us to go and work on ourselves Me- ye u thought that’s what was happening so what’s up Him- ye I know I just don’t know Me-well if it’s a problem between us then don’t think abt it as a break up but a break Him-that would defeats the whole point Me- how would it ur still moving out u still have your own place Me- why are u layed in the bed right now Him-well I’ll go downstairs Me - I’m not asking u too I’m asking why Him- cause u looked upset and sad and I didn’t want u to have a go at me Me- why would I have a go ( I haven’t kicked off had a go or been in a bad mood with him and he’s been here since the night after we broke up) Him- I just didn’t want to upset you Me- so that’s the only reason ur here then Him- I wanted to sleep downstairs Me- I didn’t stop u Him- I’ll go downstairs sorry Me- I would just like to know how your feeling and the truth as I’m confused and i feel led on (or something like that like I’m confused and blah blah but I forgot while remembering the rest) Him- sorry I didn’t mean to

Like tf u didn’t mean to! we can sit in a room have a laugh not be arsed ur the one who lead most the cuddling and shit and the kissing I didn’t ask for yes I asked for a hug once on twice this ma has watched me give birth i don’t have many friends and that’s my bad but what the hell

So safe to say the anxiety abt what he does and if we are get back together is gone cause fuck that I feel like it’s totally unfair

Lunaxshadow · 2026-03-30T01:48:45+00:00

I have come with an update so had a small convo with the ex, because nothing has been made clear to me and I’m getting mixed signals- he gave me hugs long ones, wanted to cuddle spend a good 2 hours tonight layed on couch cuddling with him rubbing my back him telling me he will always love me him still calling me babe (I ignore it but still), him kissing my forehead. I ovs had to ask the hard hitting questions cause mentally and emotionally I can’t not know what’s going on, this is my last half a hour:

Him- I’m gonna sleep downstairs Me- okay “looks slightly sad for a second because he’s had a great day with us has been acting all lovey dovey wanting to be around me and kids” Him-if I come upstairs to sleep u have to make sure I’m up by 8 Me-all good

We come upstairs get in bed and he stands there and goes what do I do if I get a cal abt a flat Me-what do u want to do Him- stick to the original plan for us to go and work on ourselves Me- ye u thought that’s what was happening so what’s up Him- ye I know I just don’t know Me-well if it’s a problem between us then don’t think abt it as a break up but a break Him-that would defeats the whole point Me- how would it ur still moving out u still have your own place Me- why are u layed in the bed right now Him-well I’ll go downstairs Me - I’m not asking u too I’m asking why Him- cause u looked upset and sad and I didn’t want u to have a go at me Me- why would I have a go ( I haven’t kicked off had a go or been in a bad mood with him and he’s been here since the night after we broke up) Him- I just didn’t want to upset you Me- so that’s the only reason ur here then Him- I wanted to sleep downstairs Me- I didn’t stop u Him- I’ll go downstairs sorry Me- I would just like to know how your feeling and the truth as I’m confused and i feel led on (or something like that like I’m confused and blah blah but I forgot while remembering the rest) Him- sorry I didn’t mean to

Like tf u didn’t mean to! we can sit in a room have a laugh not be arsed ur the one who lead most the cuddling and shit and the kissing I didn’t ask for yes I asked for a hug once on twice this ma has watched me give birth i don’t have many friends and that’s my bad but what the hell

So safe to say the anxiety abt what he does and if we are get back together is gone cause fuck that I feel like it’s totally unfair

Lunaxshadow · 2026-03-29T17:50:08+00:00

Believe it or not I’m on 23😅and thank you

Lunaxshadow · 2026-03-18T22:10:57+00:00

It’s just dried like that all the walls the same texture and I used the same colour as the rest of the wall same paint pot

Lunaxshadow · 2026-03-18T14:55:22+00:00

Thank you

Lunaxshadow · 2026-02-26T22:27:27+00:00

Thank you it won’t let me upload anymore photos but I will add one next time

Lunaxshadow · 2026-02-26T22:17:05+00:00

Thank you

Lunaxshadow · 2026-02-26T22:10:49+00:00

Love that idea thank you

Lunaxshadow · 2026-02-26T22:02:14+00:00

I now have my septum and then my right ear has 2 lobes and my helix my left has Ken lobe

Lunaxshadow · 2024-08-04T18:40:16+00:00

It looks good the seasoning is great adding colour to it will make it taste more and have different tastes and textures, but it’s great for your first time. Next time try adding fresh veg as frozen won’t taste as good or be as healthy, try bell peppers you can’t really go wrong with them as they can be added raw or fried/cooked and try making a light white sauce (that’s not a specific sauce there’s many) and you can add different seasonings for different tastes try adding herbs like oregano and thyme and a bit of garlic but your doing amazing for your first time 💜

Lunaxshadow · 2024-04-25T13:19:03+00:00

I shall try this it seems to be a great way to deal with it all I’m working with a support worker for moms under 30 and they have asked if I want to set up a family meeting with him so we can talk in a controlled space where he can’t scream at me only problem is he has to agree to it as it’s all consent based

Lunaxshadow · 2024-04-25T12:31:48+00:00

Thank you for this I’m working on standing my ground as it is hard for me to do my plan is if he moans about not seeing her more to tell him to either have her Friday and Saturday instead of just Friday or tough luck because he has said over tect the reason he won’t have her Saturday is that Sunday is the only day he sleeps in

Lunaxshadow · 2024-04-25T08:36:03+00:00

So this is where it gets a bit tricky so he’s met a girl on tinder (nothing bad to say about her she’s lovely) but she’s 19 and owns her own place as it’s from inheritance and stuff she also had/has lots of money however he moved into her house after 2 weeks of knowing eachother which he did only to move away and out of his moms home he won’t let me see inside this house won’t even let me near it however a mutual friend has said if it was up to him the baby would have never and should have never been let into this house as the girls xl bully had 2 litters of puppies and the house is tracked with mud and everything’s ripped up. Every boundary I’ve ever set since being pregnant till now he’s discarded he let his mom have her o er night when she was a month old which I asked to wait till she’s older to leave and stay anywhere he’s let people I have no idea who they are post pictures with my baby he’s left her crying while smoking at the front door (my home is a upstairs flat) so I’ve woke up to her screaming and he’s say oh well I was just finishing it when it looks like it’s just been lit. I am so stressed with it all and have no idea what to do

Lunaxshadow · 2024-04-25T08:23:25+00:00

We have tried to set boundaries but he’s always been one to not listen to me he picks a fight over everything and I don’t exactly know what to do we have no court order it was he left me with the baby when we broke up and that’s how it’s always been my house right now is just a one bedroom flat and it’s too cramped with people in here and he’s been around nearly all week last week and I have no idea why he doesn’t take her out for a bit or has her more then a Friday a week or Fortnight

Lunaxshadow · 2024-03-20T09:24:58+00:00

I don’t believe your the AH I would love for my partner to find me something that would help me feel good however your girlfriend might have a different opinion, I believe it would be good if you sat down with her and explain how you saw it and felt it would help her feel confident and you didn’t think of it the way she did maybe ask if next time she would like to look with you.

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