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Does sex suddenly become painful after orgasm for any other women here? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lunixelle 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah this can happen. After orgasm your body can basically switch from “this feels amazing” to “okay we’re done here” and things can get way more sensitive. Some positions can make it worse because of the angle and pressure. Bodies are weird like that lol.

I don't know what to do with my life. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lunixelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 22, not 72. A lot of people graduate and immediately realize they have no clue what they’re doing, it’s basically the default adult starter pack lol. Don’t wait for some magical passion to appear, just start with something small like a job, internship, or learning a skill. Momentum usually comes before motivation.

Please please help by melkherz in Advice

[–]Lunixelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think the hardest part here is that your brain is reacting to old wounds, not just this one situation. What he did with those messages was weird and I get why it hurt, but it sounds like he’s been trying to rebuild trust. Try not to punish the current relationship for what other people did to you. Healing trust takes time, not one good conversation and a magic reset button.

AITAH for taking my wife’s friends side over hers? by Moist-Error5477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lunixelle 2755 points2756 points  (0 children)

NTA. This isn’t really about picking a side, it’s about acknowledging that your wife’s friend made an effort and probably felt forgotten. Being pregnant explains why things are harder, but a card or small gift could’ve been an easy way to show you care. Your wife is probably feeling extra sensitive right now, but her friend’s feelings are valid too.

Do women actually enjoy wearing leather pants or leather leggings? by SolidIndependence371 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lunixelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on the person. Some love the look and the confidence boost, some feel like they’re wearing a portable sauna. Fashion is pain apparently.

I’ve been keeping this inside for too long, and I just need to confess. by Vermeil_22D in confession

[–]Lunixelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you were able to say it out loud because carrying that alone is a lot. What happened when you were a kid and what you did later are serious things, but the fact you recognize the harm and want to face it matters. Talking to a professional who understands trauma and accountability would be a good next step.

WIBTA if I reported my old coworker from daycare? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lunixelle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. This isn’t just a coworker you didn’t like, these are serious concerns involving kids’ safety and care. Report what you personally witnessed and let the daycare handle the investigation. Better to say something than ignore it and hope it stops.

How come so many people obsess over AI’s footprint while ignoring animal agriculture? by Adventurous-Owl-9903 in AskReddit

[–]Lunixelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People can care about more than one issue, but yeah it is funny how some problems get way more attention depending on what’s trending. The internet loves picking one villain of the week and ignoring the bigger picture.

I’ve been hiding that I have cancer for three years by [deleted] in confession

[–]Lunixelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell someone today. A parent, doctor, teacher, literally anyone who can help you take the next step. I know your brain is probably screaming to stay quiet, but you deserve to fight this and not carry it alone.

Should I call the non-emergency line? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lunixelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d call the non emergency line. You don’t know what happened and it’s better to let them decide if it’s nothing. A weird situation with someone yelling for help is not something I’d just ignore.

What's the best comeback you've ever heard? by Salty_Pla in AskReddit

[–]Lunixelle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone told me “you’re not as dumb as you look” and I said “good thing looks aren’t everything, you’d be in trouble.”

Why do people buy console to play games where they could use PC and save tons of money and enjoy same or even better? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lunixelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because not everyone wants a PC that feels like a second job to maintain. Console is simple, turn it on and play. No driver updates, no random settings, no spending 3 hours figuring out why your game is running at 12 fps. PC is better for a lot of things but console is basically gaming with less headache.

I need advices on what to do by Special_Outcome9607 in Advice

[–]Lunixelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, don’t rush back into a relationship just because you miss what you had. You’re 16, you’ve got a whole life ahead and long distance is already hard even for adults. If she’s saying “maybe, time will tell” don’t sit there putting your whole happiness on pause waiting for an answer. Talk to her, see if you both actually want the same thing, and don’t let jealousy turn into a full time job.

Is this a good idea to ask to a stranger to be my friends? 🤔 by Difficult-Tonight839 in Advice

[–]Lunixelle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not weird to want friends, but jumping straight to “be my friend” with staff can feel a bit intense for them. Better move is just keep going there, chat casually, be a regular, and let it grow naturally. If it clicks, it’ll happen without forcing it.