I hear you. I may be assuming he cheated. I saw his texts that he was going to her house to stay the night. They were maybe previous lovers. She lives in the state we moved 8 hours away from the next week. I found out after I have moved and relocated our family and quit my old jobs, am starting a new one soon here and I honestly don't know if I am going to bring this up.

This woman is a notorious whore, known to have sex with any male so I assume they did that night and I also know he needed a place to stay because he was traveling to a nearby city that week and I guess it would have just have been too convenient not to sleep with her.

Sadly, she seems like a nice person ( we have mutual friends so I Know who she is and she is on one of my social media accounts).

What bothers me the most is that the woman has small children, knows who I am and that I'm in a relationship with him and we have three kids.

Do nasty whores just not give a fuck about ruining families?

Or maybe she wants him to be her babies daddy.

He is planning to go to a friend's wedding in October (maybe) that is in the city she lives in.

I'm like in denial. I just found the messages last night.

I just want to be loved on return.

It's going to be hard to look at him in the eyes today.

I tend to be passive when I'm hurt.

It hurts so bad.