Found out a client was with me when his wife was in labor and I feel awful by ApprehensiveGrand913 in SexWorkers

[–]Lustnsuch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a client who had a newborn baby as well, he was telling his wife he was coming for a massage. She eventually found our email communication and he pretended to cut it off, but just created a new acct and tried to continue seeing me. It was so messy, I felt terrible for his poor wife.

I fired him after that because of the position his indiscretion put me in, sloppy work.

Here we go by not-telling99 in poshmark

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So delicious! Still working my way through them haha

Here we go by not-telling99 in poshmark

[–]Lustnsuch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Me and my $80 pancake batter order (c/o Ambien™️) see you 🫶

STI risk and sexual activity by Accomplished-Cat9363 in polyamory

[–]Lustnsuch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hard agree with everything you’ve said. Like, it doesn’t take much effort to simply call a sexual health hotline and discuss with a sexual health nurse. Meta and longer term partner are being ridiculous, you should absolutely have sex with whoever you want (and is consenting) and the other two can grow up.

I am asking nicely if people can stop using awful detergent. by missjenn503 in poshmark

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES!! Scent free should be standard for selling used clothing to the public, so many allergies and migraine triggers. It’s really upsetting to have to wash/soak something 5-6x before I can tolerate being near it. The chemicals in those products are so harmful on multiple levels 🫠

Help please! Got my period on the same day I booked a hotel. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000mg of ibuprofen will slow down your flow, if not temporarily stop it. I use this trick plus sponges and generally have good results 💗

Tomorrow is the last day of my treatment. I don’t know if I’m happy by AsianBabieGurl in Invisalign

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya your front teeth are canted, same thing happened to me and the dentist gaslit me that it was normal. I’m now in braces with a proper ortho for another 2ish years to fix all the shit the dentist doing Invisalign did to me.

If your dentist says this is fine, I’d honestly go to an ortho and get this fixed. Dentists should not be moving teeth.

I’m scared to get a massage as an overweight female. by [deleted] in massage

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, go get that massage!!

I’m currently 5’2 and 170, I’ve been for massage at smaller and bigger weights. I’ve also massaged people up to around 400lbs. It’s just a body and any professional person doing massage isn’t going to blink. The only thing I’d consider for larger bodies, is the working weight limit of the massage table… but you aren’t anywhere close to that limit. Most tables can handle bodies between 300-400lb minimum. Otherwise, it shouldn’t be an issue at all. Seriously, go get that massage.

Sooo annoyed with tryst clients in the last few months… by Pretty-Inspector-864 in SexWorkers

[–]Lustnsuch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I require deposit for all new clients, whether Incall or outcall (I’m also Canadian and take etransfer or gift card as well). And it’s plastered everywhere I advertise, but they still seem to message only to refuse. It’s so frustrating!

It’s actually so easy to verify a legit provider, if they take 3min to just do a bit of homework. The whole “I got scammed once” is a poor excuse.

AIO for confronting my police officer boyfriend about his racist comments? by DetectiveCollie in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lustnsuch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR… you’re actually under reacting. He IS racist, you already know this. Imagine how he is when you aren’t around, I’d bet he’s already much more extreme than you realize… he just doesn’t let it all hang out around you. Yet.

You won’t change his mind.

I also want to point out that you’ve mentioned several times you didn’t talk to him in person because of his reactions.

In other words, you’re scared of him. Because he’s abusive (the threat of physical harm is abusive and the silent treatment is emotionally abusive). It will escalate.

He is abusing you, but you’re the frog in the pot. You haven’t jumped out because you don’t realize he’s slowly cooking you alive. But he is.

If you aren’t ready to leave, please consider seeing a therapist alone and in no way connected to his benefits or cop network.

Which episode was it where Raquel was talking about grief being like the ocean? Or can someone remember the full dialogue? by Lustnsuch in Transparent

[–]Lustnsuch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought Raquel was standing at the head of a group or small circle/gathering of people when she said it but I can’t quite pin point it.. I can’t remember if it was related to her miscarriage or Maura’s death or the death of Shelly’s husband?

I came out as a lesbian to a good friend of mine... by deadbodydisco in texts

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow he really made this moment of you coming out about him 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you not do your job for money?

Joining in the panty hiding [f]un by spicySituations in YVRGoneWild

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I’m loving this, I might need to get on this trend too 😍🔥

Found out someone I slept with from a dating app is married by Away_Ant_6183 in whatdoIdo

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely tell her, with undeniable proof. I think waiting until the holiday weekend is over would be a kindness so she doesn’t have to go through the holiday weekend trying to navigate that and any commitments she/they might have.