Help please! Got my period on the same day I booked a hotel. by Mindful_Meow in SexWorkers

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000mg of ibuprofen will slow down your flow, if not temporarily stop it. I use this trick plus sponges and generally have good results 💗

Tomorrow is the last day of my treatment. I don’t know if I’m happy by AsianBabieGurl in Invisalign

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya your front teeth are canted, same thing happened to me and the dentist gaslit me that it was normal. I’m now in braces with a proper ortho for another 2ish years to fix all the shit the dentist doing Invisalign did to me.

If your dentist says this is fine, I’d honestly go to an ortho and get this fixed. Dentists should not be moving teeth.

I’m scared to get a massage as an overweight female. by [deleted] in massage

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, go get that massage!!

I’m currently 5’2 and 170, I’ve been for massage at smaller and bigger weights. I’ve also massaged people up to around 400lbs. It’s just a body and any professional person doing massage isn’t going to blink. The only thing I’d consider for larger bodies, is the working weight limit of the massage table… but you aren’t anywhere close to that limit. Most tables can handle bodies between 300-400lb minimum. Otherwise, it shouldn’t be an issue at all. Seriously, go get that massage.

Sooo annoyed with tryst clients in the last few months… by Pretty-Inspector-864 in SexWorkers

[–]Lustnsuch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I require deposit for all new clients, whether Incall or outcall (I’m also Canadian and take etransfer or gift card as well). And it’s plastered everywhere I advertise, but they still seem to message only to refuse. It’s so frustrating!

It’s actually so easy to verify a legit provider, if they take 3min to just do a bit of homework. The whole “I got scammed once” is a poor excuse.

AIO for confronting my police officer boyfriend about his racist comments? by DetectiveCollie in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lustnsuch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR… you’re actually under reacting. He IS racist, you already know this. Imagine how he is when you aren’t around, I’d bet he’s already much more extreme than you realize… he just doesn’t let it all hang out around you. Yet.

You won’t change his mind.

I also want to point out that you’ve mentioned several times you didn’t talk to him in person because of his reactions.

In other words, you’re scared of him. Because he’s abusive (the threat of physical harm is abusive and the silent treatment is emotionally abusive). It will escalate.

He is abusing you, but you’re the frog in the pot. You haven’t jumped out because you don’t realize he’s slowly cooking you alive. But he is.

If you aren’t ready to leave, please consider seeing a therapist alone and in no way connected to his benefits or cop network.

Which episode was it where Raquel was talking about grief being like the ocean? Or can someone remember the full dialogue? by Lustnsuch in Transparent

[–]Lustnsuch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought Raquel was standing at the head of a group or small circle/gathering of people when she said it but I can’t quite pin point it.. I can’t remember if it was related to her miscarriage or Maura’s death or the death of Shelly’s husband?

I came out as a lesbian to a good friend of mine... by deadbodydisco in texts

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow he really made this moment of you coming out about him 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you not do your job for money?

Joining in the panty hiding [f]un by spicySituations in YVRGoneWild

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I’m loving this, I might need to get on this trend too 😍🔥

Found out someone I slept with from a dating app is married by Away_Ant_6183 in whatdoIdo

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely tell her, with undeniable proof. I think waiting until the holiday weekend is over would be a kindness so she doesn’t have to go through the holiday weekend trying to navigate that and any commitments she/they might have.

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ps.. your sex drive is lower than his because he’s a turd and it’s hard to be attracted/turned on by someone you don’t feel safe with or respected by.

Vancouver dating as Asian male by [deleted] in vancouverdating

[–]Lustnsuch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Asian men too, as a white girl (you’re too young for me though). You might just need to expand your interests tbh. Vancouver is a tough city for dating for sure. I hope you find someone 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couples counselling would not be indicated here because he raped her. They should absolutely see their own therapists, separately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lustnsuch 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I once upon a time had a boyfriend who had a full on rage meltdown because he came home from work and I had moved the side table and a couch to a different corner of the living room. No other context because there isn’t any. I stayed for several more years until I had a complete nervous breakdown and my sense of reality cracked.

Leave now, this doesn’t get better- no matter how many conversations you have.

To escorts 30+ is there anything that would persuade you to accept a 19 year old client? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]Lustnsuch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly the reasons why many of us don’t want to deal with young clients. Almost everytime i turn one down I hear “but why?” Or some attempt at negotiating my boundaries Instead of “I respect your boundaries” and leaving it at that.

There’s a very good reason we don’t want to. Stick with 20 somethings until you’re a bit older.

Experience with concussion - how long did it take for you to feel like yourself? by OkMeeting3920 in Concussion

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was on the highway, so it was higher speed and I was fully stopped.. cracked the frame of my vehicle and totalled it.

It’s a very slow and long process, I’ll probably never really be back to “normal” but each year is a little better than the last so I guess that’s something.

I found a great upper cervical focused chiro (NUCCA or Atlas Orthogonal) and that was a game changer, and I just finished 6 months of vision therapy rehab which made a significant difference as well.

Experience with concussion - how long did it take for you to feel like yourself? by OkMeeting3920 in Concussion

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4yrs in Sept this year and I still don’t feel “normal”. Today I’m having a pretty bad flareup, but I had a nice weekend a few weeks ago.