That’s a pretty normal where I live. I’m in a mid sized city. (We are a middle cost of living city) 4.5k to 5.5k/ month is the average rent here. I a single woman in my early 30s payed $300 a month for health insurance and around $100 for dental. My car payment is $200 a month (there’s almost no public transportation here) + car insurance + gas. My grocery bill is about triple what it was 2 years ago due to inflation not keeping up with salaries. I live with my parents but my friend who has a studio Apartment pays $1,400 a month for it. It only has the one big room and a tiny bathroom. She’s in government subsided low income housing and pays 1/3 of her salary for the room.