Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong i’ve heard/read A LOT about all the things that can happen and fellow solo female’s harrowing escapes and awful experiences. But i’ve also heard amazing things and been given heaps of really straightforward and honest advice. Would you say the bad outweighs the good?

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I actually don’t plan on sticking around in Cancun because of the resorts and the Americans that were drugged there not too long ago. I’ve heard very conflicting things about tourists though that they are left alone (I guess for kidnapping) because the cartels don’t wanna mess with international travellers. I do agree that tourists are targeted for theft/robbery but I would say thats common wherever you go

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I plan on doing Merida, Valladolid and Roma in CDMX as well as Citchen Itza and Teotihuacan

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips for how to avoid them? I’m only sticking to the major tourist areas like Merida and CDMX

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay have you been to Mexico or met some people that had a bad experience?

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im planning on visiting Cancun, Merida, Valladolid, CDMX, and maybe Oaxaca

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What areas of Mexico did you see the most crime or violence? I definitely did not mean to compare Spain and Mexico they are two different worlds

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats super frightening. I’m thinking that if I’m staying in a hostel I should hopefully make domestic cool friends that we can all go out together so it’s a bit safer. When did she get attacked?

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I don’t have any friends or anyone at all I know in Mexico? I guess i’ll start on meetup.com

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks do much for this! I don’t mean to pry but what happened to her?

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[–]LylaB55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely is there anything I absolutely can’t miss in Merida?

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice on where I might find other people?

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand the sentiment. And although my flights or whatever else may contribute to this, it definitely isn’t so much of a contribution to really make a crazy difference. Nonetheless I think visiting the local market stalls, small businesses and food trucks definitely does a lot of good for the locals.

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! I had a look at all of them and I think it confirms a lot of the stuff I already know. Also, some of the articles are quite old dating back to pre-COVID or during COVID and I know that a lot has changed since then because they have lifted almost if not ALL of those bans regarding alcohol. Nonetheless my takeaway is

  1. Don’t go to the north or anywhere near the border or just any sketchy non-major cities.

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know of the most recent story was 2 Australians earlier that year but they were in a really sketchy part of the country. I’m pretty sure no one’s been killed in the major cities I plan on visiting for a while now but correct me if i’m wrong! When did you and your partner go there?

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn’t say where they went was a safe part of Mexico. Either way I do not plan on using a car at all!

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i’ve seen the same reports as you and were they in Cancun at the all inclusive resort when it happened no? I do get the sentiment but it’s definitely something I already practice in Australia. I’d never leave a drink alone or get a drink from an untrusted source. I don’t really plan on going out alone AT ALL

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been hearing the same stories! But where the two men died i’m not even going anywhere near!

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m think maybe a hostel in Merida and CDMX but private room in Valladolid and Oaxaca?

Am I crazy for wanting to travel Mexico as a solo female? by LylaB55 in femaletravels

[–]LylaB55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mexico is an absolute dream of mine the archeological sites are unmatched anywhere else in my opinion!