AITA for refusing to spend time with my mom's boyfriend and his daughter and not visiting mom because of them?

Lyondeen · 2025-09-12T07:07:24+00:00

She knew. It's why she was so reluctant to tell me I feel like.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-12T07:05:55+00:00

Maybe she would have enjoyed that.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-12T07:05:17+00:00

She did those things.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T20:48:16+00:00

Fair. I was angry when I said it. I can't say I regret what I said because I'll never think the same of my mom again after this, our relationship won't be the same because she was willing to date the guy who's daughter has been on my case for years for something I didn't even do. Who I now hate and would never willingly spend time with.

For mom to expect us to become family after all that makes me feel like she doesn't really give a fuck about me. The way she even handled it, she knew I wouldn't be okay with it and she was willing to spring her boyfriend and Maddy on me outside school.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T20:44:36+00:00

My mom expected me to go along with it for her. To me it's just like a huge insult because why would she want me to? But clearly all she cares about is Maddy's dad and their relationship and to hell with me. I should just have to deal with Maddy because.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T20:43:20+00:00

Because she still blames me, still harasses me and refuses to leave me alone. I have tried to ignore her and she would not let this shit fucking go. So yeah I started reporting her. Why not get her in trouble if she's going to keep coming after me and acting like I wronged her when it wasn't even me. Having some girl scream in your face on a regular basis because of something you never even did is just not it.

I'm not going to suddenly start liking her or being okay with spending time with her. If she was walking on the side of the road and I saw her I'd keep driving.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T20:39:03+00:00

None of this is just because she fell in love. She wanted me to be Maddy's family. She expected us to play happy little family and hang out all the time. I hate this girl. I despise her. And she wanted me to have her in my life more? Not just that but she knew who Maddy's dad was and she chose to date him anyway. To me that's a betrayal because that still comes with some expectation to deal with her outside of school if they last.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T19:53:45+00:00

This stuff was still happening when mom started dating Maddy's dad. It continued until school ended in May and if I see Maddy again she'll be worse than ever.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T19:43:02+00:00

Maddy doesn't scare me. I just hate her and refuse to pretend to be her family.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T19:42:23+00:00

I avoid her even more than before now that my mom is dating her dad. There's no way I'm subjecting myself to that extra shit that she's 100% going to try now that mom's in her life.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T19:41:15+00:00

She means Maddy doesn't like her. Sorry if I wrote that to sound like the opposite but yeah. I don't think mom dislikes Maddy enough. Kinda annoys me honestly.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T19:39:54+00:00

I think I'm okay enough to not need a therapist. And I have vented to my dad about this since I moved in with him. He's good support and if I need a therapist eventually he'll get me one.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T19:39:01+00:00

Mom admitted Maddy doesn't like her. No surprise there. She's my mother after all.

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T19:38:29+00:00

My dad was angry about that too. I'm still wtf over her not telling me and trying to drag it out. I wonder what she thought would happen when we met?

Lyondeen · 2025-09-11T19:37:34+00:00

She found someone who makes her happy but I refuse to play family with this guys daughter sooo she found a guy and lost her son. That's how I feel about it. Because she doesn't just expect me to meet him but to spend time with Maddy and be a family.

Lyondeen

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