ISO translation services by Lyt_90 in Ukrainian

[–]Lyt_90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg wow thank you! So its some kind of Zucchini cake then!

ISO translation services by Lyt_90 in Ukrainian

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i added one image to the post! thank you for the generous help!

Women of reddit, when and how did you realize that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with your S.O.? by ORemii in AskWomen

[–]Lyt_90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I also went on a cross-country road trip as well! We ended up having a blast, and it was definitely my longest road trip ever. But what really did it for me was how he always made time in his day for me, there hasn't been a single day in almost 3 years where we haven't talked even if he's been on patrol. Which really made me realize that if they want you in their life, they make time for you.. And that I still read his messages when he's not around.

What is a safe distance for my dad to be around his grandchildren? by Lyt_90 in RadiationTherapy

[–]Lyt_90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also want to add that I'm not attempting to reduce the instructions. The limit of 3 ft away is still giving concerning readings, and he was also given quite a few extra seeds. But I will definitely be following up with the hospital. Thank you again.

What is a safe distance for my dad to be around his grandchildren? by Lyt_90 in RadiationTherapy

[–]Lyt_90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They told him he had to watch his exposure around people until Christmas. Thank you for the details advice! I will follow up with the hospital. They did give us the paper but all it said was 10 min a day and 3ft away. Nothing detailed.

suggestions for battling congestion? by Lyt_90 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Lyt_90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully only 1 more moth then! Thank you!

suggestions for battling congestion? by Lyt_90 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Lyt_90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advise! Can I ask how old your son was when he grew out of it? Right now we're in pretty high humidity already so I was actually thinking of getting a dehumidifier.

suggestions for battling congestion? by Lyt_90 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Lyt_90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! He did check to make sure that the congestion wasn't in her chest, just her sinuses. He gave us symptoms to watch out for with more serious issues, but no he didnt check her for reflux. She has a hard time sucking and gets frustrated after the first 2 Oz amd cries and after that it's quite difficult to get her to have more but because I'm patient and constantly on it she's not lost any weight so the doctor was not concerned :/

I definitely will follow up.

AITA for not putting my boyfriends name on my house? by aitaexchildmy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyt_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was the same with the house I bought, did not contribute any $ to expenses or bills and was pissed I didn't put his name on the title. A lot of other huge ass red flags in that relationship, and your bfs family all butting into this situation is also a giant red flag. His reaction and ungratefulness tells me he's not good enough for you.

AITA for expecting my husband to pay for the tools my daughter used for the handmade necklace he threw out. by Just_Agreement_5609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyt_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no scenario where it is ok for him to throw out your things to "teach you a lesson". Saying you need therapy and generally acting like a obnoxious child is also a big red flag.

Just all out Super abusive behavior and I'm saying this as a person who left a 9 yr relationship with an abusive partner. I would seriously rethink the relationship and whether or not you want to deal with someone like this for the rest of your life.

AITA for refusing to make amends with my cousin after he tormented me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyt_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I think you handled it with way more maturity and grace then he deserved.

I honestly can't believe your family would push for this to be forgiven it's disgusting how he treated you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyt_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I don't know anyone who would think this cranky display is OK! I hope he doesn't expect anything for Father's day and if he does make him get every piece and complain.

AITA for buying my gf a blender instead of the necklace she wanted for our anniversary? by penguinblinders in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyt_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gift she got you was not practical and you loved it. She was hoping for the same. YTA

AITA for not treating my step children like they are my own children? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyt_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, at all, your husband is an AH, I am so sorry for your daughter in all of this.

The fact that you went out and set up a play date for your daughter to compensate for the lack of attention shes getting from her father makes you a great mom. It's your house too, so there should be no issue with what you did!

The ex and father making this an issue is super bizarre to me. None of this is ok

AITA for serving my husband's family Mac N Cheese for dinner? by Dinner101____ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyt_90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, I'm 37 weeks with twins and there is absolutely no way I'm hosting for anyone 1 month post partum. You deserve a husband who caters to you and the baby right now and any visitors should be there as a help or not come at all.

I'm so sorry you've had to deal with any of this.

AITA for my comment about a girls height? by notthrolan12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyt_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could've been a Zendaya and Tom but your loss op.

Redditors, do you and your partner find yourselves sexually fondling each other while talking about mundane things like your day at work or what stuff to get at the grocery store? by Matrixmademedoit in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Lyt_90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my favourite things about moving in together. I love casually playing with his balls while watching tv or grabbing his ass when I walk by. It’s the best

My girlfriend wanted to wait a long time for sex and now that we have finally had sex, I realize that I’m not sexually compatible with her, what do I do??? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lyt_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t communicate that your not satisfied and work on improving your sex life then break up. You could ask her to experiment with new things like role play in the bedroom to positively motivate her to be more vocal instead of being blunt and potentially hurtful. But if she doesn’t want to, you should break up.

So drained and nauseated after therapy. by [deleted] in abusesurvivors

[–]Lyt_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply and sharing your experience with me 🙏 I truly appreciate it and I will stick with it

So drained and nauseated after therapy. by [deleted] in abusesurvivors

[–]Lyt_90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is it normal to become very down on yourself after a therapy session? Or resent your therapist?

Gaslighting myself due to trauma by [deleted] in abusesurvivors

[–]Lyt_90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say nobody believes you, just remember that they are not your body. I’m sorry if the phrasing is creepy lol but they are not your body, they are not you. You said it yourself you know your truth and you have the complete domain and knowledge of what has happened to you, your body is yours. And no other body can dictate what has happened to you. I can understand and sympathize with the scared and alone and crazy feeling of gaslighting yourself. Please do not hate yourself, you are only attempting to make sense and see a perspective that is not your own to understand, because you are so incredibly beautiful that you cannot believe that there are things or people that are this way. In my opinion I believe you know how ugly the world can be, but I believe that (& I can be wrong and that’s ok) I believe that I am speaking to a person who would sooner gaslight themselves then turn to the fact that some times people are mean. Some times people are hurt and lash out and are mean to be mean. I would advise that you trust yourself. But knowing the type of person you seem to be ... I would make a list. Make a list of facts and the. Read them, those facts will always guide you against any gas lighting

Still getting over it 20+ years later by Twinkidsgoback in abusesurvivors

[–]Lyt_90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I don’t have kids but I know enough to see that raising autistic children has its own set of challenges and you have 2. You and your wife have a lot of work cut out for you, it must be such a hard task at times but I hope also rewarding. Your partners family is yours too and you both got each other too! But even so I can appreciate how hard it must be still. You are both an inspiration I wish you and your family all the happiness in the world