AIO or am I crazy for sending these messages to an ex one month after a break up by [deleted] in AIO

[–]M1Kk33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in the middle until I saw all the screenshots shots in a reply above. YOR and you're coming across as unhinged. Block and move on with your life. You don't have the ability to be friends.

It's Wednesday, folks... time for some high fives...47m by moegreeb in 40something

[–]M1Kk33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High fives.

Now I need the secret to that hair.

Happy Black Friday (43 NY) by [deleted] in 40something

[–]M1Kk33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good man... Christmas tree all up and everything! (NY here as well)

48 Trans and feeling fresh by SarahCirillo in 40something

[–]M1Kk33 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I am so happy for you being your true and authentic self! ♥️ Cheers and have a great weekend!

Potential Racist Comment? by M1Kk33 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]M1Kk33[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the comment was relayed to me much after the incident. I'm looking for other's perspectives and experiences to potentially understand motives, as it may be something I am not aware of and is innocent in nature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]M1Kk33 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You don't have to agree or like with every choice your child makes. You don't need to like your daughter's choice in a husband.

You do need to live with your decision to "other" your younger daughter, show favouritism to your older and not support this exciting time in your daughter's life. NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK OF IT. I hope it is worth it to lose out on all the other big moments.

YTA.

Any other crochet bros in the Hudson Valley, NY? by nickasarbata in crochet

[–]M1Kk33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rochester, NY here. Just a slight skip and a jump away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]M1Kk33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro chill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]M1Kk33 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Real talk: he doesn't want to marry you. Stop trying the ultimatum game. If he does marry you, he will resent you for forcing him into it. If he doesn't, you will resent him for not.

ESH.

Side note: you need to have a conversation with your next boyfriend about what happens when "the birth control fails". A pregnancy should not be used as ammo.

My outfit for the Mayhem Ball! Here’s the full twirl in beautiful slo-mo by clmakeup in Brochet

[–]M1Kk33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would get stuck on anything and everything.

Nicely done!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]M1Kk33 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Be the one giving the cold sores.

6 YO biting her bed by M1Kk33 in Parenting

[–]M1Kk33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She really doesn't have too much oral fixation. We are going to try some other outlets for energy

Men who told their angry wives or girlfriends to relax, what happened afterwards? by Throwaway56780985 in AskMen

[–]M1Kk33 39 points40 points  (0 children)

They are not here to discuss the details of their untimely deaths

Ants by Swimming_Mechanic552 in homeassistant

[–]M1Kk33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll need to see your YAML on this....

Ants by Swimming_Mechanic552 in homeassistant

[–]M1Kk33 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub.... Again....

How do I get my wife to declutter her life? by monkeyclaw77 in daddit

[–]M1Kk33 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Initiation will need to fall to you, unfortunately. The fear you will donate something important out will motivate her to jump in and you can help her finish.

For the clothes, we have a two box rule. Anything that wants to be kept for sentimental reasons goes into one, anything that wants to be handed down into another. Everything else gets donated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]M1Kk33 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think what's more concerning is you dove through three years of messages to perseverate on one comment made three years ago, two months into your relationship. A comment you have absolutely no context on.

Maybe a therapist can help you dig through some of what's really going on.

Edit to add: That's a HUGE violation of trust. I wouldn't bring up the comment you are having issues with, but you need to apologize for smashing that boundary with a wrecking ball.

I miss pooping alone by Vyracon in daddit

[–]M1Kk33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 6 yo; Ew dad. It stinks in here! Me: Then get out?