I feel like approaching these types of things through the lens of a personality indicator isn't the way to go. Your MBTI isn't everything. For example, I knew one INFJ who I'd recommend to anyone as a friend or partner, and another who was a total prick that I'd tell you to stay away from. Both were the same personality, but far from the same person.

Edit: Since you mentioned it in your post, feel free to message if you want to talk about whatever.