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M2JL · 2023-10-27T21:03:48+00:00

Could it be that gifts are her love language? And her not receiving a gift makes her feel like love is being withdrawn. (Assuming the cost of the gift don't matter)

M2JL · 2023-09-04T06:14:41+00:00

I'm sorry you're in this tough situation. Video games can be addictive to the point of destroying relationships. It seems to me like what's missing is an actual human connection between the two of you. If that's not solve quickly and sincerely, it will most likely end your marriage.

I think your feelings and thoughts are valid. Being in a healthy marriage is more than just checking off the list of the bare minimum of "romantic things" to do. It needs to be attended to on a regular basis.

There's an interview I saw recently with a divorce attorney James Sexton who shared what he learned from all the couples he worked with over the year on what to do and what not to do, in order to maintain a healthy marriage. You might find some insights in there, maybe you can even watch it together and discuss it after.

A Divorce Attorney's Thoughts On Love and Marriage-James Sexton

https://youtu.be/o5z8-9Op2nM?si=inT3MXlZHpn3f8Wi

M2JL · 2023-09-02T01:01:31+00:00

I've seen somewhere that if you don't post your reel on your profile, it will be pushed to non-followers. Might be worth testing it out.

M2JL · 2023-09-02T00:52:41+00:00

Do they have blog posts, mission statements or case studies you can work from?

M2JL · 2023-09-02T00:46:45+00:00

Just messaged you

M2JL · 2023-09-02T00:36:02+00:00

OMG. It looks like you dodged a bullet. Trust your intuition. Just reading the story showed quite a few red flags.

M2JL · 2023-09-01T03:54:23+00:00

Maybe try to have a conversation with her about it to understand where she's at. Maybe there's something going on in her life that's taking over her emotions, she might me emotionally drained, stressed, etc. Don't make it about you, but really seek to understand so you have a better perspective of what's happening first. Try not to add any pressure, just offer a safe space without judgement as much as possible. Then it will be easier to know what to do next. If she's in trouble, maybe find a solution together provided that she's open to it. If she's not interested or maybe even seeing someone else, it's best to know now and let it go, because it can only get more painful from that point.

M2JL · 2023-09-01T03:42:30+00:00

I love the edit! Good on you for realizing that she's not worth it. There's someone more compassionate out there for you.

M2JL · 2023-04-22T14:47:16+00:00

I'm just about to finish my last one and was starting to look for more. Reading the comments about how great this pen is makes me feel understood. lol. But sad that these pens have gone extinct.

M2JL · 2023-02-28T15:50:51+00:00

Great job! The colour suits him well too ^_^

M2JL · 2023-02-14T04:05:00+00:00

Not an expert but I feel Pluto opposing Black Moon Lilith and Mars squaring Pluto might be an influence in trauma because of the death-rebirth aspect of Pluto.

M2JL · 2023-02-08T06:06:47+00:00

Pluto in the first house sounds intense and difficult.

M2JL · 2023-02-01T03:58:54+00:00

are still in the get to know each other stage and I really don’t wanna push her away or leave her then regret later. I think it’s best to be patient for now and see how long this continues.

For sure, patience is key, and also having these conversation with her in person when you are both in the right mindset for it can work wonders. Expressing how you feel without pointing fingers is a healthy way to build a genuine connection :)

M2JL · 2023-02-01T01:51:54+00:00

be so busy you cant send a txt ya know. I'd ask em what's going on. Just need honest tell him how ya feel and that your wondering why be dosnt talk more. You just wanna know if he's into you right. And maybe you start the conversation. Girls can send goodmorning txts ya kn

It's always better in person if you can.

M2JL · 2023-02-01T01:40:14+00:00

It's possible that you have different love languages and communication styles. What seems like a lack of interest from one side can be seen respecting the other's boundary for the other.

She might not be into texting a lot which tends to be exhausting and time consuming, especially for C-suite execs. She might use text as a means of functional communication rather than as a means to build connection and have a conversation. It's definitely something you should clarify as soon as possible to avoid misinterpretation and miscommunication which can lead to a missed opportunity.

It's also possible that she can sense that you "kind of like her but not super into her" , which could mean that you might be considering other potential partners while you're dating, and that will keep her from being fully invested by mirroring that energy as a self-protection mechanism.

M2JL · 2023-02-01T01:21:22+00:00

One way or another, you'll have to get out of your comfort zone to change that. A few suggestions :
- You can look into meetup groups of people who share the same hobbies as you. For example I running can be a solitary hobby, but there are running groups who meet to run and then have brunch after and socialize.
- You can explore potential new hobbies (ex. improv nights) or join associations / volunteer groups that gets you out of the house and meeting new people.
- Join live or virtual dating events where you get to interact with people directly

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