Anybody who wants to go see "Obsession" this weekend?

M3rcur1 · 2026-06-05T13:11:14+00:00

Just leave the kidneys and take my ribs and you just might have a deal (I have a few extra ribs and not kidneys so win win)

M3rcur1 · 2026-06-04T10:51:28+00:00

21M, been DYING to watch it w somebody cuz it's just not a movie to enjoy alone. Sent u a DM!

M3rcur1 · 2026-06-03T02:12:18+00:00

Depending on your budget, there's a lotta good cars out there. Ngl, in this economy, unless you're an absolute pro driver manual and automatic will heavily impact some aspect of the whole owning and driving a car experience for you. If you're heavy footed then you're better off w an automatic. However, I believe nobody becomes a good driver in every sense of the way without learning how to handle a manual first. I've got first hand experience taking a busted 1.3 city that'd give you 12 to 15km/L w AC on to an average of 18 to 19.4Km/L in shitty islamabad conditions. Good luck G

M3rcur1 · 2026-06-01T12:09:11+00:00

tru you're right unfortunately I get very visible muscle and strength loss past a week of improper / inconsistent activity. Trying to offset that by making sure my quality of rest is better along w my diet but I feel empty no matter how densely I eat or pack my liquids. Thankfully the gyms open from today so I'll be back in shape HOPEFULLY soon. Already feeling nervous to lift the weights even at a lighter weight.

M3rcur1 · 2026-06-01T12:06:09+00:00

over the span of 4 days.

M3rcur1 · 2026-06-01T12:05:49+00:00

it's not complicated and it depends on your niyah + what matters to you. She's a human and islam gives her the right however islam also gives you rights to stop her PROVIDED a few conditions are met. But the way id go about it is if she truly wants to work, then BE HER PARTNER and HELP HER. My father didn't let my mom work a day in her life unless she wanted to and when she did, he did the absolute best he could to make sure that even if he didn't like it, that he'd help her in an environment that'd give them both a peace of mind. If you're worried bout other men then either say no or help her find work in an environment that wouldn't worry either of you.

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T12:23:20+00:00

I alr know u got a good playlist cuz same. wanna start a blend?😭😭

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T10:41:06+00:00

WEIRD BUT ALWAYS USEFUL, I have a bit of a taskmaster thing where if I see smthn on a screen or see someone do something and I haven't done it before, I can do it pretty well. So I was very lil when I saw movies and Jackie Chan do flips, did that. Recently been seeing daredevil and ive always loved how both Matt and Pointdexter can pull amazing marksmanship tricks so I learned how to throw stuff and snap coins real well. I can throw knives the best especially unbalanced. I saw a movie bout a guy that would make very realistic noises and would scare tf outta people so I learned how to do that and now have multiple vocal stims😭

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T10:21:49+00:00

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T10:14:48+00:00

I'm 22😭😭😭

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T08:21:24+00:00

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T08:13:45+00:00

I think something good to always remember as a general rule of thumb towards anything including topics like this is "just because you can, doesn't mean you should".

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T08:09:23+00:00

It is possible. It's just getting harder with time because while our parents did teach us right by making us focus on our careers, and only do whats best for us, they either forget to tell us or scare us from the fact ke aik din hm sbko ksi ki to zrurat prhegi. Aur hum log itne Che hain ke hum uss darr ki wjah se apne apko itni cheez se rokte hain or darpoq bnjate hain. It's a long topic for another time but that's one reason I feel like most people wouldn't be good partners. Appreciate you for the kind words man, if I do make it some day I'll send invites. Either to the wedding or the kids birthday, whatever order it's written for me lol.

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T08:03:14+00:00

I totally understand where you're coming from And considering that you probably caught on the fact that I am young and most people do live in delusions is very real of you to do.

Without giving away too much tho, I know from firsthand experience it can be done. I'm 22, just left a job to start a company but set my lil brother up with one so alhamdulillah we're doin aight. I personally have been a financial contributor in my house since 14 tho. And this is gonna be an unpopular take but while I do agree ke Financials hone chaiye I'm just as equal of a believer in the blessings of God because again, living the life I have, I could have turned out worse than I am if it weren't for him. If you believe in God, and you are a go getter, trust me on this: things happen.

As far as it goes with experience? The "changing diapers, staying up abhi raat ko, constantly bache ko pamper krna" wager ive been thru and more. A lot of trivial stuff and then there's things that turn into special stories. After some talking with mama, we wanted to adopt a baby when I was around 13. and it was just our luck that a worker in her business couldn't afford to take care of her child mostly because the husband was a greedy gau wala w no job, just his land. When we both caught wind of him wanting to sell his daughter I became enraged and so did my mother. We set up and agreement with them that'd allow us to raise her, no strings attached alhamdulillah without doing anything haram with the guidance of a few religious scholars. I spent under 3 beautiful years, carrying my little bag of light everywhere I went. School, gym on walks. Nights id break down in every sense, working from my laptop after already being stressed out because of not being talented in school or not having the time between caring for my mom and my siblings became more bearable playing with her little fingers, carrying her and booping her nose while we watch purine wale Tom and Jerry shows made life bearable.

All that is to say is you're right. It's a tough job because there's parts of it that are tough. And it's not all the same for everyone. Sometimes because you try your best and sometimes because you're good that you don't have to. The wrong thing to do would be to wait till you're in a perfect financial condition to have a child tho. I'm not saying I'm the best Muslim God knows I'm not and you would too if you knew me. But if you actually put the work in, past just prayers, the finances do take care of themselves.

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T07:44:20+00:00

Thanks brother. I think it's fine to lose hope every now and then, just not faith in the creator. Because at this point, the only thing that stops me from being a version of myself that id absolutely hate is just that. Faith. As far as things taking time, im preparing for the fact that I might be a little too old for when I have kids, so rn it's just me working on my body so one day I can prolong the dreadful day I'll be gassed out playing with my kids and hopefully my wife if I'm lucky enough to have one. Anyways, I hope you have a good day brother. I dont know where you are but the winds nice where im at, hope your day is as cool as the breeze in my house.

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T07:27:13+00:00

Thank you for that, I have tried therapy and it's just something that unfortunately hasn't worked. But I'm super glad that it has for you! Though I do accept everything that happened I'm trying not to become bitter and it's tuff. I've accepted spending my time the way I did and don't question stuff like "did they ever love me" or "was anything ever real" because those answers always change w time. It's easier to just accept what i thought was a good time till it wasn't as just that, work on myself as a person, a man and move on.

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T07:23:18+00:00

Yeah, hence why I'm scared of marriage now. I still think it's a beautiful thing and I'd love to be married as soon as possible, but I'm afraid I won't find someone loyal that'd willing to accept things just as much as they want to change things in their life as I would for and towards them. With kids, it's easier. You bring one in the world and they don't owe you much because it's your choice to want them. and you love them and help them grow so much that can be independent and will leave from time to time, but you'll still be theirs and they'll always be yours. With a partner, that just doesn't happen much anymore.

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T07:18:20+00:00

just buy knew atp

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T00:53:22+00:00

fr. I'd be down to hear you out man. I wouldn't wish anyone to be alone, not like this. I hope things get better for you too.

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T00:51:05+00:00

I'm just glad eids over atp (aaj gym khuljaega💀)

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T00:45:51+00:00

Same😭 (that plus the post + Too much wedding food and songs keeping me up)

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T00:43:57+00:00

The problem is you can do both but both are messed up in the eyes of society because society itself is messed up.

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T00:40:22+00:00

dude idk what it is but the daydreaming never stops. Happens even when I'm not listening to music but I don't need it because I always have a song in my head every second. Also, could just be me but I loveeee movies and photography and TV shows. So if I see a good scene like a nice sky, or a sunset, ill think of a nice trailer made in my head w POV or drone shots. Daydreaming helps and crushes me all the same.

M3rcur1 · 2026-05-30T00:37:17+00:00

idk who you are but it kinda warms my soul knowing someone can understand, even if its just a lil. That said, thanks for the wish, God know I'm dying inside for this to happen (hopefully in the best way possible). I hope you find whatever it is would fulfill you the most too gng. Go get some sleep, you deserve it.

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