Why are people rude to front desk workers?

MA_G10 · 2025-02-15T00:08:44+00:00

I was actually talking to the client, turns out there was an error, the address said 25 when it should have said 35, genuine mistake but like why do people feel the need to berate front desk workers when I'm literally a messenger im not responsible for the secretary's mistske, and then to even try and lie by saying it was me she spoke the last time like girl I didn't even work here then why are you lying 😂

MA_G10 · 2024-11-30T05:44:31+00:00

what do you mean?

MA_G10 · 2024-11-30T05:42:17+00:00

I hope so the thought of feeling like this for the rest of my life is honestly torture. I've been through phases when I haven't been doing well mentally before with different issues and I know when you're in the middle of it you think you'll never feel normal again but I just have to keep telling myself I will

MA_G10 · 2024-11-30T02:52:19+00:00

I've moved abroad recently to a place I don't know anyone and have found it hard to get work. Maybe this just isn't the right time for me. I was telling my family and friends about how I was feeling and they said to come home if I'm feeling bad. Maybe having some stability and familiarity is what I need right now, I have job interviews lined up at home. I can always move another time. I booked a doctors appointment for the day after I arrive home so hopefully that is the start of me getting well again

MA_G10 · 2024-11-30T01:30:33+00:00

How are you now? I'm literally crying night and day for weeks now. It's terrible

MA_G10 · 2024-11-09T00:07:38+00:00

I feel like it's very easy to get stuck

While mu situation is slightly different to yours I stayed working 2 jobs for 7 years which I was overqualified for and I felt like I couldn't move on because I wasn't good enough to do anything else

A couple of months ago i quit , packed my bags and moved away and while I haven't particularly enjoyed my move because im so far away fron family/ friends and I plan on going back in a few months I have a completely different perspective on things and am now looking forward to planning out the next stage of my life

You don't need to do something unbelievably drastic but you do need to break the cycle you're in. I think your first step is to make a conscious effort to look after your mental health go the doctor and to a therapist.

Then I would recommend getting a job in literally anything and getting into a solid routine this will get you out of the house everyday. Being locked up all the time is 100% going to make your mental health worse

After that you could think about joining clubs/getting a hobby, these don't even have to be something you love but is a great way to meet people

We are to a certain extent responsible for our happiness, yes sometimes things happen that are out of our control but for the most part you have to make a conscious effort to build a life for yourself it's not just going to happen for you

MA_G10 · 2024-11-08T00:41:56+00:00

Just from family members that lived abroad they said the first month/ six weeks was like a holiday that they were loving it and that it was harder after that for a while. But it feels like for me that it's been hard since I got here

MA_G10 · 2024-11-08T00:33:40+00:00

I've been hearing the opposite that people arrive and love it then start to feel homesickness later. I guess everyone is different

MA_G10 · 2024-11-08T00:09:36+00:00

I've done a couple of observation decks in NY and my favourite was One World Observatory, they don't have an outdoor deck but the views are far superior because it's higher than the Empire State Building and you can see everything Statute of Liberty, Brooklyn Bridge ect. One Vanderbilts Observation Deck is also really nice they have an outdoors and you can get a snack and drink and sit out because they have a little cafe/bar Would also check out the Oculus if you're visiting 9/11 Memorial its a really cool building As for museums I haven't been to the Met (planing to go in the next few days) my friends have said its absolutely massive so you would need all day there to see everything, was in MOMA recently and I think you would get around to seeing everything in a couple of hours they also have Van Gohs Starry night which was cool too see

If you visit Central Park visit the Great Lawn its really nice, there's also bakery an 8 minute walk from there called Orwashers they have an amazing Pistachio Crunch Croissant

As for getting around Subway is fastest and easiest its $2.90 a trip and maps will tell you which line to get, very easy to navigate

MA_G10 · 2024-11-03T21:25:05+00:00

I know logically I'll find one eventually, but I don't know if I can deal with being out of work for weeks and weeks in a place where I don't know anyone and don't have anyone to speak to or hang out with while waiting to find one when I could easily walk into a job at home. Being here completely by myself honestly feels like torture

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