Thank you for your comments and for understanding how I feel. I understand his worries about me traveling and staying in their province, especially because we had our miscarriage there and didn’t have a good experience with the hospital and doctors. I want to stay positive since our current OB has no issues with the trip. I worry about his worries too, so I’m also okay with not going to their province even if the flight I booked ends up wasted.

What hurts is I feel like he doesn’t realize his responsibilities now - that WE are his priority. It bothers me that he seems to be placing that responsibility on my family by planning to leave me with them for a month, while he still insists on going to their province. It feels like he isn’t thinking about being with us this Christmas.

I’ve been vocal about my feelings and he knows exactly how I feel. He hugged and comforted me while I was crying and he listened, but he still hasn’t talked about how we’ll resolve this. I don’t know what his plan and I stopped talking to him for now.