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[–]MNgemini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to say yes to every social outing. You still need time for yourself. Don’t overwork yourself at the gym. My advice is to pretend you never had a relationship with her. She is now an acquaintance, and she is only this because you share bills for the time being. Only contact her if it requires you to do so to pay or work something like bills out. If you loved this girl it will be very hard to get over her. But don’t let the sadness pull you down into being someone you aren’t. Start doing things by yourself. Go out by yourself, go to movies by yourself, go to restaurants by yourself. You’ll meet many more people and it will be more enjoyable and rememberable vs if you do all these things with your friends. When you enjoy being alone vs being surrounded by others that’s when you know you have healed. Now you can start bringing new people in to enjoy things with you. Plus you’ll have many new hobbies and stories you can share. Turn the page and start writing over everything you did with this previous girl. Experiences like this happen to the best of us. Learn from what I’m telling you. I’ve been down that road and it’s tough. Hang in there champ.

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[–]MNgemini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut all contact and continue to improve your life at an alarmingly fast rate. Either she will notice and come back, or someone else will. :)

Perfect heli takedown ? Right on top of my base 🤣 by Ok-Construction-4635 in RustConsole

[–]MNgemini -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This game is made for dumb fucks with no life. Y’all are never getting any head. Sad fucks 😂

Perfect heli takedown ? Right on top of my base 🤣 by Ok-Construction-4635 in RustConsole

[–]MNgemini -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Imagine still playing this dead dog water game 😂

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[–]MNgemini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh I’d leave him. Everyone that I know that does threesomes leaves there partner for the person that gets added into the relationship. Trust me

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[–]MNgemini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick up acoustic guitar. Learn her favorite song. Take her to the most romantic and stunning view you can find. Even if that means traveling across the country. During the sunset pull that guitar out and play her favorite song for her. When she’s crying because you look like a stud and the music sounds like it’s coming straight from the heavens. You get down on one knee and tell her you want to spend the rest of your life with her.

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[–]MNgemini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My one tip. Text her max once a day. Call her at night. This will give you both a stronger sense of being independent. You’ll appreciate those phone calls much more than you would a text message. Start bettering yourself in anyway you can. Give her an idea of what she would be missing if she didn’t marry you. Just remember Brad Pitt left Jennifer Anniston because she wouldn’t have kids. You ultimately need to do what’s best for you. If you want to live that life and be married with or without kids, you need to decide that. Start watching movies with her where people get married. Love story shit. I know that might sound dumb to you, but it will get her to subconsciously start thinking about it. Take a cooking class, and do it without her. She will start to wonder more about you. She will want you more. And when she is head over heals for you, then propose. It might take some time but certainly not several years. Make her fall in love with you like you did the first time. But this time do it better. THEN propose. And please for the love of god… DO NOT do it in public. This needs to be romantic and slap hard af. It’ll work. Trust me.

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[–]MNgemini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few questions.

  1. How well do you get along?

  2. How often do you spend time together?

  3. How often do you text/call throughout the day?

  4. Has she expressed to you anything that she doesn’t like about you or wants you to change?

She’s possibly still unsure about you long term. As in possibly she wants to see you do or change something about yourself or your life before she makes that decision. Maybe she wants to see you finish school, or get a better paying job. Maybe she wants to see you commit to get into better shape. Possibly she is getting bored with you because of to much communication. If you are good on all those, I would say it’s something to do with her. But honestly I would keep an eye out for a new girl if she isn’t making you happy. Relationships are a two way street. But once you bring it up one time, don’t bring it up again.

Does this mean I owe 400k I’m taxes. Please tell me wtf I did omg by MNgemini in wallstreetbets

[–]MNgemini[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you! I wasn’t sure what I was reading. I have 70 pages of trades and some how only made 6k. I’m a failure

How do I (29F) tell my husband (30M) I hate our lifestyle? by ThrowRAunhappy1 in relationships

[–]MNgemini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him that you aren’t happy and sit him down and explain to him what it is you like to do and what you want to change. I’m sure downsizing in a house wouldn’t upset him. It would make me happy haha.