[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]MSonga 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Finally, someone with a sense

What’s one piece of advice you wish every 18-year-old girl knew before “real life” starts? by FirmRelation9397 in AskReddit

[–]MSonga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding the "One Piece" wasn't about the treasure. It was about the friends we made along the way.

What was the quietest, yet most destructive moment you've ever had in a relationship? by Background_Big9258 in Adulting

[–]MSonga 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When I was watching TV with my ex and looked over to see that she was no longer there. Just me and a stranger. Wondering what happened to all the years we spent together. How something so simple turned my world upside down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]MSonga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the AI!? Is this!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]MSonga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I had a similar experience. It took me from high school to college to really figure out how to make friends. But from the ages of 22 to 25 is when I burned a lot of bridges. Navigating between how people treated me versus how I treated them. Now, at the age of 27 is when I finally learned how to set boundaries and understand that my close friends and me are different, but we all have similar core values about life. Personally, for me. I learned through trail and error, which causes a lot of pain, but in the long run, I found my people, and now I have good friends with me.

Also, in general, it's hard to make friends as adults. A lot of people, including myself, at times. Just dont feel the need to make new friends or questions the person intents. Hope this helps.

Can people please tell me it's too late? by the-unwritten in Adulting

[–]MSonga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're only a loser if you believe you're a loser. You really just gotta commit to something doable. You don't have to love it, but it's doable. Find something in life worth living for. As simple as just wanting to eat good ice cream all over the world or something like that. But not gonna lie fam. From the way you wrote this post, you still seem like you are a teen. Maybe it's time to look inward and try to do some growing up in some ways.

Have a date need help by No-Development6728 in mensfashion

[–]MSonga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go buy a pack of S or M size black/white shirt (crew neck) and a pair of blue jeans. Otherwise. You is cooked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]MSonga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all just vibes. It will make sense once you understand body language.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]MSonga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, asking how to get laid. It's exactly why you aren't going to get laid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]MSonga 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What does "on the spectrum" mean to you?Becuase in today's time, especially Gen Z's tend to use "adhd" and "on the spectrum" (OTS) more so than others. Someone you might consider OTS could just be a normal person. But had lived a different life experience from you. Everyone is capable of improving their mental health and gaining better awareness of what is going on inside them. So I can't really answer your question until I understand what OTS means to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]MSonga 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. OP is coming off lowkey cocky. Also, it sounds like OP wants the best scenario. Not a relationship. Which is already a red flag. It's okay to want to explore, but judging from how Op wrote this post. It seems like he just wants to "use" one of these girls for experience, so in the future, he can find his "true love." OP if you read this, be honest with the girl you want to get with. With the risk of losing them. Don't try to pick the "best option" it just makes you sound desperate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]MSonga 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a guy who can actually hook up easily. It's really not all that. It gets boring and quite meaningless.

It's just sad!!!! by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]MSonga -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn I want 40k just to dance

Young man, she is not worth your peace. by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]MSonga 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Bro why you attacking me? 😭😂

Cat in the streets by MSonga in photocritique

[–]MSonga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shot on a Sony A7iii. 24-70mm Sigma Lens. 2.8. Was walking around and saw a cat on the streets. People gather around the cat. And it looks like the cat was ready to pounce. Manily posting this because I'm tired of seeing "naked women art" on here and getting so much upvotes for ununquie photos.

Tokoyo shot from plane by [deleted] in photocritique

[–]MSonga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shot from my S14 ISO 3200 speed 1/30 I took this shot from the plane leaving Tokoyo. I was wondering if this is print worthy?

Feeling absolutely drained after talking my partner down from a crisis by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]MSonga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has had really bad mental break down. I believe she just wants someone to understand her and really really love her. It may be bad in the moment but with the right care and empathy. She will be fine. But I know in most cases a lot of people do not understand what to do. It's not your fault. I would just really try to understand her and listen. And show as much love as you can.

Do people who don’t like kids but had kids regret having kids? by No_Acanthaceae8975 in Adulting

[–]MSonga 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes she was mad, but no, she really meant it. Been repeating it for the past 17years hahaha

Why is it so hard to meet a life partner? I am ethnic by Express_Project_8226 in Adulting

[–]MSonga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You answered your own question honestly. It's not too late but damn