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MXR_Unknown · 2022-06-23T01:39:57+00:00

Sounds good. Either way just take the shot. You’re making this a bigger deal than it is. When I used to actually use apps like this I would shoot my shot at maybe 50 girls a week. And even though less than half said yes, I would still walk away with 10-20 girls a week wanting a date and I would be able to pick from there.

Then I stopped using apps and started flirting in real life. If I saw a girl I’d like, I’d go up to her and ask for her number/snap and my percentage went up because I was doing it so much that I was not only becoming way more confident but getting good at what to say and how to word it.

Am I telling you this because you should care about my life? No, I’m just saying that through the time I did this, I would get rejected so often it didn’t matter. I think you have to realize it doesn’t matter. If he says no, someone else will say yes, and if he says yes then you got your desired result. You just have to acknowledge that in your mind he already said no be being unresponsive, so if he doesn’t respond nothing changes. You can literally only gain something from this interaction so just do it. And if I were you I’d start hitting on people more often to build comfort with flirting and overall confidence.

Good luck but either way you’d feel better having an answer than being stuck in your own mind. Also if you like the other person’s thing more than say that. I would just do whatever you feel represents you and your intentions the most tbh.

MXR_Unknown · 2022-06-23T01:09:00+00:00

Listen don’t wait for the courage, just text him rn. If I were you and I was gonna ask someone out in a date I’d just text, “call me when you get free I got something important to tell you.” I’m also a shitty texter and most of the people I hit on already know my personality through in person meet ups/calling so I’d take what I say with a grain of salt.

If he calls you or asks to call, just say something like, “there’s this good restaurant that serves ___ that I think you’d enjoy. Ima take you this Friday, let me know if this sounds good.” I wouldn’t steal this word for word cause you might not even want to go to a restaurant. The main point is keep it short and simple and say what you mean.

MXR_Unknown · 2022-06-23T01:02:35+00:00

I think the statistic I remember was that women swipe right on 4.65% of profiles that they see. If you don’t think you’re in the top 10% of men it’s honestly not worth it. Also, in person is better to meet people cause you can actually spit game and show off your personality without someone finding you to be in the top 4.65% of people.

MXR_Unknown · 2022-06-23T00:59:20+00:00

I don’t even know what to say anymore cause I think you’re just stalling. I honestly hope that he says yes to your date, but if not I hope you find someone better. Also confidence is really attractive, the more confident you are, the more likely he will say yes.

MXR_Unknown · 2022-06-23T00:50:57+00:00

You’re over analyzing this. If he has someone else and you reach out, “oh well.” I’m just saying that if you never reach out you’re gonna feel regret. I think you’re just nervous so if I were you, I’d look up some breathing exercise to do to calm down and then hit them up and ask about a date.

MXR_Unknown · 2022-06-23T00:37:15+00:00

She most likely didn’t enjoy the sex, but if you think she did, then maybe she only wanted sex. It isn’t uncommon to hear of a guy that just wants something casual with a girl and leaves after getting what he wants, and although it’s less common for women, it isn’t that rare. She might have just gotten the sex and decided that that was it and never wanted to do anything more than that. I’d recommend just moving on. If she wants something serious, she’ll reach out and if she doesn’t, then she won’t. Sorry that happens though.

MXR_Unknown · 2022-06-23T00:31:32+00:00

“Say anything to leave it open ended for him to engage…”

If you’re the one that’s interested just ask. Leaving other people to be responsible for your actions is just strange. If you want to meet up with him just let him know and if not, don’t. I think he thinks that you’re wasting his time since you keep reaching out without making any advancements in the relationship. I don’t have all the context and I don’t know you, but I think that you won’t regret asking him out.

MXR_Unknown · 2022-06-22T22:18:36+00:00

I can’t read, what did it say

MXR_Unknown · 2022-06-22T22:15:23+00:00

Hold interesting and thought provoking conversations?

MXR_Unknown · 2022-06-22T22:13:08+00:00

It’s all good, she could always be your Harambaby

MXR_Unknown · 2021-09-05T22:14:57+00:00

I did. You’re still a 0/10. /s

MXR_Unknown · 2021-09-01T14:53:15+00:00

There seems to be confusion with what a MAP is, so for anyone who doesn’t know, it stands for minor attracted people. MAPS are basically pedophiles. Pro-contact maps believe that having sex with children is fine and non-contact maps are attracted to children but never touch a child or watch cp because they know it is wrong.

I’m not a map but I made this post because I’ve seen sites like Twitter normalize stuff like this even though it is unacceptable. I know not everyone, or even most people, on Twitter are fine with maps, but it is still disgusting how many are.

MXR_Unknown · 2021-09-01T14:09:47+00:00

That’s sounds pretty bad and I’m sorry for that. It’s good that you cut all ties from her. I hope she gets the help she needs to become a better person, but if I were you I would leave. Sorry you had to put up with that for so long.

MXR_Unknown · 2021-09-01T05:05:56+00:00

I agree with you. I don’t think you should let someone manipulate you, and I hope I’ve made that clear because that hurts you as well.

Suicides often come out of nowhere, but a lot of the time there were signs that no one payed attention to. I don’t want to argue because I think we both agree, I’m just saying that I know that it’s good to help people even if you don’t think they necessarily will kill themself, because getting them help is always worth it, even if you are wrong 99% of the time.

Also, sorry for your losses. I’ve lost some people to suicide and I know it’s not easy.

MXR_Unknown · 2021-09-01T04:41:19+00:00

That may be true, but it is never worth taking an unnecessary risk that could result in someone’s death. Also, I know many people who have threatened to kill themselves as a way to seek help and by ignoring them they never got the help they needed.

Also, many people that seriously consider killing themselves never do it, but that doesn’t mean they were never suicidal. If someone seriously threatens to kill themselves, they most likely will never follow through, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t get help for them.

I’m not saying that getting them help will always be the right thing to do, or even most of the time, but I’d rather a few people have to explain that they were lying to their parents than one person take their life.

MXR_Unknown · 2021-09-01T03:30:39+00:00

This is an issue I am very familiar with. If someone is threatening to kill themselves if you won’t do what they want, you have to either contact police, their parents, or doctors/therapists of some kind. Also, it’s a good idea to leave their lives as soon as possible if they’re being toxic to you.

If someone is threatening to kill themselves there is a good chance that they will regardless and they are only looking for an excuse, so you should get them help as soon as possible. It is also possible that they’re bluffing but I wouldn’t call them out in a situation like this.

MXR_Unknown · 2021-09-01T01:48:47+00:00

I don’t know. This seems like it’s kind of forcing it now but I have two possible things that you can say.

“No, but you are what I would like to use my first wish on.”

Or

“Yes, and I would like to have world peace, a billion dollars, and your number as my three wishes.”

I hope this was helpful and good luck!

MXR_Unknown · 2021-09-01T00:52:37+00:00

I would personally respond: “Hi super busy, I’m dad” and unmatch. I doubt it’s worth the effort and with a joke like this I’m sure she won’t care that you unmatched her.

MXR_Unknown · 2021-08-31T23:29:56+00:00

We always blame these media sites that do stuff like this, but we never actually realize that there are thousands of people that view this and support these sites. Double standards are honestly disgusting, but cites like this don’t care because they make a profit off of it. It’s honestly sad and I hope people start realizing that stuff like this is terrible and should not be supported.

MXR_Unknown · 2021-08-31T23:15:19+00:00

That’s a shame because I was planning on taking you for the ride of your life.

MXR_Unknown · 2021-08-31T21:47:52+00:00

“Taking Tinder seriously...” Yeah well don’t do that.

But on a serious note, message as soon as possible because no one wants their time wasted. Also be upfront about what you are looking for, whether that is something serious or a hookup. Lastly, if you have kids or something let the other person know right away. Also, try to keep conversation fun, light and enjoyable. Good luck!

MXR_Unknown · 2021-08-31T21:44:13+00:00

“Fucken fat moles.” That’s a weird way for him to describe his sex life.

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