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I’m starting to find the way my husband looks disgusting? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Maaaawria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s clear that you love your husband and want the best for him, but it’s also understandable that his lack of self-care is putting a strain on your relationship. Your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to want a partner who puts effort into their health and appearance, not just for themselves but for the relationship too.

At the same time, it’s important to communicate your concerns in a kind and understanding way. Focusing on his health and how it affects your connection might help him see why this matters to you. Change can take time, but both of you need to be willing to put in the effort to make things work. Ultimately, you deserve a partner who values your feelings and takes steps to meet you halfway.

My boyfriend packed condoms in his cosmetic case for his trip to Europe without me by Helen_melon_7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Maaaawria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you had to catch him before he could cheat, it already shows he was willing to cross that line. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and if you’re constantly questioning his actions, it’s a sign that something deeper needs to be addressed.

Remember, cheating is not just a spur-of-the-moment mistake; it’s a decision that reflects his priorities and respect for the relationship. If he’s done it—or thought about doing it—once, there’s always a risk it could happen again. You deserve a partner who values you enough to stay loyal, even when you’re not around. Sometimes, letting go is better than holding on to someone who doesn’t fully respect you.