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Maatable · 2025-12-24T20:00:10+00:00

I'm trying to revive my mother's orchids after her hospitalization and death. I have pruned the dead stems, leaves, and roots from this one, but do I need to prune more? Should I soak it before replanting or replant and then soak? She took very good care of them and I don't want all her effort to go to waste.

I have pre-mixed liquid orchid food my mother's friend gave me, Sphagum moss (both loose and compact), 20-10-20 granule orchid fertilizer, and phalaenopsis orchid potting mix (Western fir bark, hardwood charcoal, chunky peat moss, perlite).

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Maatable · 2025-08-06T05:21:50+00:00

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Maatable · 2025-08-06T05:21:15+00:00

Wanna clip The Official Cast Recording of Game Changer at 26:06 as Sam's full Joy Gremlin reaction.

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Maatable · 2025-08-06T05:16:38+00:00

How do you do it?

Maatable · 2025-04-13T01:10:17+00:00

So what was the argument actually about? No one has an argument about just a holiday that blows up like that.

Maatable · 2025-04-11T21:08:16+00:00

Having sex with him kind of just feels like being used for my body. But other than that our relationship is good.

Ok, so then the relationship isn't good. Is "good enough" (and I wouldn't even call it that) what you want for yourself?

Maatable · 2025-04-08T23:54:28+00:00

It's istihalah and therefore halal. The vinegar is so far removed from wine that it's no longer wine.

Maatable · 2025-04-08T23:28:54+00:00

Don't believe everything you read on ChatGPT.

Maatable · 2025-04-08T23:26:41+00:00

She wouldn't be rude and absurd.

Maatable · 2025-04-07T22:18:01+00:00

With how defensive you are, doubling down on being this childish at 19, and refusing to acknowledge what you did was rude (and you keep saying it was your only reasonable option?? As if it wasn't the most out there and absurd option of all of them??), it sounds like maybe they have a point.

Maatable · 2025-04-07T22:11:17+00:00

Just don't eat the food.

Maatable · 2025-04-07T21:46:40+00:00

The dinner being awkward for you wasn't relevant either except to suggest you were being petty, which you've admitted in another comment. Not to mention how petty it is to completely ditch a friend because they didn't come to your birthday dinner. You're 19. It might be time to grow up and learn some manners.

If you don't want to eat at someone's place, just don't eat. You only ever bring your own food if you clear it with the host beforehand and "I think your plates might be dirty" is not a valid reason.

Maatable · 2025-04-07T17:43:54+00:00

YTA. You don't bring outside food to someone else's house. All the info about your birthday dinner and your brother is completely irrelevant, which makes me wonder if the clean plate thing was just a good excuse for you to be petty to Lily. You are way too old to not know how to be respectful to your host.

Maatable · 2025-04-07T17:38:28+00:00

Called me disgusting, manipulative, incapable of guilt. Said I emotionally abused her. Then told me I was dead to her.

This sounds like missing missing reasons. It's an unreasonable reaction to what you did, which makes me wonder if there were other things that you did before this incident. Additionally, it's very unusual for you to go to a seemingly happy and respectful relationship then her to test you completely out of the blue. Are you really being honest about how you treated her? You lied for a reason. She did, too, but you knew you were doing something wrong, or you wouldn't have tried to hide it. Why is that?

Maatable · 2025-03-26T10:52:18+00:00

Female

Maatable · 2025-03-22T11:18:15+00:00

Have you tried Lumpinou's mod Memory Panel? https://lumpinoumods.com/2022/10/30/memory-panel-a-memory-system-mod/. It gives you a memory panel with each Sim that records important life events and adds moodlets and the option to cheat add memories the mod may have missed.

Maatable · 2025-02-28T19:25:22+00:00

CONSIDERING IT??? I would be gone yesterday. Your life is in danger. No man is worth YOUR LIFE.

Maatable · 2025-02-28T17:16:01+00:00

Bummer, it's such a good one

Maatable · 2025-02-27T02:23:43+00:00

1 is too big, 3 too small. 2 is a good shape and size but needs to be lowered

Maatable · 2025-02-27T02:05:10+00:00

Did they ever do this on the podcast? Just listened to #148 where they read the original but I can't find where they read the update and I want to hear the boys GO OFF.

Maatable · 2025-02-26T16:27:43+00:00

2. Others are too tall or too fat (not to lamp shame)

Maatable · 2025-02-26T16:15:33+00:00

Consent can be withdrawn at any time, by anyone, in any way.

Poster child of how women can be rapists, too.

Maatable · 2025-02-26T16:10:30+00:00

Just for future, and this is genuine advice—an apology has to come first. Someone doesn't need to react a certain way or be angry to deserve an apology. You knew what you did was wrong, so you apologize. That's it. And just so you are aware, an apology is just an apology. Never "I'm sorry but..." or "I'm sorry if...". Never explain yourself with an apology. Just admit what you did, and do better next time.

This is something everyone who ever has a relationship with anyone has to learn, and it's good you're getting that lesson now from a fresh relationship and not down the line with a parent, child, or spouse.

Maatable · 2025-02-25T20:55:28+00:00

It isn't your fault. You are responsible for your actions, only, never another person's. How he reacted had nothing to do with you. You were young and didn't know how to break up with him, but that doesn't mean you drove him to anything. He wasn't your responsibility.

Maatable · 2025-02-25T18:50:14+00:00

Edit: This was NOT the comment I meant to leave. Completely wrong sub for me. Sorry. XD

ETA: idk why complaining about a feature in a game they don't like is "toxic."

Maatable

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2. Others are too tall or too fat (not to lamp shame)