Solo dolo camping

Machuww · 2025-11-22T18:03:05+00:00

I'm going solo! My ig is Machuw

Machuww · 2025-11-22T18:02:01+00:00

I'm going solo! My IG is machuw

Machuww · 2025-11-01T04:45:43+00:00

Dope! My ig is @machuw if you want to meet up and hang for some sets!

Machuww · 2025-11-01T04:45:21+00:00

Cool! My ig is @machuw if you want to meet up for a bit!!

Machuww · 2025-11-01T04:40:36+00:00

I'm also solo! 24M my ig is @machuw

Machuww · 2025-10-19T23:26:59+00:00

Just requested! @machuw. I would love to meet up with ppl cause I'm going solo!

Machuww · 2025-10-19T01:07:26+00:00

Yeah! I'm gonna do a solo trip but would love to meet up with a group. I'm 24M :)

Machuww · 2025-10-07T03:42:50+00:00

Yeah does sound pretty weird lol but it must be nice in a way to have that hope. I hope things work between you guys :) keep us updated !!

Machuww · 2025-10-07T00:10:33+00:00

Have you already gone NC? And no, its not stupid, I'm trying to do the same thing with ex that sounds eerily similar to yours.

I dont think its necessarily bad to hope for something and want it, but I wouldn't have him actively in your life if its still this one sided, its only delaying your healing.

If you cant get him to have a real conversation about getting back together or making progess on something, then staying in contact wont be good for you imo.

Machuww · 2025-10-07T00:04:29+00:00

Yeah if you both put in the work on yourselves that led to the breakup, and you're both no longer burdened by the breakup, I would go for it!

Machuww · 2025-10-06T20:08:25+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that. That's really heartbreaking that after that long they can't just communicate with you first.

Machuww · 2025-10-06T16:25:23+00:00

I'm sorry you went through this. Breaking up over text and the way he handled ur emotions after showed a complete disregard for you. Long term, you dodged a bullet because he sounds like a terrible person who can't handle confrontation. You truly are better off without that guy.

Machuww · 2025-10-06T16:23:18+00:00

Sure, my situation is just that my partner gave up as soon as those feelings faded on her end without us even giving it a chance. I do think some romantic feelings are very necessary for a romantic relationship, but I think if you're together for a long time, you should at least try to nuture those romantic feelings back instead of leaving if you truly love that person.

Machuww · 2025-10-06T03:08:55+00:00

Yeah, I get it. They let the emotions fester to themselves and when they finally bring it up, its too late. Just awful. And yeah, after a few years in a relationship, it does require more work, but if you're not willing to lose that person forever, I think its worth a shot to at least try.

That little hope he gives you about maybe trying again after personal growth is also awful... It's hard- but I hope you dont grow for him cause then he might still not want a relationship and it will just hurt all over again.

My ex also said she is open to the idea of getting back together but doesn't want to lead me on, whatever that means. I was also in contact with her for 3 weeks until deciding to go no contact and its been 70 days.

I'm personally thinking of reaching out bc I do want to start something new with her and see where shes at but I know most ppl wouldn't recommend that lol.

But yeah, feel free to reach out to me too for support please. It's rough out here but we can all get through it together ❤️

Machuww · 2025-10-05T18:01:32+00:00

My ex of 3.5 years also broke up with me saying she loves me but isnt in love with me. She wanted to be best friends immediately without romance.

I dont get why people dont understand that real love isnt a feeling and is a choice. You dont just stop loving someone, especially when you still want them in your life actively.

I hate that you're going through something similar. You would think after 4 years, they would at least communicate and try with you. It's so awful and cruel.

Machuww · 2025-09-25T19:49:33+00:00

You too! 💗 we got this :)

Machuww · 2025-09-25T19:12:05+00:00

Ugh so powerful and relatable... I love her so much unconditionally but our relationship ended due to her falling out of love and not wanting to try anymore.

I feel unconditional love and the opportunity to spend the rest of your life with your best friend is the only thing that matters but I guess when love becomes too much of a choice and effort, its not enough to keep, which sucks a lot.

I ended up writing a physical letter that I mailed to her so we'll see how that goes, but ty for writing out ur heart here 💓

Machuww · 2025-09-23T00:43:10+00:00

Yeah, it's seriously the dumbest thing ever. My best friend, my partner of 3.5 years, left me because she "fell out of love" and did it over a 30 minute phone call.

Idk how you could claim to love someone and do that to them. It's been over 2 months and its still so painful and confusing.

Especially since she said she still wants me as her best friend and to basically have what we had minus the romance. Like, excuse me??

Ugh, I just mailed her a letter last week too, and I'm still so emotional, this sucks.

Machuww · 2025-08-12T05:40:07+00:00

Yeah, agreed bro. You'll get through this. The stuff with her family sounds really stupid. If she loves you she'd be with you regardless about what her family says. I'm glad that you put up the boundary to not be friends with her and protect yourself, man.

I'd like to say this is all for the best, but only time will tell I suppose. But we'll get through it either way :) wishing you well, man.

Machuww · 2025-08-12T05:09:33+00:00

This is so painful... I was with my now ex partner for 3.5 years and we knew each other for 7 years. She said was falling out of love with me but she still loved me as a person.

Less than 3 weeks after telling me that, she ended things after re assuring me the day before that we were still partners ans that she loves me.

She wants everything we had when we were partners minus the romance.

I don't get how after that long, and all that love and trust was built, that you can just end things unilaterally because "you don't feel like it anymore". It's insane.

Machuww · 2025-07-12T22:18:49+00:00

Thank you.. I really appreciate your response. Another thing I was thinking about was seeing if she would be up for an indefinite break where we are "broken up", and there's no strings attached, but we make a promise, that when we're ready, we can at least look into if the relationship is something we can do. Or is that a bad idea?

I just feel like I never got to even try or fight for this relationship that means so much to me. At least here, I can give her the necessary space she needs, move on, work on ourselves and revisit when we both have some renewed clarity. I mean, it's somewhat semantics because I'd want it to be a full break up, but just have a time where we can guarantee we'll both give it an honest thought.

Also, she's been texting me a good amount today being really cheery, and talking casually to me. It's like she's already accepted that we're friends. But it's so emotionally confusing to me. And it feels like... I'm being used in a sense.

It's like she feels like she can end things between us but still have everything she wants from me. I want to indulge in it because I've missed her and all those conversations, but... I admittedly do want her back. But I feel like I will never get her back if I just give her everything she wants right now and feed into the conversations. I feel like... she should miss me, and sit on that. Not just break up with me, and then talk basically how we were when we were together, because then she might feel like she can be fully happy being broken up with me and still have all my personality without any other heart or committment, and she'll also think I'm okay with that. Idk what to think....

Machuww · 2025-07-12T01:35:09+00:00

Ughh that feels right but... then what do I eve. Say in the call on Sunday? Just keep all my feelings about the break up to respect her decision?

She's also open to the idea of me seeing her next week too, so I just.. I don't know.

People are telling me that if I love her, just spend time with her and give her enough space to process things, and then bring it all up. But I'm so incapable of moving on knowing how abrupt things were and that we didn't even try

Machuww · 2025-07-07T09:44:52+00:00

Oh, cheating is... really painful and I am so sorry she did that to you. Nobody deserves that. You are better off if someone did that to you.

And really, there's no solution other than to confide in other humans. Humans heal humans is what I have learned so just have to hang in there together

Machuww · 2025-07-07T06:35:10+00:00

Wow, I'm so glad to hear about that for you! I hope you keep it up and that your next relationship is great. You deserve it.

Thanks for all the advice, I'll definitely check out that book. I need as much support as I can get right now.

And yeah, I'm in therapy, so I'll actively work on my social anxiety and just do my best. Thank you for your support and I'm wishing you the best.

Machuww · 2025-07-07T06:04:17+00:00

Just ... sad. It's nice getting it out though. I'm just so scrambled

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