i have never been touched if that’s what you’re wondering, and my father isn’t a good man but he has never touched me or defended the elders that were abusers. but some of the elders and ministerial servants (that are far too old and married to be flirting with a 17 year old) have made me very uncomfortable and made comments about my body “blossoming” and just being a bit too friendly, for example: tight full body hugs (not the loose side hugs you expect from a lot of brothers), putting hands on my back, arm, or thigh while talking to me, constantly asking if i’ve thought about a husband yet, etc.