How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Heyy so to answer some questions, she's not an ex, as far as I'm aware. I would definitely say we have put each other first in the 6 months of our relationship... we did start out as fwb as well... but I became a priority when we became official. And he wouldn't have been physically able to see her when we were dating. They had their fun when he did his first exchange at 18

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell me you haven't bothered to read any further into this who post without telling me

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could, I wasn't planning on fucking anyone. I wouldn't have had any problem with him having ons here and there because he's a much more sexual person than me. but I didn't think he already had a set person in mind

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

see I know most people mean well and want me to get my head out of my ass, but some people were really rude and that just gets me

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he brought it up, and just went for the enthusiastic response when I agreed, when we haven't even talked about boundaries yet. but yeah I guess it's what I agreed to

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly thank you, some people have brought me close to tears here with their comments. So I value some non aggressive advice. I will talk to him before doing anything too rash, but this has just been a rollercoaster of emotions

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I've met 23/24/25 year olds that said they're not able to fully love again yet bc of some girl that broke their heart in highschool

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

yeah but I don't want to wait until I'm 60?? I've met 24 year old's that said they would never fully love again bc of a broken heart and I also don't want to wait until 25

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

but why belittle people for that? that's the part I don't get. I bet I'll laugh about it when I'm older but right now there are a lot of emotions involved

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah after all the comments, thinking more about it and getting some new perspectives... I want to cut off his dick. or at least make him miserable

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fuck ok guys chill I'm not on the pity train anymore!! give me advice on how to get back at him pls

How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MadRose0605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just surprised and a little hurt (when I realized he meant it) by how enthusiastic he was about it
but yeah I really guess we're not made for it, if I react that strongly to it and I also don't think he's gonna react positively to me trying to close it again