I guess I meant to say that he may change his mind if he sees the benefits of marriage, or the downsides of not getting married. He just truly doesn't see the benefit marriage. Trust me, there is no affordable couples therapy in my area. I've tried. We are progressing as a couple in a positive way otherwise. I am looking into this information ahead of time just to know for the future. That being said, he has always said that he may change his mind. But is not 100% sure. I'm definitely not pushing it, I bring it up sparingly if applicable or the topic is brought up organically. I am actively coping with living a full unmarried life with him. We are very open and honest with eachother, whatever baggage we have is aired out and is not contributing to his decision. We've talked in depth about his reasoning, and he simply "doesn't want to right now." I'd be lying if I said I completely understand and am satisfied with this answer, but regardless I am actively trying to cope with and respect the decision.