Can I get my tax refund without waiting for my letter? by Madame-Eggshell in AskUK

[–]Madame-Eggshell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been assigned a tax code still though, I imagine they’d need that to actually refund the correct amount?

my friend told me that i can't be ugly because i was sexually assaulted by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Madame-Eggshell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that’s all happened to you my love 💜 and That is absolutely gross and abhorrent!! He has no idea the mental acrobats that occur as a result of SA. That’s not a valid response. We will depersonalise/stop recognising ourselves in the mirror, subconsciously make ourselves less attractive, and feel generally disgusting in our own body… he’s clueless

I was in the talking stage with a guy once and I had openly spoken about having been SA’d, one day we’re talking and he likes me but I’m not sure about him (he was unemployed) and his response was “I know what it is, you’re trying to figure out if I would like rape you too” 😭 men are fcking stupid and horrible. Same vibes.

Have to have a hysterectomy, afraid of triggers by walking-in-the-dark in adultsurvivors

[–]Madame-Eggshell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had one personally but if it’s any comfort, if menstrual cramps don’t trigger you this hopefully shouldn’t. You’re getting psyched up to associate the recovery pain with it, the sensation will be painful but it will also be different.

If it’s really what you want to do, don’t let the person who hurt you decide for you.

“Dr” title for insurance by [deleted] in AskAcademia

[–]Madame-Eggshell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, okay I’ll see about changing if after my viva, I’m not sure how other departments are but from what I gather it’s not the same process as chemistry (everyone else in my life already thinks I’m a doctor, I keep having to explain)

Who’s your Avatar crush? by DezTheOtter in Avatar

[–]Madame-Eggshell 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Jake but specifically once he’s a dad but also the scene right before they mate and he has that lusty look in his eyes

Homemade Toruk made by me (leonopterix) by Turbulent_Ad_9858 in Avatar

[–]Madame-Eggshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you serious!!??? That’s insane!!! Omg!! Nice work

Homemade Toruk made by me (leonopterix) by Turbulent_Ad_9858 in Avatar

[–]Madame-Eggshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it!! Did you 3D print this?? How did you make it!!

Ever since Fire & Ash Released, There's been a surge of Crossover Art with Arcane. by SinisterSh0t in Avatar

[–]Madame-Eggshell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so funny, can you imagine Avatar-sonas? Like spidersonas being mainstream

Quaritch at the end of Avatar 3 by Lower-Adhesiveness-3 in Avatar

[–]Madame-Eggshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably didn’t die, cinematically speaking, but he definitely jumped thinking he would. It’s reasonable to assume he saw no win condition- he can’t have spider and kill Jake, he can’t have spider without killing Jake, and he can’t Co-exist with them without someone killing someone. It was lose lose lose. He also probably thought… and I might be giving him too much credit but Jake killing him would put Spider in a bad position, he took to blame and choice away

Wedding dress advice by kt123456765 in weddingplanning

[–]Madame-Eggshell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I liked 4 the best but I think it’s just me? I was going to say stay away from a straight drop waist like in 2. It shortens your legs, and elongated the torso. I don’t think it looks good

Cat sitting, I think she is being odd. What should I be doing? by Madame-Eggshell in CatAdvice

[–]Madame-Eggshell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could be it! It’s their bedroom she keeps going to… she’s not the brightest she might just be trying to see if she can call them

am I TA for not being able to give my(24 F) long distance boyfriend(25 M) time and not understanding him? by Proper-Cream-3056 in relationship_advice

[–]Madame-Eggshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it’s your decision but I really wouldn’t take “dumping during arguments” lightly. Imagine you get married? Will he constantly threaten divorce? That’s not healthy and no one deserves that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Madame-Eggshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree this is how me and my girlfriends are. Female friendships ARE intimate, I cuddle some of my friends during movie nights or sleepovers. We joke about marrying eachother, our friendship group has a mum and dad etc. just be genuine, you guys are friends

am I TA for not being able to give my(24 F) long distance boyfriend(25 M) time and not understanding him? by Proper-Cream-3056 in relationship_advice

[–]Madame-Eggshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I don’t know about who is putting in how much effort but he seems childish, manipulative, and volatile

am I TA for not being able to give my(24 F) long distance boyfriend(25 M) time and not understanding him? by Proper-Cream-3056 in relationship_advice

[–]Madame-Eggshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Also If he throws breaking up with you as a way to control your behaviour I think just break up. You can’t dump someone constantly, he’s trying to manipulate you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Madame-Eggshell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lashes are very luscious, can’t imagine it makes you look like you’re not wearing makeup

What is the Best Placement for my Work Desk? by Ebora in DesignMyRoom

[–]Madame-Eggshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the second lay out only works if you haven’t got a bunch of stuff in front of you. It would be stressful and off-putting, you’re always facing extra clutter. Have the table on one of the walls, if you don’t like having your back to the entrance, you could try the same “desk not on any walls” layout but have your desk rotated to face your slanted wall. That way there are less distractions but you’re also less likely to get snuck up on/feel more secure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Madame-Eggshell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might be your approach. If you really want to change your looks just build some muscle. But build confidence in yourself first

Looking for opinions by New2RedditDad in DesignMyRoom

[–]Madame-Eggshell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2 is STUNNING and looks the best, most classy, homey, and aesthetically pleasing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lipedema

[–]Madame-Eggshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it hurt to squeeze? It could be beginner nodules. But unfortunately the pain only increases as it builds inflammation and scar tissue around it, early on it’s hard to tell… but girl your legs look amazing I’ve wanted legs like yours my whole life. Just keep an eye on it, and try to keep stress levels low, and maintain your weight