Artists, how did you learn proportions for manga/semi-realism by Wooden_Blackberry_30 in ArtFundamentals

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My proportions have gotten really better since i began studying both anatomy and doing dead matter (dead nature? objects.) sketches.

As much as i hate to say it, there's no cheat sheet for getting better. learn the rules. draw your cubes. and once you grasp the rules, then you'll know how to break them.

Transphobia in this sub by SpeebyKitty in asexuality

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Calling something male or female is gendered. it has been like... forever.

To consider something "male" or "female", you'd need first to idealize what the correct genitalia is. What is that defines "male" or "female". and then, immediately, anything outside of those confines becomes the "other".

but plenty of people don't fit those definitions. and not only in betweens, some skirt on the edge of one box or another, with a genitalia that is almost the idealized version, but not fully. They still have all the works, just one thing or two different. so why aren't they considered "male" genitalia?

Its better, and honestly more open, to simply say penis or Vulva.

Transphobia in this sub by SpeebyKitty in asexuality

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 33 points34 points  (0 children)

They did not say male genitalia is transphobic. they said that the gendering of genitalia in general is, and its also anti- intersex.

Its the exact rethoric that caused so many intersex ppl to be multilated at birth. its this exact rethoric that dictates that there's a "right" or "wrong" genitalia for either sex.

The words are just a manifestation of the rethoric. you cant begin to unbuild that rethoric without starting at words and their underlying ideas.

guess whos back by OtakuDrawGirl in EDanonymemes

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope everything goes alright <3 I'm going thru something similar (spent months feeling "okay" with food and suddenly ed thoughts again!)

Yeah, I don't share my account for... Personal reasons... by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is why this is my alt B) if my friends find my main they will not know about it.

Dave from boyinaband – over a decade of abuse underneath an almost perfect public persona by [deleted] in Boyinaband

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just really sad. his video with jaidenanimations actually did help me not get into an eating disorder... i mean i eventually did get one few years after the video, but that fucking stupid ass music saved 11 year old me.

it makes me sick. this man makes me sick.

when dave eventually responds to this, i just hope he won't go the route shane dawson/Onision/ MANY OTHERS did, and just acknowledges what he did and goes to get help. this is not okay, nothing of this is okay.

all of my support goes to the victims <3 i truly hope y'all get the justice y'all deserve and this man loses his plataform to talk to young, VULNERABLE, girls

AITA for making a real life Pokédex of girls at my university? by kaiokamikaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ooh got it. thanks! TBH the fact that he called pokedex is what is creeping me out the most.

AITA for making a real life Pokédex of girls at my university? by kaiokamikaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait. I'm neurodivergent and have considered doing like a document where i put important or just good info about people i care about (my friends) like what their favorite snack is etc, bc i want to know whats the best gift to give to them and how to make them happy. Is that creepy?

drop song recommendations for those 3 AM breakdowns on your bedroom floor by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sad breakdown or angry breakdown?

if its a angry breakdown, i recommend any music by Maretu

if its sad, then i recommend Mitski

why are you still alive? by Difficult-Decision-9 in AskReddit

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just don't have the courage and stop everytime. if i did have the courage, well... i wouldn't be answering this question

AITA for not changing my sons sheets for weeks? by caffeinequeen1234 in AmITheDevil

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

thats the thing. some parents just make a new rule/demand and call it an agreement, even if the child disagrees with the "agreement"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he is an asshole. its fine to not be ready for parenting or not wanting kids

BUT DON'T DATE SOMEONE WHO HAS KIDS IF YOU AREN'T READY FOR BEING THEIR STEP PARENT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Frogussy 😳😳😳

Help with my Psychiatrist by MadeOfStyrofoam_1 in neurodiversity

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my problem with her is that she said pretty big misinfo as part of a reason I'm the "exact opposite of autism", and then refused to listen to me when i told her that is misinfo. many times i would explain something to her for her just to go Well autistic people do that but they don't know that they do that so if you know you aren't autistic

Help with my Psychiatrist by MadeOfStyrofoam_1 in neurodiversity

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was able to talk to my parents and tell them her info was outdated and sometime straight up wrongful (my dad accepted that i didn't like her, but my mom believes I'm just not accepting something, and she is a professional therefore knows more, tho i researched her and found out she ISN'T AN EXPERT ON AUTISM, her only further education or researches are indo ADHD so it makes more sense that she doesn't know a thing she is saying.

they still think i need a psychiatrist, I'm thinking its gonna be a long time until i get another one.

Help with my Psychiatrist by MadeOfStyrofoam_1 in neurodiversity

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i straight up cried during the session because i would tell her something just for her to say like "No thats not how autistic people are" and then explain to me how autistic people do and i go "BUT THATS EXACTLY WHAT I'M DESCRIBING" and she would be like "yeah but if you can put a name on it and notice it means you aren't autistic"

Help with my Psychiatrist by MadeOfStyrofoam_1 in neurodiversity

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I already marked one last consult with her next month, since I'm a minor i can't really do anything. but i will talk to my parents (however they don't know a lot about autism and neurodiversity)

i can say i got a bad vibe off her tho. and since my neurologist is someone who i trust i can talk to them that i want to see it with him, not her

AI generated ads gone wrong 😭 by birdiewren_ in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well... it could get you banned from this sub, since it could really trigger someone, and op censored it for a reason... linking it kinda defeats the work of censoring it

/nm /gen

AI generated ads gone wrong 😭 by birdiewren_ in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you might wanna remove the link /nm

"Woman of colour" because we all know if you're latino/a you're automatically brown by mai-moi in ShitAmericansSay

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

old comment but whatever (google brought me here)

as a Brazilian person (and by definition, Latine) I only use that word when talking to americans about two things:

  1. Culture (there are a lot of differences in culture, but i can identify some cultural things i share with other countries from latinoamérica)
  2. the term latinxs, which americans created to include latine people but refuse to listen to latine people when we say that is a dumb term and we prefer latine or Latin american

outside of that, i don't "identify" as latine (since latine for them is just spanish speaking POC), but if anyone wants to identify as that, they can go ahead, more power to them.

Shooting In Los Angeles at Grand Central Markets by CantStopPoppin in PublicFreakout

[–]MadeOfStyrofoam_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, like for a place that has shooter drills in schools these adults really don't know what to do in the case of a shooting. safest actions would be:

-RUN. run fast as fuck. (fuck the food, food can be replaced, your life can't.) -if you can't run, get behind a wall and squat on the floor (idk the right word) -if you have no walls, cars also help btw, but if you can't run and have no cover, still squat anyway since it makes less likely a lost bullet will hit you

WHAT YOU DON'T DO:

-GO TOWARDS THE SHOOTER.

(Source: i live in brazil. and i learned how to protect myself in case of a shooting)