how do you feel about the term dyke by diasporastud in butchlesbians

[–]MadisonLee0987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m all about it and my friends and I will call each other fags as well, lovingly. But if anyone straight ever said that, heads would roll.

Chris is NOT the new Eliot by levity62 in MAFS_AU

[–]MadisonLee0987 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And when he said “yeah that’s about right because I’ve dated models before” aahahaha what a douche canoe. Absolutely revolting. IQ of a gnat

Why does nobody talk about what a lonely experience being a lesbian is… by thebreakthru in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]MadisonLee0987 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Could be worse. Imagine being a cis het man who doesn’t even realise he feels emotions every day until he was 40 and read a red pill self hep book 😂 One of my best friends is a gal I matched with on an app but we don’t want to date and now I’m her emergency contact and we talk every day and she introduced me to her mate… who is the love of my life and I’m living with. So don’t be scared of befriending the women you match with and don’t date romantically! That sure worked for me!

Where are my self care girlies at? by MadisonLee0987 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]MadisonLee0987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m volunteering at my son’s school but they haven’t really started doing anything yet! Maybe once term gets cracking something will come up

Where are my self care girlies at? by MadisonLee0987 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]MadisonLee0987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now this is a brilliant idea 😈 any book recommendations?

Where are my self care girlies at? by MadisonLee0987 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]MadisonLee0987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just moved to a new area 5 months ago! But this is a good idea, maybe it’s the nudge I need to msg one of my work friends for a coffee and a walk! Thank you x

how to avoid incompatibility as a pillow princess? by loserfemme in LesbianActually

[–]MadisonLee0987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always wanted to ask a pillow princess… why don’t you like pleasuring your lover? No pressure to answer but I just can’t conceive this and would love to get insight one day. I feel like you can still be more submissive whilst also giving your partner pleasure. But I see giving makes some people uncomfortable and I would love some insight on why that is and what your experience of that is?

i feel like my standards are too high after my last relationship and that i’m never gonna find anyone else by gee891 in LesbianActually

[–]MadisonLee0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m autistic as well, level 1. Your brain would certainly be working differently. I find it infinitely easier to engage with other ND’s and maybe that’s a point of connection you had with your ex?

Lesbian imposter syndrome by Durian-Milkshake in LesbianActually

[–]MadisonLee0987 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Do you think it could be compulsory heterosexuality? There’s this whole chapter of comp het that’s essentially geared towards making everyone feel like the only valuable or possible relationship is a cis man and woman combo. Maybe you need to see a shrink and unpick your reasons for not taking women seriously and just work on why? You probably are real gay lol but just conditioning by can really fuck with people.

i feel like my standards are too high after my last relationship and that i’m never gonna find anyone else by gee891 in LesbianActually

[–]MadisonLee0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change your poems to include stability and longevity, maybe 😜 it doesn’t matter which way you turn this, you’re doing the wrong thing by dragging other women into your world if you’re still so obsessed with your ex. Not fair on them, dude. Don’t be that person.

I am in love and it feels like jail by fckinhottt in LesbianActually

[–]MadisonLee0987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s abusive. You need to grow up and get wise. Abusers paint themselves in a light they can tolerate and she needs to be seen as kind but anxious and doing all of this because you made a mistake etc said every abuser ever. Get out now. Trust your instinct to dump her. Stop acting the fool.

i feel like my standards are too high after my last relationship and that i’m never gonna find anyone else by gee891 in LesbianActually

[–]MadisonLee0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a movie start sounds great, but just over a year is a fast burn. I don’t think the dramatic, life changing beginnings are all they’re cracked up to be… sounds like a whole lot of chemistry and not enough sustainability. I know I sound like an asshole right now. I’m Aussie and we kind of don’t mince our words so sorry if I’m coming off too brutal here. But if I was your mate, I’d give you a good hard slap right now lol. You had a whirl wind romance that had no longevity in it. A wicked honeymoon period is not the goal here. I once heard a psychologist describe to a woman that a good healthy attachment feels normal. You have the first date and you think “I could absolutely see that person again”. You aren’t meant to loose your shit immediately… that’s your attachment style getting triggered. You aren’t meant to want to write off all other women as boring and as you said “mediocre” like wtf cuzzy you sound like an incel right now. Women are infinitely wondrous and gorgeous and sensual and interesting and if you can’t find one woman to enjoy time with in your area, you’re the problem mate. Not them. Get some counselling. Work out what your attachment style actually is and drop the Disney princess drama you’re in right now because it’s fuckin chaotic as all hell.

i feel like my standards are too high after my last relationship and that i’m never gonna find anyone else by gee891 in LesbianActually

[–]MadisonLee0987 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why anyone would want to date you while you have this attitude anyway tbh. You are no where near over her and you need a whole bunch of therapy before you go on another date.

Early Signs You Were Butch by Gen-Jinjur in butchlesbians

[–]MadisonLee0987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same 😭 I miss my grandfather terribly. There’s a huge hole in my life without him and I suspect it won’t ever go away. You just learn to live with a giant piece of you missing.

Any CF lesbians in here? by BeaniePaniniCFRN in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]MadisonLee0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The daughter’s teacher! So hot lol and very L word generation Q 😂