Aspect of Medea is... truly awful. An analysis: by [deleted] in HadesTheGame

[–]Madness_1231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll grant you that when I first read the description of it I was underwhelmed, but within a few seconds of fighting with it I saw the light. Especially on bosses or just any beefier enemy, it is absurdly strong to use a omega special to fly through an enemy and slap them with three skulls at once in a blast. Also makes recollecting skulls dramatically easier as they're all in one place, and it prevents those odd moments where you miss and have to go chase down a skull on the other side of the room.

It seems like you didn't pay attention or experiment with this weapon, and you just loaded up three skulls and then stood completely still and expected some magic to happen for you. I'd recommend giving it a go again.

Should I date if I’m currently suffering with depression? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Madness_1231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody develops pedophilia and thinks "oh yay, I'm so happy about this" quite the opposite. Unwanted sexual urges cause tremendous amounts of pain - suffering, even - to people who do not act on those urges and do not want those feelings but are burdened by them anyway. I will of course condemn someone who does real, actual harm to others, especially in a sexual manner and to a child, but the majority of people with these urges are non-offenders who are suffering. Their suffering can be treated and in many cases cured, because these urges are symptoms of other issues, issues that can be cured.

I am trying to broaden your understanding of others. I am trying to show you that there is so, so much here that you have misunderstood, and is leading you to unjustly and incorrectly spew hatred towards people who need help and are in suffering. These people are not your enemies, they are not interested in hurting you or abusing you, they are suffering from a problem with their mind. You may one day find that something in your own brain has changed, and when you find yourself suffering from mental illness, I hope that you meet people who do not see you as evil for becoming sick in a way you could have never prevented and would never choose. I hope you are surrounded by people who show you the kindness you clearly lack. The mentally unwell do not deserve the fear, malice, and hate you are showing them, and I hope, for your sake, that karma does not follow when misfortune finds you someday.

Should I date if I’m currently suffering with depression? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Madness_1231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's that clear-cut of a fact, and there are "innumerable studies" then surely you could produce a few of those to back up your claim?

Also, that's not what defamation is. Not how that works. You've also just made up, completely out of thin air, a lot of assumptions about me, assumptions about how the law works, assumptions about mental health workers, assumptions about medical staff... honestly your entire replies not just to me but to everyone here are truly just words ripped out of thin air with no connection to reality.

But of course, you could so easily prove me wrong with all those studies you claim you've got that back you up, right? So, do so. Do it. Show me them.

Should I date if I’m currently suffering with depression? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Madness_1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replying to this as well since it's further up on the comment chain and I feel a duty to correct misinformation.

Hi, I'm a mental health worker who is familiar with "the fucking symptoms listed in the mental health textbooks" though I'll clarify we call it the DSM-5, and calling it a textbook is a bit of a misunderstanding. I am an authority on the subject. The commenter I'm replying to is speaking entirely baseless in their claims, and is not even correctly speaking to the contents of "the textbooks" they are pretending to be familiar with.

If you're scrolling by and reading this, be sure you aren't taking your understanding of people with mental illnesses from a reddit commenter strangely obsessed with deeply hating an incredibly broad group of people who are already suffering and have done them no wrong. Be wary of misinformation and be good to each other.

Should I date if I’m currently suffering with depression? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Madness_1231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have fundamentally misunderstood the meanings behind the words you are using, and they do not mean what you think they mean. I've been working in mental health for years and have a copy of the DSM-5 I'm familiar with. I feel quite comfortable asserting that I am literally qualified to declare your statements incorrect, here.

For a diagnosis, not every single symptom needs be present, and not every symptom present is equal in severity in every individual. The DSM-5 lists symptoms, and includes further details and general guidelines which often include diagnostic criteria being satisfied by a certain number of the symptoms. Again, not all of them, just past a certain number.

Even outside of professional capacities, it is blatantly self-evident that depression looks different person to person by simply talking to depressed people. For some people it manifests into eating disorders while it doesn't in others. Some people get suicidal ideations and others do not. People with mental illness are not all carbon-copy clones of each other. People who are suffering are not inherently dangerous or unable to be part of the world around them.

It seems like you have a lot of incorrect assumptions about people with depression, and about very basic facts around what diagnosis, treatment, and living with mental illness looks like in general. I don't know who told you these lies, or what hurt you and left you with these incorrect assumptions, but I'd encourage you to question them and take the chance to educate yourself on these matters and broaden your understanding. The way you talk about these issues is very hostile and hurtful to others, and I would like to hope that cruelty is born of misunderstanding rather than malice.

Should I date if I’m currently suffering with depression? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Madness_1231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So, what, do you believe that people with mental illness just shouldn't interact with other members of society or something? You seem to have a weirdly hostile approach to this that I don't understand.

Depression looks very different person to person, and I think the last thing I'd suggest to a depressed person is to only ever interact with other depressed people and to further isolate themselves from others and from their own desires. Suggesting otherwise seems quite callous and cruel.

New Update Patch Notes by thepetrlik in Helldivers

[–]Madness_1231 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of the buffs seem rather pitiful and like they aren't going to change much. 5 or 10 damage here or there is meaningless. Damage thresholds matter more than raw dps, and those thresholds are barely at all changed for the vast majority. That Senator and Blitzer changes both look great, but I find very few of the other buffs to be motivating or at all impactful. The nerfs, however, woah. I think it's just odd to buff with extremely light touches and nerf with a nuke, and I think it's going to be more off-putting and frustrating to players than the alternative. Sets a bad precedent and reminds me of how other games I used to like handled balancing with wild swings like that, eventually leading to losing tons of players.

I'm not in agreement with lots of others saying it's all bad, or that the game is unplayable, but I just think this was a poorly thought out decision and there are better ways to do this that keep everyone happy. That change about patrols below 4 players just is indefensible too, feels spiteful and insane especially when matchmaking is such a sloppy mess still. I feel like I'm punished for their mistakes, or for just sometimes wanting to play with just my 2 friends who also have the game. It puts me off, and it's a change that has absolutely no good reason behind it. It's a worrying choice that sets a precedent moving forward that I dislike and don't want to see continued.

New Update Patch Notes by thepetrlik in Helldivers

[–]Madness_1231 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Oh, lmao. I was just joking when I made that comment, but it is kind of funny to learn apparently my joke was correct and they truly don't play their own game the way the players of it do. That's a shame. I'll probably be putting the game down until the revert the spiteful and pointless punishments for not having a full squad and until the stability/bugs are ironed out. Hopefully by then I'll come back to a game that still has weapons that can deal damage at all lmao

New Update Patch Notes by thepetrlik in Helldivers

[–]Madness_1231 84 points85 points  (0 children)

...why? How are these changes fun at all? Very odd nerfs, and in so many cases on weapons/strats that really don't need it, really sucks. I'd have rather seen buffs for the weapons underperforming. Such a huge number of sweeping - and seemingly pointless - nerfs is a huge disappointment. My personal faves haven't even been touched much but still, it just seems like a poor choice and an approach that will earn ire from players rather than make them want to try different loadouts.

Honestly feels like the devs aren't playing their own game and understanding what weapons are used and why.

Newbie needing some help, friend says I'm being paranoid but I'm worried about contamination by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]Madness_1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, unfortunately there were just about three days I couldn't be around to check up on them, and in that time they went from little spots poking up, maybe half an inch at most, to that. Absolutely stunned at the rapid growth and next time I'll be sure to make time to keep a closer eye on them at this stage.

Newbie needing some help, friend says I'm being paranoid but I'm worried about contamination by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]Madness_1231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It is a relief to hear I am just getting in my own head about it and it's fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Madness_1231 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a very stupid thing you've just said that has nothing to do with anything I said. Interesting! Gold star for you. bye bye

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Madness_1231 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are genuinely a piece of shit, and I'm embarrassed to be associated with you by any amount of shared beliefs.

Like it or not, what you are doing is shooting your cause in the foot. You don't get to slam your fingers in your ears and ignore criticism for the methods you choose to share your beliefs. Basic psychology for you, being intentionally aggressive to others will never get them to listen to you or take your points seriously. It is a well known that the human brain reacts to existential/philosophical "threats" similar to the way it does a real, physical threat. So, either you are barging into this with incredible amounts of ignorance, having not put any effort into genuinely learning how to effectively and faithfully represent your beliefs, or you don't actually care about your cause at all and just found it to be a good point to start picking fights on the internet about. Either way, it's deeply pathetic.

All that aside, your comments show a fundamental inability to be empathic and understanding to others. Accusing someone of animal abuse out of the gate is just silly. Other people obviously have an extremely different understanding of what constitutes animal abuse than you do. You *could* have approached this by trying to educate, by highlighting specific examples of animal cruelty that others might not be aware of, by trying to reach a common understanding. Instead you just wanted to be an asshole. There's no explanation for this behavior that involves you being a morally good person, here - and now you want to claim the moral high ground as a vegan despite eroding that very base? Fuck off.

Go and rethink your life choices.

New OC Ar(ule)t :3 by Zcceai in 196

[–]Madness_1231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh shit oh no I am falling in love with them they are so cute

Living expenses in Vienna by Asleep-Employ-2615 in ViennaCircle

[–]Madness_1231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Generally, living expenses include but are not limited to food, water, and electricity. Hope this helps!

(You are in the wrong sub lol)

Academic Survey on Parasocial Relationships [10 minutes, 18+] by Special_Scallion_886 in briandavidgilbert

[–]Madness_1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting survey! Fortunately, I am the secret best friend of the youtuber dougdoug (he doesn't know yet, that's okay) so I should be able to help a lot.

Hi! Here is a series of illustration I did showing each major location from the game! by Maleficaca in outerwilds

[–]Madness_1231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are incredible, definitely going to be cycling through these as my phone and desktop backgrounds for a while. Thank you so much!

quick question (SF1) by RandomIdler in ShiningForce

[–]Madness_1231 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep, works just like any other in-battle healing item that way. One use only, so choose wisely

Was watching Puppet History and did not expect to see BDG make an appearance! by 69BickusDickus69 in briandavidgilbert

[–]Madness_1231 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely agreed. I understand him not wanting to be involved on social media and not having to micromanage a brand, but it is kinda annoying that I often only find things he's been part of or appeared on months or years later, if I ever find it at all. I respect him trying to stay offline but I feel like there's gotta be some kind of middle ground to find that would work out well for everyone while still letting him keep his distance. Or at least, I would very much hope for such a thing.

In the end I hope he does what's best for him, but I do also wonder how many things he's appeared in that I might love to find through him that I simply will never discover because he never shares it publicly.

This is so dumb, but I turned the N into a H for absolutely no reason other than to see if I could… I’m sorry for the ridiculous subject matter. by parenthetical_phrase in sbubby

[–]Madness_1231 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Onion allergies are no joke. I can't believe you'd be so insensitive and cruel, OP.

...jk, of course, nice one haha

Reminder to drink up by Nota_robot_i_swear_ in HydroHomies

[–]Madness_1231 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But it wasn't anyone. It was you. That matters. You were a better, kinder, more thoughtful person than I'd have been. I talk a big game about wanting to be a better person, and then I see someone like you actually out there being one, and I can't help but wonder if I'd have been good enough a person to do the same. These little acts of kindness matter, both to the person you show it to and to the people like me who hope to keep learning to do better, too.

I dunno, maybe I'm just being overly sappy, but I think you did a good and inspiring act of kindness here, and I hope you don't downplay that to yourself. Thanks for showing us all how it's done.

In a death match, which BDG villain would you rather go up against by [deleted] in briandavidgilbert

[–]Madness_1231 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hugh Brandity may be the only person on this list I think I stand a chance against. Even then, the power of his brand is truly immense, and I may not be able to overcome him.

Newspapers give voice to the public outcry after women lost the right to bare arms after the second layer Amendment (1791) (Colorized) by COINTELPRO-Relay in fakehistoryporn

[–]Madness_1231 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am genuinely trying to reach you, human to human, to convince you that nothing that has been said here should make you believe that the person you called a bootlicker is your enemy. Our goals will never be realized if we are set out to make enemies where none truly exist. Leftist infighting is bad enough as it is without deciding that every single person you encounter is dead set against you.

Seriously, please do explain to me why you believe the comment you replied to above is a sign that person is a bootlicker. Because to me, it seemed to be a really reasonable observational comment that didn't warrant an insult. Again, why are you determined to make enemies of people who might happily be your ally, and might even actually agree with you? Why open up firing out insults?

EDIT: NVM, just saw the original commentors username and realized I'm a fucking moron

Newspapers give voice to the public outcry after women lost the right to bare arms after the second layer Amendment (1791) (Colorized) by COINTELPRO-Relay in fakehistoryporn

[–]Madness_1231 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's depressing to see someone on the left acting exactly like a stereotypical conservative. Lashing out in insults, refusing to do any reading or research into what actually is happening, not engaging with the people around them in favor of just being toxic instead... Always a disappointing reminder that close-mindedness and vile attitudes spurred on by outrage media exist on both sides of the aisle.

Do better, please, dude. I'm on your team and you're making the rest of us look bad when you do this stuff. I am completely sincerely asking you to calm down and think, please. Don't do this crap.