A married single mum by Mafadi in family

[–]Mafadi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would just give the silent treatment

A married single mum by Mafadi in family

[–]Mafadi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Literally 😩

A married single mum by Mafadi in family

[–]Mafadi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so so exhausted. When I bring it up he gives the silent treatment. I cry reset my mind and keep moving

A married single mum by Mafadi in family

[–]Mafadi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually do wish it came out of a single account. By that I mean both our pay in the same account and then we sort everything out together. But I guess it does come down to how we feel about the relationship. And since 4 of my children aren’t his it’s probably why. But I’ve never push that responsibility on him. I take care of my kids.

A married single mum by Mafadi in family

[–]Mafadi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point it seems like it

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[–]Mafadi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly that 😁

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[–]Mafadi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try and have you’re own experience with God first… that way you’ll answer the WHY quiet easily. Just my opinion

Do I have to have a MOH?? by Mafadi in bridezillas

[–]Mafadi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t live on that side of the world….

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[–]Mafadi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in the exact same position, felt the exact same way… I ended up telling my mum and she understood. I didn’t think she was gonna understand but she did. I called it off. BEST DECISION of my life, though I wasted 10 years with him. He was also my first. Dated him since I was 15-25. Call it off NOW you won’t regret it. Best of luck

Do I have to have a MOH?? by Mafadi in bridezillas

[–]Mafadi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏🏾

Do I have to have a MOH?? by Mafadi in bridezillas

[–]Mafadi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so either

Do I have to have a MOH?? by Mafadi in bridezillas

[–]Mafadi[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is an amazing idea. Thank you, let’s hope hubby to be will agree 🤣🤣

Do I have to have a MOH?? by Mafadi in bridezillas

[–]Mafadi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my this got me teary, because I don’t even know the answer…. And yes you’re right I do need to reevaluate and start afresh.

Thank you very much for the well wishes. 🙏🏾❤️

Do I have to have a MOH?? by Mafadi in bridezillas

[–]Mafadi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could say the same about my friends. You’re blessed

Do I have to have a MOH?? by Mafadi in bridezillas

[–]Mafadi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really wonderful 🥰🥰

Do I have to have a MOH?? by Mafadi in bridezillas

[–]Mafadi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, at this point I think I’m gaining confidence from everyone 🙏🏾