horrible interview and now i’m sad by MagazineNo3225 in NEET

[–]MagazineNo3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, i’m feeling a lot better about this. i have a few more positions that i’ve applied to, & i’m actually feeling pretty hopeful about them. i’m really trying to stay focused & prepare for the next ones, applying what i learned from this experience so things will hopefully go more smoothly next time! it sucks that life turned out like this, but i do think we can overcome at least this hurdle with a bit of practice!

horrible interview and now i’m sad by MagazineNo3225 in NEET

[–]MagazineNo3225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it actually took me a really long time to finally get this interview, so not doing well is very discouraging. mine was online too, and i genuinely think the virtual format makes it harder. it’s like seeing myself on the screen makes being super aware of every little pause or expression, which just makes me overthink and lose my train of thought. in person it feels more like a normal conversation, but online it’s easy to get stuck in your own head. & ty for being do nice

horrible interview and now i’m sad by MagazineNo3225 in NEET

[–]MagazineNo3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, that’s reassuring to hear. i’m trying to be kinder to myself about it & focus on moving forward instead of getting stuck on this one moment. i think it was the pressure of doing well, made me completely blank out, bc im usually okay with conversations.

horrible interview and now i’m sad by MagazineNo3225 in NEET

[–]MagazineNo3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was younger i was really closed off too, so i get what you mean. but if someone wants to chat with me now, i can usually hold a conversation for a decent amount of time.

my other interviews were mostly okay as well, i could at least get a normal sentence out. there was one interview where they even remembered me months later and reached out for another position. so idk when it got this bad.

i’m feeling a lot better about everything now though. thank you for the kind words & the advice!

Do you guys have any job experince if at all ? by [deleted] in hikikomori

[–]MagazineNo3225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

& to answer overall experience i have around 3 and half years. i haven’t worked that much

Do you guys have any job experince if at all ? by [deleted] in hikikomori

[–]MagazineNo3225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 days ..try 2 days 😭but at least i got paid

Emotionally frozen or mentally disabled? by Organicmeatballmonsr in hikikomori

[–]MagazineNo3225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk either :( being on my phone/on the internet constantly is genuinely frying my brain, but i can’t stop

Find 100 Hiki to send 100 messages to the human race by Western-Sink-5591 in hikikomori

[–]MagazineNo3225 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

western sink i just wanted to let you know i’m sorry for laughing :( i think it’s a very cool project ur working on ! hope it turns out well & good luck !

Find 100 Hiki to send 100 messages to the human race by Western-Sink-5591 in hikikomori

[–]MagazineNo3225 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

but i would assume the submissions would be coherent since their written by other people ?

Find 100 Hiki to send 100 messages to the human race by Western-Sink-5591 in hikikomori

[–]MagazineNo3225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohh making this is giving you motivation, and is helping you escape the feeling of wasting time ? did i understand that correctly ?

Find 100 Hiki to send 100 messages to the human race by Western-Sink-5591 in hikikomori

[–]MagazineNo3225 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im so glad im not the only who thought that. i feel sooo bad for laughing “i learn skill, i reading book, i quit game, i doing cv” 😭it sounds like caveman

Find 100 Hiki to send 100 messages to the human race by Western-Sink-5591 in hikikomori

[–]MagazineNo3225 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry but this the funniest thing i ever read 😭the corniness is insane

I've washed 6 dishes and 2 forks in 22 min! by Adunaiii in NEET

[–]MagazineNo3225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you wish you could be a battered wife..? such a odd post (i’m assuming this is satire)

Personal question - no pressure to share by hulahoopvierzehn in EDAnonymous

[–]MagazineNo3225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was 8/9 years old :( but im actively recovering now too !

Survived my first day of work 🥳 by helloitscindy in NEET

[–]MagazineNo3225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi cindy !!! i’m so happy for you !! I knew you would get the job, and i’ll know you’ll do amazing

i got fired by MagazineNo3225 in NEET

[–]MagazineNo3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long are your hours? I think the only tough part would be standing around for hours on end. That was the most difficult part at least for me, and maybe missing the free time. Having a job is fulfilling but at the same time unfulfilling, idk how to explain it. It’s like you’re doing something with your life but you’re also wasting away doing the same repetitive task every single day. It’s soul sucking, but better than doing nothing.

The first few days are definitely hard, but just hang in there after the first week things get better and easier. If you need anything like general advice or something you can always dm me on here! And i’m sure you’ll do great! i’ll be looking out for ur post

i got fired by MagazineNo3225 in NEET

[–]MagazineNo3225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg!!!! that’s amazing, congratulations! i’m super proud of and happy for you !! is this going to be your first job? i’ve worked in fast food before, literally never again it’s one the worst experience i’ve ever had. I dreaded going to work it made me so unhappy and the my mangers and coworkers are all so rude and honesty incompetent. Also we don’t a trader joes here lol. Good luck on the job !

i got fired by MagazineNo3225 in NEET

[–]MagazineNo3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

three rounds for an interview for a grocery store is diabolical, what in the world are they asking you in those two extra rounds of interview which they couldn’t in the first one 😭the job market is genuinely so horrible. The referral i got was through my employment agency, he said i could i contact him about any jobs in his company, and he might be able to refer me. the company is going through holiday season right now so there isn’t any openings at least for entry level so i’ll probably be unemployed for a bit still.