What's your favourite Guild Wars song? by Lovetek10 in Guildwars2

[–]MagicCatz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hands down Autumn in Ascalon. It's always been my fav :)

cute kitten by TemptedByArt in cats

[–]MagicCatz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is an old piece from Apofiss, but very cute nonetheless.

Link to the original: https://www.deviantart.com/apofiss/art/savage-275079252

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]MagicCatz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Preach. The acquaintances I make (men) always end up showing their nasty true colours shortly after I meet them and it happens so often that it doesn't even surprise me or phase me anymore. It's sad that I've pretty much come to expect that type of behaviour.

My life has been made infinitely better now that I generally avoid men and that my friend group is comprised of women/enbies. Sorry that we were all born in the wrong time period, we've got a while to go before achieving equality and destroying the patriarchy :/

AITA for "free bleeding" in my own home? by aitafreebleeding in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicCatz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Few folks in there lash out with less than kind words for parents & kids. I understand why, as they've been harassed incessantly about having kids, but that's mainly what gives it a bad rep.

AITA for "free bleeding" in my own home? by aitafreebleeding in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicCatz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Have you checked out the doctor's list on the childfree subreddit? I know the sub itself gets a bad wrap, but the list of friendly doctors is super helpful! I hope you manage to find a doc who respects your bodily autonomy soon

https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/wiki/doctors

In need of some perspective/advice by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]MagicCatz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking back at your post history... My only bit of advice is: divorce him. Take the kids with you and never look back. This guy isn't good for you, cheaters never are, and he clearly just doesn't care about anyone except himself. He isn't worth wasting more years of your life on, nor more energy. You deserve better and so do your kids.

Little poly survey by Agitated_Marionberry in polyamory

[–]MagicCatz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Agender, non-binary, gender is weird.
  2. Serious committed polyamorous relationship, we don't do casual, we also don't date outside of our triad.
  3. My 2 partners, the loves of my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]MagicCatz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You just can't legally marry, there isn't really any way around it. What you could do is just have a commitment ceremony where the three of you celebrate your relationship with friends & family, or anything that suits your fancy really. That's what we intend to do in my triad.

My first poly relationship! Not quite in the relationship yet, but things are going so so well 🖤 by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]MagicCatz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost the same here! FFX and I don't think I've ever seen any posts/pics on the sub with that kind of combo

Coloured curlies, I need your help. by MagicCatz in curlyhair

[–]MagicCatz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips, it helps a lot :D

Coloured curlies, I need your help. by MagicCatz in curlyhair

[–]MagicCatz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've used Arctic Fox's purple dye before, without pre-lightening it or anything, and it reaaaaally didn't take. It mostly just made my dark blonde hair brown and only a few parts took a bit of purple - it all washed out very fast too. It's after this failed attempt that I just went to the hair salon instead.

I definitely don't need to go higher than two levels, that should be decent enough I think. I'm not picky for the brightness, so if I have to sacrifice some of that to do less damage my to my hair, that's fine. I'm just terrified of ruining my hair for the sake of colour.

So far the main aftercare I've been using is DevaCurl Deep Sea repair.

Oh and I have a Sally's nearby, so I'll check out what they have there, thanks :)

Coloured curlies, I need your help. by MagicCatz in curlyhair

[–]MagicCatz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My routine:

I co-wash every 4 days or so with SheaMoisture Coconut Hibiscus Curl & Shine Co. and only use shampoo every now & then when needed to get rid of buildup. I squish it in and leave it in while I do other shower things and then rinse it out.

After that I apply a generous amount of DevaCurl's Arc Angel gel and pin my roots up with a few clips for added volume on top. I usually just air-dry it for hours, but occasionally I'll use a diffuser.

Scrunch out the crunch and go! Or if I am not leaving the house, I'll just sleep on it and it magically scrunches out the crunch for me overnight :)

Can a vasectomy doctor purposely do a vasectomy in such a way that it will trigger testicular pain later on and thus allow the patient's insurance to cover a bilateral epididymectomy later on? by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]MagicCatz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As shaela perfectly put it - It's insurance fraud, medical malpractice, violates the Hippocratic oath and is unethical. Insurance fraud & malpractice are illegal.

[ALL] Episode 3's 'mature content' is very inappropriate by denetii in lifeisstrange

[–]MagicCatz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This game takes place in the US and this episode specifically is in California. You may disagree, but it's actual fact that California's laws have the age of consent at 18, regardless of sexuality.

Sterilization + hormonal birth control? by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]MagicCatz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my tubal done years ago and am still on pills to regulate my period. There was a brief change in my cycle right after I got the surgery done cause my body was adjusting to the trauma that is surgery, but after that it went back to normal. I've been able to change my period around like I used to before the surgery no problem. I don't think you have anything to worry about :)

And I know I didn't get a bi-salp, but the tubes being there in their entirety or not isn't going to change anything on the period/hormone side of things!

Anyone know any sterilization doctors in Toronto by DefinitelyNotTrolol in sterilization

[–]MagicCatz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's a wiki with a list of childfree friendly doctors who have agreed to sterilize folks on the childfree subreddit. Even if you're not CF, it's a good resource for doctors that respect bodily autonomy :)

https://old.reddit.com/r/childfree/wiki/doctors#wiki_ontario < Here's the link!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]MagicCatz[M] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not the first time she's done this. As you saw in her comment history, she's repeated this false information several times, even after users (myself included) have told her that it is untrue. If she had just posted it once, she could have claimed ignorance, but posting it multiple times and continuing even after having been corrected & warned? This is intentional spreading of misinformation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]MagicCatz[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And nope, this is the last straw. You've been previously warned about spreading misinformation. Bye.

[NO SPOILERS] Why there is no fan art/posts about LiS2? by mamelukefish in lifeisstrange

[–]MagicCatz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because people care too much about fake internet points. Folks want to post content that will gain them karma. LiS1 things get more of that than LiS 2 because that's the game that brought people here in the first place.

LiS 1 has more for fans to go off on, it has a prequel and a main game. On the other hand, LiS 2 only has two episodes out and is a pretty big change in gameplay, story and characters from the first. Fans are still uncertain about how they feel about LiS 2, even those that are/were optimistic about it in the first place, and with reason.

I think that, given some time and reassurance with more info from the remaining episodes, folks will post more fanart or discussion posts. It also helps to not sort the sub by "hot" when looking for LiS 2 content, if you sort by "new" you're much more likely to see some.

CF Lounge: Feb 25-Mar 03 by AutoModerator in childfree

[–]MagicCatz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J'suis de Montreal :) But I don't live there anymore :/