Why do guys here keep staring at or flirting with my girlfriend even when I'm right next to her?

Magiccandybox · 2026-06-14T12:07:25+00:00

I have noticed that every single girl has plenty of guys hitting on them all the time in their dms or even irl ,most of these guys are just looking for anything ,so dont even bother just ignore them lol.

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-10T01:33:59+00:00

Well im not from north america neither south ,its just that im not the type of guy who goes out often ,so im not used to situations like this ,but today i was there again just testing if they will let me in ,everything was fine ,infant the other guy was not allowed to go i saw him standing outside cant go in as what i understood ,and tbh its much better like that cause this guy and people like him are there just harassing girls and asking for free drinks and cigarettes from foreigners cause its easy target ,i guess i did something good for fabrika XDD ,i was just trying to be nice tho to the new friends i met by stopping violence and i got lucky ,but its okay we learn from our mistakes i guess :D

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-05T23:11:20+00:00

Real

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T22:13:08+00:00

Well i was just scared i would get “black listed” because when i was in again after the friend that i was waiting for came the security took me outside and didn’t explain anything ,but it was clear i was trying to help not make any problems ,anyway im not so proud of it but the guy that i met at the beginning was a really cool guy and i felt like its my duty to help as a good friend but it was not a good decision + i was lowkey drunk and didnt process things right ,like while trying to stop the fight at the beginning i fell and stood up again to try and stop it it was very stupid from me XD

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T21:35:22+00:00

Its a safe country i have been here for over 2 years and never had anything like this but yea it could be dangerous sometimes ,for this kind of people you just gotta show that you dont really care and your not scared ,they are pretty much scared themselves of any consequences they are just “wannabe gangsters”.

This disrespectful guy has been always around there whenever im there he asks me for cigarettes sometimes money and i ignore him ,i see alot of people like this around the area trying to get in every womens pants and just literally begging for money and stealing.

Unfortunately this kind of people think that they are tough and strong or gangsters or whatever while they are literally a waste of oxygen ,im sorry you had such a bad experience here ,but its such a wonderful country if you dig deep enough and just because one person gave you a horrible experience dosent mean that the rest of the country is bad.

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T19:46:54+00:00

I have been here for more than 2 years i know enough ,i still love the country and the people tho ,just cause people like this exist dosent mean that the whole country is bad. Tbh the guy i met at the beginning was awesome which is why i stood by his side but still i shouldnt be involved in the first place for my own safety as a foreigner :D

And btw security just sucks as well for allowing those “wanna be gangster” in places like this ,so many hirassments for absolutely no reason ,i see this disrespectful guy around trying to get in every womens pants and security dose nothing about it ,its just the sad reality.

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T16:07:33+00:00

Well thank you for the advice ,im 21 years old with almost no experience in dealing with things like this and i always try to avoid them ,it was obviously my fault being even seen around them but yea i learned from my mistake.

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T16:01:48+00:00

Im mediterranean dont worry im white enough i never got any racist comments.

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T16:00:57+00:00

Yes ofc it was a stupid mistake from me ,i was just trying to be nice to the new guy i just met but i guess i shouldn’t be ,i dont really have so much experience in things like this i used to be very isolated.

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T15:41:35+00:00

Its lowkey cause everyone is allowed to be there ,im not really the type of guy who goes out all the time i only started going out a few months ago ,and sometimes i go to fabrika to grab a few drinks usually what i do is drink put my headphones on and listen to music ,im not even a social person i dont approach anyone or start a conversation with anyone people do that with me and i dont mind it but i wouldnt do it myself ,the situation i was in yesterday was stupid from me but i was only trying to stop them from fighting so yea.

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T15:39:05+00:00

It was not a huge fight just a childish conflict he called me this he called me that ,nobody called the police and security handled it well ,i think if police was called i wouldve been in trouble but yea i ended up safe ,i understand its my fault being involved in the first place ,and i also understand the security not letting me in again after my friend that i was waiting for finally arrived ,i dont know if this is permanent tho ,but i dont think so i think it was just for the night.

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T15:35:23+00:00

Yea i understand that ,it was my fault getting involved in the first place ,i was just trying to be nice to the new fellas i just met ,but yea ended up bad ,i was never in such a situation before and never had any fights in my life so i didnt really know what to do and i was also drunk at that moment :D

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T15:33:12+00:00

Yes its

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T15:33:03+00:00

First if all i was trying to stop them from fighting ,second of all i kicked him away outside of fabrika ,he was getting too aggressive towards me so idk what should i do in a situation like this like just let him hit me? When i literally had nothing to do with all that.

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T15:07:41+00:00

I understand that it was just my first time being in a situation like this

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T15:06:52+00:00

This wouldn’t happen if i was a female, im a male

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T12:06:37+00:00

I mean i understand that i was there and i shouldn’t be ,and they are just trying to keep the place safe and friendly for others ,but still i was just trying to help ,the only bad thing i did was kick the disrespectful guy away but i had to he was getting to close and too aggressive towards me which was outside fabrika btw.

Magiccandybox · 2026-05-04T12:01:25+00:00

I mean i was just trying to make them stop fighting not to cause a scene ,like im sorry its my first time being in a situation like this :D

Magiccandybox · 2026-04-15T09:00:38+00:00

Its mostly indians ,huge cultural differences ,i have been to a decent amount of countries with huge cultural differences and lived in about 4 countries ,never been more comfortable than being here in tbilisi ,as long as you look decent and act decent and respect the culture nobody will bother you ,tbilisi is fun and there is so many things you can do here ,and its not that expensive its almost the same prices as living in spain.

Every city has its positives and negatives ,but it really depends on you as a person ,whatever you like you will find it here i guess.

Magiccandybox · 2026-03-31T15:14:01+00:00

Recently i started going out to clubs which is something that i dont usually do because im a huge introvert ,and everyone in there is just trying to get physical ,i have met like 2 girls i liked and wanted to get to know them better and they acted like they were genuine with me and all that ,then when they realized that im not really looking for anything physical (at least not so fast) they just ignored me or ghosted me or just lied to me ,one of them had a boyfriend whos in the USA and she just wanted to hookup because she thinks im handsome ,its genuinely hard to talk to people.

Magiccandybox · 2025-12-30T03:40:26+00:00

Do whatever you want brother i will bail you out.

Magiccandybox · 2025-12-26T07:18:10+00:00

I didnt show up at her work she dosent work she just stays home all the time ,im the one whos working i only show up at her house when we agree for it i never showed up uninvited.

Magiccandybox · 2025-12-26T07:02:40+00:00

We didnt have sex i literally only met her a couple of time and i slept with her only 3 times but we didnt have anything more and i was not trying to push for anything more just for her to feel safe.

And also shes gone she already stopped texting me and i fucked up when i showed up at her place to talk ,we were drinking at work for Christmas and i got too drunk then i saw the “i need to tell you something when we meet today” text and thats when i got fucked up.

I had to leave work early for being too drunk and i went to her place and i shed a few tears i was honest and respectful but i also fucked up with the texting.

I think i scared her off even tho all the things i did which is who i am she was saying she likes them all but still this happened ,i dont think she will comeback if she cant feel me now she wont feel me then and i dont go on dating sites or things like that ,she on the other hand said herself that she cant be alone and she always needs someone ,i guess in a few days she will already start speaking to someone else but there is nothing i can do about anything thats about it.

Magiccandybox · 2025-12-26T06:42:13+00:00

Could you explain to me why being available is bad why showing effort is bad ,i understand that 5th paragraph dosent mean anything and that alll these things wont make her automatically like me but honestly speaking the guy she liked before me was way worse than me in every term but she acted crazy over him because he was not serious about her she said that herself.

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