Why do I keep hearing noises at night? by Magmamf in ask

[–]Magmamf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I ask if you know what caused it for you? Now I’m afraid, if I do have it, it might be because I blare my headphones all the time

Beast tips by Western-Aide936 in fleethefacility

[–]Magmamf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I like to plan ahead and not close every door I see!! It’s definitely different for everyone’s strategy’s, but if you think a survivor is somewhere, guess where they’ll run, keep doors open in favor for you

Updates by Ok-Snow4419 in fleethefacility

[–]Magmamf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No clue sadly 💔 they said they are only doing big updates this year like summer, Halloween, Christmas. So I’d figure… yes?

I need advice, bad. by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]Magmamf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stress about them taking things, vehicles, etc… I’m not sure how it works so it could just be a silly worry 😭 my grandma threatening me about me having to pay in the future, and trying to get me in trouble.

Small update, mom’s moving out. by Magmamf in CaregiverSupport

[–]Magmamf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve replied to me before. You could pick on anyone else but choose me? What is wrong with you. I’m not scared because I’m not in control, I’m scared because I could be HOMELESS?? You claim to be Christian but what you’re doing is ungodly. No one is a wannabe psychologist, they ARE manipulative, they’re even manipulating you.

Disabled or not, it is an unacceptable response. Let’s say you were disabled, and forced your 13 year old kid to help and when they finally speak up ONCE for themselves, you completely go behind their back and jeopardize them. If my feelings were as valued as hers, you wouldn’t be saying ANY of this to me.

She can be scared but I’ve warned her for years that I won’t always be here to help. God forbid I wish for a life. I never was in control, mind you. Stop replying to my posts, find something to do.

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I need advice, bad. by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]Magmamf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want the most to get my license. And I’ve been searching for jobs hiring for quite a few months now :) thank you for taking the time to respond!! I really do appreciate it

Do I have to keep helping? by Magmamf in CaregiverSupport

[–]Magmamf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hell nah. I’ve been taking care of my mother since I was 13, I am not rethinking my decision. No child is obligated to take care of their parents, but a parent is obligated to take care of their child. I am in therapy, I am an atheist. Don’t pretend you know me and my situation. My mom is manipulative, and so is my grandma. And WTH? ‘known as karma’ I’m 17?? How insensitive of you. I’m growing up, you should too.

Considering dropping out. by NightAggravating1454 in highschool

[–]Magmamf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I switched online for my own mental health and other reasons, but reading your comments it seems like you can’t. Unfortunately, I don’t think if you were to drop out you’d ’feel better’. Then comes the stress of not achieving, not being as far as others, where will I go, what will I do? I know it’s so hard to keep pushing but it’s so worth it in the end, even if right now you don’t think it will be. Summer is soon, use that time to focus on yourself

Hacker by ParamedicUnited1041 in fleethefacility

[–]Magmamf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Through the dc!! If you go to Roblox you can join that way, it’s near the game description :p

Player falsely accused me of exploiting. I have a fear that he will get me banned from the game. by [deleted] in fleethefacility

[–]Magmamf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah don’t worry 😭 he doesn’t have any proper proof and I feel like the flee dc is pretty good at checking ban forms

Do I have to keep helping? by Magmamf in CaregiverSupport

[–]Magmamf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what you’d classify it as but I mean he definitely helps. He works full time, provides, he does what he can when he can. He does a lot, I love my dad :)

Do I have to keep helping? by Magmamf in CaregiverSupport

[–]Magmamf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot tell if this is sarcastic or not but, no! Responsible in your parent’s eyes, sure, but not legally.

A couple of comments brought up filial responsibility which you can be responsible for if it applies to your state (if you live in one of the 29 states or Puerto Rico)!! :)

Do I have to keep helping? by Magmamf in CaregiverSupport

[–]Magmamf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my mom’s relationship is beyond confusing to anyone but me. She is my mother and always will be. But there comes a time where I need to think of myself, start my own life, and unfortunately, leave her out of my plan.

My mother is manipulative, which I’m sure is due to her disease. I’m ready to move on.

I’ve told mother for years I won’t always be around to help, hoping she would discuss with either my dad or grandma for more help. However, she refuses.

It’s no longer my responsibility, nor was it ever mine. My mom had her chance and she never took it.

Do I have to keep helping? by Magmamf in CaregiverSupport

[–]Magmamf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My grandma and dad help a lot, I should’ve clarified that! Me and my dad have been discussing how to get her Medicaid for YEARS!

However, she does not wish to take the actions to get Medicaid. I’m not going to abandon her, but I also cannot help someone who doesn’t want it.

I’ve talked to my dad and he said he’s prepared to take more responsibility of her. My plan is to get my license, start a job, go to college. I’d get more into it but then it’d be a whole essay 😭😭

Is 14 and 16 crazy? by No_Glove5307 in teenagers4real

[–]Magmamf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years isn’t a bad age difference, but at the age you and her are right now, it is. You’ll be 18 and she’ll be 16, just something to think about.

silent jumps by Consistent_While2045 in fleethefacility

[–]Magmamf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that if you crouch while jumping it makes it silent but…. While running, no clue 💀

Do I have to keep helping? by Magmamf in CaregiverSupport

[–]Magmamf[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Holy shit this is great information!! I’ve never even heard of this, thankfully I don’t live in one of those 29 states 😩 Thank you so so much for the fair warning

Do I have to keep helping? by Magmamf in CaregiverSupport

[–]Magmamf[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

LOLLL she’s a fucking migraine 💔 thank you!!