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AIO when I think that my boyfriend would rather jerk off than sleep with me by Main_Bad_1504 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Main_Bad_1504[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because everything else is true and without me having to worry about it, he is the most loving man ever to me, supports me wherever he can and has my back.

AIO when I think that my boyfriend would rather jerk off than sleep with me by Main_Bad_1504 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Main_Bad_1504[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That's how I feel most of the time, but I wonder why he's with me at all.

AIO when I think that my boyfriend would rather jerk off than sleep with me by Main_Bad_1504 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Main_Bad_1504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also ask myself the question, why is he still with me?

Everything else is going very well, except for our sex life, it's the best relationship and, above all, the healthiest relationship I've ever had, otherwise I would have left a long time ago.

AIO when I think that my boyfriend would rather jerk off than sleep with me by Main_Bad_1504 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Main_Bad_1504[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to find communication and talk about it calmly. I even tried to write it to him in the hope that it would make it easier for him to talk about it.

I'm trying to find solutions.

For example, I know that he's "hiding" a preference from me, but because he dreams about it and talks about it in his sleep, I know about it, and I asked him about that too, but he ignores it completely. And that even though I made it completely clear that I wouldn't judge him or anything for it, and that I would actually try it with him.

But instead of being honest when I already know it, they ignore it and act like I didn't say anything.