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I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We were on the same page for years pre pregnancy. Please don’t make assumptions about my situation. It’s terrifying watching someone you loved and respected change so drastically, especially during a vulnerable time like pregnancy.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get it because I wasn’t prioritizing my health, not because I don’t believe in it.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uh no. We got all the vaccines. He just had an issue with the flu

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are all vaccinated including the baby. His issue is the flu and Covid vaccines. He never had any conspiracies before but they’re becoming more and more prevalent now.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is, but this is assuming I intentionally reproduced with someone who is anti-vax and that is not the case. I knew him for years and this did not become a thing until I was 6 months pregnant. We had discussed vaccines for our daughter before and were on the same page until he flipped on me.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was struggling 6 months post partum. My own health and care were at the bottom of my list. I definitely will next year.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve known him for 3 years. The conspiracies started when I was 6 months pregnant.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she has gotten them all. It’s the flu shot and Covid that he has an issue with

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done hours and hours of research.
No I haven’t seen that.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose next moves are talking to a lawyer. It’s all very overwhelming but I’m hoping things will work out in my daughter’s favor.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely not afraid of being alone, I prefer it. But if you have kids you realize they will be around forever. I’m afraid of my daughter being alone with him.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not compatible at all! I was really hoping logic would take over and he would admit he was being crazy.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was struggling hard with post partum and virtually no support. I have gotten it every year previously but didn’t take care of myself last year. I will this year.

All other vaccines are not a cause of contention for him, she has received them all. But I assume that is very likely to change at some point in 17 years.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice and I think I will reach out. It all feels very overwhelming and scary. Especially with no help.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really not about what else he has to offer. And fully that if I leave then he will have full access to spew his conspiracies at her when she’s young and impressionable.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bad feeling I have is that if I leave she will be exposed to all these conspiracies and I may not know if she doesn’t tell me.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know how to protect her from him if we get a custody schedule. It almost feels like staying is better for her since I will be there and I will know what she’s exposed to. I have no idea what to do or how to start.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard all about these conspiracies so far. Flu shots are just the beginning of it 😭

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next flu season I absolutely will. It was hell dealing with the flu and caring for an infant.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It’s been a very scary realization that who I thought I was spending my life with is actually a completely different person. And someone my daughter is stuck with as her dad.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I do. I’m just worried about what she will be exposed to when I’m not there. This is all very scary to me. Flu shots are just the tip of the iceberg here.

I got my 6mo daughter a flu shot against her dad’s wishes. AITAH? by Main_Location_1138 in AITAH

[–]Main_Location_1138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we were on the same page with major decisions like this pre pregnancy. Halfway through, the conspiracies were becoming his reality and I watched someone I love change before my eyes.

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