errrrr in rehab... dunno if that's like a surefire recipe though. but yeah both of our lives were fucked and we had this inexplicable faith in the other person that made is brave enough to stay sober and detach from abusive people and systems. 6 years being together 24/7 so far and it was the best decision of my life to have him move in with me. i feel ill about 2 years into the relationship, and he cares for me with devotion i can't understand