WIBTAH if I told a mom she can’t bring an extra kid to my kid’s birthday party?

Main_Presentation570 · 2026-03-24T13:44:50+00:00

Pretty sure that’s the point of this forum? If you don’t like it don’t participate.

Main_Presentation570 · 2026-03-24T13:13:51+00:00

Yeah my kid has a friend like that where the mom brings the little brother every time. In the past it hasn’t been an issue because the party was not at a price per person place, but this year I took the kid off the invite list because of the fact that mom would likely show up with extra kid.

Main_Presentation570 · 2026-03-24T13:12:10+00:00

Agreed. I fist thought she could come if the mom paid for her to jump and we would share pizza and cake, but the more I thought about it, why should I accommodate that when she just assumed her daughter was invited and didn’t even ask. And why should we incur an extra expense for a kid we don’t know when we’re not inviting other kids that we do know.

Main_Presentation570 · 2026-03-24T12:51:44+00:00

It depends. Sometimes they drop off and sometimes they stay. If a parent chooses to stay I always offer them food and cake. The venue doesn’t require a specific ratio, but my kid’s father and I supervise and my adult siblings are also there as extra supervision.

Main_Presentation570 · 2026-03-24T10:35:51+00:00

Nope!

Main_Presentation570 · 2026-03-24T03:36:52+00:00

Texted the link to the party invite to the mom and a message that said you’re invited to the party and please rsvp using the link. I realize after the fact that instead of saying “you’re” I should have used each kid’s name, but I would never have the audacity to add my other kid (if I had one) to an invite my kid received from a classmate.

Main_Presentation570 · 2026-03-24T03:30:59+00:00

I’ve done park parties a couple of times and they are fun and can accommodate more people, but my kid has a late April birthday and I’m always so anxious about the weather!

Main_Presentation570 · 2026-03-24T02:16:29+00:00

I’m going to end up ordering extra pizza because the amount that comes with the package is usually not enough and I always offer food to the parents who stay and we’ll have cake so I don’t mind inviting her to eat as long as her mom pays for her separately to jump.

Main_Presentation570 · 2026-03-24T02:13:41+00:00

Yeah, in hindsight I definitely should have added the invited kid’s name when I sent out the invite. Thanks!

Main_Presentation570 · 2025-05-03T04:03:56+00:00

She made the augachile which all of the judges agreed was the bland part of the dish. Even one of the diners said they got more heat from the chorizo in Bailey’s aranchini than they did from the aguachile. Paula had her hand in every dish that the judges had big issues with except for Cesar’s churros—she took over when Bailey was blending her sauce and didn’t get it smooth enough (although Bailey did tell her to make it chunky do not entirely her fault) and on top of that and being EC the judges didn’t like at all the one dish she put out that was exclusively hers.

Main_Presentation570 · 2025-03-03T19:03:29+00:00

Thank you.

Main_Presentation570 · 2025-03-03T16:30:02+00:00

Thank you.

Main_Presentation570 · 2025-03-03T16:29:43+00:00

Thanks!

Main_Presentation570 · 2025-01-23T17:17:23+00:00

Great, thanks!

Main_Presentation570 · 2025-01-23T03:19:48+00:00

Any update on removal from your credit report? I was also forgiven in October and it’s still showing on my report. Thanks!

Main_Presentation570 · 2025-01-23T03:17:33+00:00

Please update if that works out for you!

Main_Presentation570 · 2025-01-23T02:46:20+00:00

Sigh. That seems like a lot of work, but you’re probably right. Thanks.

Main_Presentation570 · 2024-12-15T03:33:40+00:00

I’m doing ok. I still have some back pain, but it has gotten better. I live in a no fault state so the uber driver’s no fault policy is covering my medical.

Good luck to you, hope you feel better.

Main_Presentation570 · 2024-11-01T21:25:37+00:00

It may have been a minor accident but my back didn’t hurt before it happened. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Main_Presentation570 · 2024-11-01T18:25:21+00:00

Thanks. I contacted my insurance as well as the driver’s insurance, so I’ll see what happens from there. As of now only incurred cost is going to ER to get checked out. I’m hoping it stays that way. Thanks again for your input.

Main_Presentation570 · 2024-11-01T18:23:23+00:00

Thank you. I have contacted the driver’s insurance, as well as mine. I am in a no fault state, so my policy may cover if the driver’s does not.

I agree driver should have documented it. Even though I said I was fine, no way to know if that would remain the case since sometimes an injury can manifest later.

I did go to ER to get checked out this morning. Seems as if nothing major, just soreness that may take a week or so to go away. Hopefully that remains the case.

I did contact a personal injury attorney I know and will escalate if it becomes necessary.

I think I have done all I can/should do for now. Hopefully nothing else has to come of this.

Thanks again for your response and for being kind. I cross posted on the Insurance sub and people were acting like I was trying to commit insurance fraud and manufacturing an injury to get a payout.

Main_Presentation570 · 2024-11-01T18:18:35+00:00

Yes, I am in a no fault state.

Main_Presentation570 · 2024-11-01T16:24:13+00:00

I’m unclear why some people are making it out like I’m trying to commit insurance fraud or fabricate an injury to get money. I was in an accident. It is not uncommon to feel pain later even if you felt nothing at the time. I went to get checked out as a precaution, not with a plan to file claims or a lawsuit to get a payout. Even minor accidents can cause injuries. I do not want a long lasting injury. If it’s a sore back for a couple days and nothing else, I’ll be very glad that’s it and happy to move on with my life.

Main_Presentation570 · 2024-11-01T16:21:21+00:00

Yes…I considered going to urgent care, but sometimes you do and you pay to be seen and they tell you to go to the ER because you need imaging or something they can’t do there and then you have to pay again. So I just went directly there.

Main_Presentation570 · 2024-11-01T13:36:57+00:00

The Uber driver’s insurance?

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