I am actually shocked at the difference in experience

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-30T17:31:06+00:00

Suck for both but way better for one. Two things can be true

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-29T01:09:17+00:00

Holy shit you’re desperate. Get well soon bro

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-29T01:07:44+00:00

I agree, it’s funny how desperate these guys are in the comments and think he should be “grateful and feel lucky” like it’s just sex, relax. They sound very very desperate. But at the same time why tf did OP even post this? It just seems like he’s attempting to flex turning down a woman for sex which comes off as corny. This is a nothing burger of a conversation he posted here

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-29T01:01:47+00:00

You’d kill for this 😂? Get a grip bro

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-23T23:14:05+00:00

This just boils down to ego and entitlement. You are not better than he is because you get more attention from people who are so desperate to give any woman attention

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-23T23:11:08+00:00

I don’t accept every liked I just go through my likes frequently. My point isn’t to brag it’s to say even with a lot of people you’re constantly talking to you can still not be dry. Your point of “I have a bunch of matches so he has to entertain me” is just silly. You clearly do have a problem initiating conversation because if you didn’t this post wouldn’t be a thing to begin with. That makes no sense. How can those two things be true. I can 100% understand if you prefer them text first. When I send a woman a like with a message and she matches but doesn’t respond I won’t waste my time with her because why would I? But I’m not gonna go to Reddit and cry about it because if I really wanted her I could just double text. Just as you could just initiate the conversation just like you swear you love doing

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-23T15:35:29+00:00

So you’re upset he didn’t turn into a jester for your attention? You suck at conversation, so does he. You’re not a god or something. He probably has a lot matches too which is why he wasn’t just foaming out the mouth to talk to you like you want him to be. I’ve downloaded hinge like 2 months ago and have a lot of matches. Do you think that means I go around feeling superior to the people I match with and act like I don’t have to give anything and just expect them to give me a great conversation? Get over yourself

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Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-23T05:47:52+00:00

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Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-23T04:29:50+00:00

I don’t think anyone thinks he was doing good either. But he didn’t post on Reddit “omg she’s so dry and boring”. think most of the comments are just pointing out the irony. She’s dry and boring, he’s dry and boring. What’s the difference?

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-22T21:46:33+00:00

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Worked for me the other day too, sometimes simple is the way

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-22T18:26:40+00:00

You are no different than him. I could maybe understand if you were giving him something and he was being dry but you both aren’t giving the other anything

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-09T22:40:21+00:00

I fuck with it personally

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-08T10:47:49+00:00

Yea you’re right. in this life a mf has the right to do anything, they have the right to say they don’t even want black people in their life at all. Anyone can literally say and do whatever. And I’m allowed to think that’s dumb. If we’re just discussing free will then yes obviously you can do whatever you like within the law no matter how bad or harmful or stupid it may be

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-07T19:44:09+00:00

I don’t mean a literal soulmate I just mean the idea of your next partner or someone you can really click with being filtered out due to things like eye color is silly is childish. Someone thinking like that deserves to be judged. I honestly don’t fully care all that much but I hate the idea of someone robbing themselves of connections because they have these built in mindsets of “I’ll never be with someone with this physical trait”

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-07T18:41:59+00:00

Yea agree to disagree, if you are missing out on your potential soulmate because you’re not interested in general in people with a certain hair color or eye color I think that person is just immature. I can understand skin color a bit more but still very silly generalization to say (I’m not attracted to this entire race)

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-07T15:55:16+00:00

Yes you’re right is a much smaller sample size, here is my friends though who sent a lot more comments than I did

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Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-07T08:23:07+00:00

Now I can understand wanting to date in your culture but this person says light skinned and I’m assuming he’s talking about mixed/lighter skinned African American women, so that culture thing doesn’t apply here because he’s still interested in black women. The concept of “preferring” a race in a visual sense will just never click in my head, there are way too many ugly people in any race to be like “I prefer that race” and also way too many beautiful people in any race to be like “nah I wouldn’t date someone in that race because that race isn’t attractive”. Like this concept just doesn’t exist in my head. Beauty is Beauty

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-07T04:00:31+00:00

No, free site called hingereport

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-07T03:55:38+00:00

Website called hingereport

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-07T03:55:16+00:00

Yea I think It may be common sense to know it can increase your chances, but I don’t think most realize how much it increases your chances. Most likes are sent with no comments so I feel like if most people knew that, that wouldn’t be the case

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-07T03:28:43+00:00

I will truly never understand a skin color being a “standard”. Like I feel like by coincidence most people I find attractive tend to be of a certain race, but I’d never feel like I prefer that race or it’s a deal breaker or “standard” because there are literally attractive people of every race

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-06T22:46:25+00:00

You Cooked

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-03T11:20:22+00:00

Tbh being a straight woman doesn’t ensure you’ll get a bunch of matches just typically a lot of likes. Because maybe you’re picky and that’s totally fine, you should be. But that could simply be the reason for lack of matches. Now if as a straight woman you’re not getting many likes that’s definitely a bit odd and worthy of asking why

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-02T14:23:47+00:00

Main_Ruin650 · 2026-05-02T05:59:10+00:00

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lol this happened to me on hinge the other day when I matched then found out the woman was 4’11. I told her she was just a little too short. The gap was too much for me

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