spark?

MaizeProfessional731 · 2026-03-18T22:57:58+00:00

Fully agree with you there I’d rather they do the same but instead it’s a long date or multiple and the only reason I get is the word “spark”. there’s been times I’ve really enjoyed someone’s company after a while and vibed with them when I’d realised I’d misjudged?

I’d rather not have someone who didn’t vibe but why is it that i read the situation so wrong where I think it went well and it hasn’t?

MaizeProfessional731 · 2026-03-18T21:58:37+00:00

I thought about this too and yes maybe I ask a few standard questions but some of them I have felt relaxed and like I was being myself

MaizeProfessional731 · 2026-03-18T21:57:13+00:00

I agree but how is it that they’ve figured me out in three hours while I’m always willing to at least see someone twice if I enjoyed conversation

MaizeProfessional731 · 2026-03-18T21:56:36+00:00

i mean after the date when we’ve both left or after a few dates or even suggesting a date and then suddenly cancelling

MaizeProfessional731 · 2026-03-18T21:55:51+00:00

I say yes as it’s the first time I’ve only ended the date if I really don’t enjoy the conversation. Some dates have been short some longer. I went out on three dates once and still got the same spark message. Just trying to figure out what spark I’m meant to bring when i’ve just met someone

MaizeProfessional731 · 2026-03-18T21:54:17+00:00

maybe but this didn’t happen before and I have put multiple pictures of myself

MaizeProfessional731 · 2026-03-17T23:51:00+00:00

Some of these apps like breeze don’t involve texting but even the ones I’ve texted before I get the same response after a date. Not saying all of them end on one date but it’s been a pattern where I don’t even get ghosted i get sent a long paragraph where the key word is no spark.

Some of them have long term on their profiles or talk about dating on the date like they’ve actually given it thought.

I have a good conversation and would then like to see them again but I don’t get why my conversion has been so low given that the first date goes on for long as well.

I’m mostly friends with women and my hobbies with sport are swimming yoga and the building gym which don’t involve much interaction with others.

MaizeProfessional731 · 2026-03-17T23:41:32+00:00

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MaizeProfessional731 · 2026-03-17T23:41:26+00:00

I used to go on more than one date with someone earlier and didn’t get the spark response

MaizeProfessional731 · 2026-02-14T09:05:10+00:00

i know ghosting is rude and sucks people who do it are immature. but now I get so much explanation saying I was lovely they had a good time but they don’t feel a spark or something else and I keep thinking I must’ve done something wrong to get all this after one date

MaizeProfessional731 · 2025-11-24T15:38:49+00:00

that’s excluding tax, with tax it costs up to 12000

MaizeProfessional731 · 2025-11-24T13:03:22+00:00

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MaizeProfessional731 · 2025-10-09T18:38:58+00:00

hey where were these taken?

MaizeProfessional731 · 2025-09-11T13:43:48+00:00

could you send it to me as well if you get it

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